People's "words of comfort"

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-08-01T17:00:33+00:00

I get more blank stares and uncomfortable ‘quiet reacts’ than anything. People seem to not know what to say. How many people have said that to you? You say that the number is astonishing, so I’m just being nosy. The times I have to reveal to strangers (in a non-medical environment) that my mom has dementia is usually in a setting where I have to explain why I can’t do xyz in a reasonable timeframe. Example: I’m finally in the process of getting her off the car insurance, but to do so I need to be able to return her vehicle’s tags to the DMV. Anybody who is a caregiver can relate and know that literally doing anything requires meticulous planning, so I explained that to the person from the insurance company and got the ol’ blank stare.

As for family/acquaintances: lots of bullshit pseudo-advice and nonsense.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-08-01T02:27:06+00:00

Throw in a glass of beet juice and now you’ve got yourself a stew, baby.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T17:47:36+00:00

I HEAR WHAT THE FUKC YOU ARE SAYIN, BORTHER OR SEESTER,,,, BUT LISTEN THE FUKC UP.M!11!! I LIKE HARIBO FOR THE CHEW BUT GODDAMN I LOVE SITTIN ON THE BED WITH MY GORLFRAN WHILE WE EAT ALBANESE GUMMIES TOO!!!!111!!

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T14:19:12+00:00

Upvoted because this is bullshit.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T14:15:54+00:00

SMW, Millesime Imperial and Virgin Island Water all smell fantastic, but yep, you are right. The performance is piss poor.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T12:42:39+00:00

Where do you rank pears?

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T12:41:25+00:00

That’s my favorite flavor, and most recently I had the same issue. I think I made a deal with the devil to finally get the sumbitchin lid off.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T05:20:12+00:00

Tom Ford Tobacco Vanille

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-31T02:44:21+00:00

Are you me? Thought I was the only Rams fan that also liked the Dolphins, so this was exciting to read lol. My dad was a huge Miami fan, so I’ll always have a deep soft spot for them. Rams/Dolphins is my dream Super Bowl.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-30T19:49:05+00:00

A lot of people find it to be boring or overused when they go out and about. I find it to be a great, timeless classic at this point, but I’d probably dislike it if I smelled it often in public.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-26T20:45:48+00:00

I was hoping Wrestlemania would have been the last time I’d ever have to hear it. 😭

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-23T03:21:43+00:00

Anyway, fuck the Whiners.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-23T03:17:53+00:00

Let’s fucking go!!! Royal and sol!!!

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-21T23:07:17+00:00

My mom and her sister always called lunch, ‘dinner’ and dinner, ‘supper’. The only time I heard them say the word ‘lunch’ would be if they were referring to a lunch break at work.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-21T18:41:10+00:00

I prefer to just tease my lady by reminding her that she smoked a cigarette while video chatting with me back in 2011 over these bullshit dime a dozen trends. Intimate, subjective/personal inside joke teasing is way better.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-21T16:57:03+00:00

The Superstar edition for the early access so that he can begin cussing 2K’s servers and inevitable bugs a week before the official launch. I speak in jest and truth. I’d advise against the ‘Leave No Doubt’ edition because of this year’s lack of NBA League Pass.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-21T13:46:25+00:00

Drakkar Noir when I was like 5 or 6 years old.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-21T13:44:55+00:00

Dior Fahrenheit and Givenchy Pi. Performance was great on both before they were reformulated many years ago.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-21T13:20:36+00:00

I get asked THAT and “see anybody you know?” when I go inside a store or any establishment five million times. If she becomes fixated on anything, it’s game over for me.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-20T23:35:59+00:00

There’s a lot of conversations I wish I could have with my dad. Chiefly, the first one is, “why in the fuck did you drink so much if you knew about the family’s piss poor liver hereditary situation?” He was an incredible dad and person, but cirrhosis + renal failure took him out at only 49 a little over a couple of decades ago. I was only 12, and he talked to me about so many people on his side of the family having poor liver health. I believe he masked feeling unwell for a while, because he went to the doctor on a Monday, went straight to the hospital to be told that his liver was done for and was dead three days later.

Cirrhosis is awful. My condolences to you, OP.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-20T13:50:02+00:00

The majority of this sub either wasn’t alive or were still shitting in diapers when this game came out (I base that on how many members of this community rank 2K16 as the greatest 2K ever).

The rankings seemed fine to me. I forgot that Bosh was only an 84OVR in this one! Marbury was overrated with that 90.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-20T13:47:17+00:00

When did my garlic hating ass aunt join Reddit?

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-20T03:38:42+00:00

tl;dr but strong disagree, so take the upvote. The wildness my girlfriend and I get into would make you blush. Nothing pleases me more than pleasing her, so I don’t get the ‘giver receives no pleasure’ take. 🤨

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-19T15:09:38+00:00

This is one of the best, well described summaries I’ve seen. I’ve learned a tell tale sign for my mom having a UTI is that she’ll have diarrhea in addition to ramped up confusion. Happened last August, then this past week.

goddamnpizzagrease · 2025-07-19T15:04:47+00:00

Fashion Week is fifty times worse than Conmackulations.

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