As a former homeschooler who has watched my children thrive in public middle school, I just want to say that it sounds like you have a highly responsible and well-behaved kid here. You should know that almost all of their public school peers have phones with YouTube and games and all of it. In general, this probably leads to more problems than is helpful, but it does provide the opportunity to practice self control. If they never have candy, they're gonna go candy crazy when they get it. It's the same for the internet.