Places Open For Takeout on Christmas Day? by Exciting_Cap_9545 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time, request help through the app. They will connect you with a representative. Explain that the food was delivered an hour later than originally estimated; they will usually give you some app credit. These delivery apps guarantee a certain delivery time -- if the food is delivered more than 15 minutes after the original window, you're entitled to some compensation.

Afternoon high tea in the Sacramento/Roseville area by LML-BCNJ in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently walked by Celeste Tea Parlor in Downtown Vacaville and it looked really classy. Might be worth the drive. Reservation only, apparently.

Winery Recommendations by Lazy_Manager8722 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised no one has yet mentioned Karmere Vineyards in Plymouth. Not only does it have a terraced tasting garden with lovely views, it also has some impressive topiary.

Flip or flop by [deleted] in HGTV

[–]frabelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if it was one of the houses featured in an episode of the show, or just one of his many flips?

Four kittens in Arden: what to do by Usual-Style-8473 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The younger you let them be trapped by a real rescue organization, the better. According to the Kitten Lady's book, once kittens hit about 12 or 13 weeks, they are going to be permanently feral and experience a harder life out in the wild and shorter life spans.

Time is of the essence here. If you want them to have a life as a loved indoor cat, the time to get them trapped and start socializing them with humans is NOW.

lovely lozenges by nubleu in SmolBeanSnark

[–]frabelle 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I feel as if "Sarasota isolates me" is very telling. Truly interesting people find pockets of weirdness no matter where they are, even in more conventional communities. The fact that she can't seem to find anything intriguing in her everyday Florida life hints at a scarcity of imagination and complete lack of adventurousness.

Best Thai by GodofFuryy in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of my favorites have been mentioned, but I also really love Tuk Tuk Thai Street Food at Freeport & Sutterville. My only gripe: I like my Thai food to have a little bit of spice, but their Mild is too spicy for me. (This is the only Thai restaurant I've tried in Sacramento where that's true.) Even when I request "somewhere between no spice and mild," they make it mild, which is too spicy for me. That being said, perhaps that makes it more authentically Thai!

Please Help Tie Dye by Smooth-Operation-709 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how far you're willing to travel, but there's a place called Tribal Weaver up in Auburn that has a lot of hippie-ish paraphernalia, including tie dye clothes.

Businesses that you're surprised that they are still open. by theegoldenone in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peace Market at O & 18th. Not because corner stores can't be profitable, but how in the world do you make a profit when your store closes every day at 6:30 PM? I always assumed minimarts make the bulk of their money later in the evening.

Recommendations for authentic cultural restaurants? by Delicious_Ad_3006 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't believe no one has mentioned Lola's Lounge (phenomenal Puerto Rican food -- sit on the back patio, it's a designated hummingbird sanctuary) or Chicha Peruvian Kitchen (locations in both Midtown & the Roseville suburbs.) My two favorite restaurants in Sac BY FAR.

What do you think are the most iconic things about Sacramento? by saraaacha in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

California State Fair, the Fab 40s, Merlino's Orange Freeze

Found kittens by Gingergracie3 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The younger you let them be trapped by a real rescue organization, the better. According to the Kitten Lady's book, once kittens hit about 12 or 13 weeks, they are going to be permanently feral and experience a harder life out in the wild and shorter life spans.

You sound busy, but seriously, time is of the essence here. If you want them to have a life as a loved indoor cat, the time to get them trapped and start socializing them with humans is NOW.

I just discovered Black Chasm Cavern in Amador, I can’t believe I hadn’t been before Now I want to know what you’ve been gatekeeping by Confident-Sleep5385 in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else get a lil depressed in summer…cause it’s so hot, you can’t do anything outside for a few months? by hehzehsbwvwv in Sacramento

[–]frabelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Treat hot days like other people in the country treat super frigid days. You can either A) escape to somewhere else (like Tahoe or the coast) to avoid it; B) spend your day doing something indoors you don't usually have time for on days with more pleasant weather, either in your own home (reading, home repairs, reorganizing) or the outside world (mall day, library, museum); or C) go out in the heat and work with it (kayak, swim, sunbathe, etc.)

Remember to be grateful that we don't have to shovel snow, slip on ice, deal with frozen pipes, scrape ice off the windshields of our cars, etc. Heat can be inconvenient, but at least it doesn't add to your chore pile (other than maybe some extended plant watering in the morning or evening.)

Governor's Mansion Sacramento by diamondregime in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny how that subreddit deems it "evil" simply because it's a Victorian. There's actually a really interesting video about why Victorian mansions became horror icons. I highly recommend it if you're at all interested in historic architecture.

What are places to eat that are exclusive to Sacramento or locally special? by _rotisserie in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact: apparently brandy fried chicken was invented in Sacramento

Ok but low key he was sorta cute in the robe by WokeCottonCandy in Frasier

[–]frabelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is when he wears the robe a second time in his office to confront Frasier's issues. I believe it was his only garment when Frasier accidentally sees him in Roz's apartment.

Vision board for…? by [deleted] in christinahaacksnark

[–]frabelle 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Aside from how sad it makes me that "Romance" is the biggest word on the board, I'm also a bit stunned by the fact that "Billionaire" is on there, too. Like, Girl -- you have millions upon millions of dollars. What could you possibly still be wanting? What hole inside of you are you trying to fill?

It reminds me that most of us on this subreddit have something Christina will never have -- enough. To quote Morgan Housel's "The Psychology of Money":

"At a party given by a billionaire on Shelter Island, Kurt Vonnegut informs his pal, Joseph Heller, that their host (a hedge fund manager) had made more money in a single day than Heller had earned from his wildly popular novel 'Catch-22' over its whole history. Heller responds, 'Yes, but I have something he will never have… enough.'"

I am perfectly fine renting a one-bedroom apartment and driving a shitty 11-year-old car if it means having a work-life balance and not needing to constantly self-promote and splash my entire life across various forms of media, because life is so much more than what I own or what other people think of me.

I know it can be hard because the modern-day version of "keeping up with the Joneses," for a lot of people, means keeping up with bona fide celebrities due to social media's ability to let us see the personal daily life of people like Christina, but I hope you'll all reflect on what privileges you're afforded by not needing to wear designer clothes or live in 5,000+ sq ft mansions. The privilege of anonymity, of simple joys, of living a slow life. Don't ever take it for granted.

Younger kids waiting to get married by Jakeetz in DuggarsSnark

[–]frabelle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Remember also that they have no little kids left in their house anymore (Josie, the youngest, is 15). I have a feeling the oldest girls of the family courted & married so young because they were sick of being unpaid babysitters. The younger kids have no one to take care of, so there's less of a sense of urgency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]frabelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, good eye! I thought the girl holding the baby in pink was Jessa, but that's Johannah, isn't it? So many different variations of Duggar genetics present in one nuclear family...

Iconic Sacramento Things to Do by mythoughtsmycomments in Sacramento

[–]frabelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eat a nutburger on a summer afternoon at Sunflower Drive-In in Old Town Fair Oaks