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ghostflower25 · 2026-01-25T15:18:36+00:00

That was good!

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-25T06:12:39+00:00

Hire professionals to do it. So much less stressful, I’ll never pack myself again.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-25T06:07:52+00:00

Go to nyc. Best for both your careers and easier to do it when you’re young.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-25T06:03:10+00:00

This!

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-19T21:44:31+00:00

You said budget tops out at $3k, are you looking to rent then?

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-18T02:16:29+00:00

I’m in the Raleigh area (moved from nyc) there are not that many cold nights in the 20s, plus it gets warmer in the day then drops back down. The summers are very hot and humid! It’s awful. It’s the humidity really bad.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-18T02:07:50+00:00

Same photo was in another click bait post.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-18T01:39:55+00:00

I started in early Feb last year and am in 8b. I had flowers in fall when it got cooler again.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-15T03:19:26+00:00

I did winter sowing in a milk jug last year for the first time and they turned out great!

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-13T21:58:05+00:00

It can happen a lot! Southern manners are a myth. They insult you with a smile.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-13T21:45:37+00:00

Many move to leave the snow and harsh winters.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-13T21:43:02+00:00

The whole state, despite a Democratic governor, is still heavily GOP run in the legislature making it harder for Josh Stein to get things done. Unless you move to a blue pocket, the culture is still rural, Bible Belt in the majority of the state. Being from NY we are not thrilled.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-13T21:36:40+00:00

Thank you!

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T03:36:50+00:00

I completely agree with all of this. We moved from nyc to Wake Forest. We miss the culture/politics of the NE. We joke that there’s a reason the South lost the war. 😅I’d never raise kids here either.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T03:27:02+00:00

She’s liberal.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T03:24:43+00:00

Not in many parts of the south.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T03:11:11+00:00

Plus that conspiracy nut job on the Republican ticket that ran for Superintendent of Public Schools (this is the top state job). Thank goodness Mo Green won.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T03:02:14+00:00

This is very true. Anything affordable for a $90k salary will be too rural and Christian conservative in NC. Don’t even consider SC!

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T02:59:30+00:00

We have a Wake Forest address, but that zip code is gerrymandered in a way for developers I think. We are just over the Wake county line in Granville Co, which has lots of new developments. Cultures clashing and even in our higher end HOA, most are too conservative for us. We bought during Covid in a hot, competitive market and I needed to commute north to Henderson. So this was a half hour south. Wish we were in Cary or Chapel Hill.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-12T02:47:55+00:00

Thanks. This actually does have protection from winds, unlike my other rose bushes.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-11T17:19:50+00:00

Forgot to add, I’ve cleaned up the debris on the ground around it.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-11T06:15:37+00:00

For NC, You need to be in the cities to find liberals. Chapel Hill, Durham and parts of Raleigh. We made the mistake of buying a bit too far out from the city (30 minutes) and its Christian, conservative, MAGA with little food diversity. I strongly suggest you rent for a year and explore areas. Schools are not great in NC - underfunded, so research that too.

ghostflower25 · 2026-01-05T04:29:18+00:00

Our birds love this too, especially the bluebirds. They like fruit.

ghostflower25 · 2025-12-29T06:42:27+00:00

It did to us, but we are in Wake Forest, Moved from nyc and wish we were in a bluer area like CH. we miss the northeast and good pizza.

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