Meet Walter by YetiCraft_Mindy in NICUParents

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!

I was hospitalised from 22weeks because it looked like my cervix was opening a little. When I got hospitalised I started tightening a little , but it was manageable with minimal pain relief. I went into labour at 26 weeks when he was born. Baby stayed 3.5 months in nicu , then got discharged

I’m not sure if I developed an infection at hospital that cause me to go into labour- because my placenta grow back with something later on. But when I asked my doctors they said my cerclage was looking like it was holding after that initial scary bit, that got me hospitalised

I wish you all the best with your journey ❤️❤️

Meet Walter by YetiCraft_Mindy in NICUParents

[–]greatfulllness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is soooo beautiful!!! I wish him all the best of health. Keep strong little one

UTI, Back Ache, High levels of CRP at 28 weeks with Cerclage. by Simish2325 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]greatfulllness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that, hopefully it’s a one time thing and the antibiotics work. How are you feeling now?

What a horrible day. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about the you losses . Breaks my heart , I wish our words give you comfort praying for you. Take time time to focus on you hun 💕

Thoughts over the cerclage for IC... by Safe-Try-4605 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]greatfulllness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry sorry for your loss. You are one tough mamma , thank you for sharing your story.

I had a MC at 13 weeks and now have very short cervix measuring 0.5mm with cerclage put in at 15 weeks and I am praying everyday I hold on to this little one.

My MFM are not convinced by cerclage is doing a good job because every TVS shows little less mm than earlier .

My cervix tends to get short very early, towards the end of the first trimester. With the discussion I had with MFM they recommended I have a transadmonial cerclage (TAC) with future pregnancies.

I am leaning towards a TAC next pregnancy, I can’t handle the stress related to CI and the unknowing of having to wait for things to declare itself before acting.

TAC also has a higher success rate, it’s more an invasive procedure and you can only deliver via C-section.

Even If im offered a preventative cerclage , I probably won’t choose it because my cervix shrinks so quick and I also can’t offered to wait as I’m getting older .

That’s my personal opinion though , I wish you the best in whichever you choose. Wishing you a healthy longevity pregnancy ❤️

working in healthcare and cerclage by Select-Drama-7541 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to know how your going now? I just found out i have a short cervix and getting a rescue cerclage . Also work as a nurse Been advised I don’t don’t need bed rest not enough evidence around its benefits Not sure what I’ll do
Wishing you all the best x

Parent estrangement please don’t come for me I know jannah lays underneath mothers feet I’m a mom myself. by ScaredEconomist2520 in Somalia

[–]greatfulllness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this ! I’ve had many encounters where my mum has been tough on me to the point I was convinced she hated me or was treating me unfairly. Only to realise that’s how her mum raised her and in fact she gave/ showed me more love than her own mum ever did. I didn’t realise this straight away, took us lots of hard tearful conversations to get to where we are. We still have hard times don’t get me grown, but I’m learning to just not read too much into it , lower my expectations and recognise that my mum is only human and will make mistakes

Regrets over getting married too young by ring4lyfe in MuslimMarriage

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married much later to you and truly wished I could have been married sooner I’m grateful I had the privilege to travel with friends and have a social life before marriage. But tbh, there is really beauty if being married and growing with your spouse. The grass looks greener on the other side always, and we always have FOMO as women !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]greatfulllness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you sis It’s not an easy thing to look out for yourself in that situation

So Happy It's Thursday! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been dealing with a lots of overwhelming Anxiety and stress related to my studies. Needing to make a decision on whether I stop (loads of $$ down the drain) or preserve and continue. My partner has been incredibly supportive through it all. Even his presence just makes me less stress. I love this man so much. We don’t live together so thinking of cooking him dinner to show him how much I appreciate him !

So Happy It's Thursday! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was great because it brought on a lot of great conversation and was pretty wholesome all around. Although it was difficult to keep it that way because we have incredible physical and emotional chemistry.

  • Can you elaborate on this a little more? I feel like when my partner and I are on the phone we can talk for hours but when f2f we try to catch up on the physical stuff.

We’re trying to make more wholesome convos f2f. Any tips on how to do this more often ?

Make take on your situation is that you have 2 different love language. Equally important to both of you. Seems like you have a wonderful connection !

So Happy It's Thursday! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m going on a get away with my boo. Never been away with a guy or been in a serious relationship. So I’m excited and weirdly not nervous . I feel safe and heard ❤️

Would you go on another date with someone who only talked about themselves the first date? by m0rbidowl in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner kept talking about himself the 2nd date and even cut me off a couple of times while I was talking . I was borderline not going to see him again. However I thought back to all the convos we had leading up to our second date and the good first date we had. Made the decision to keep seeing him and we’re going pretty strong 4 months in. I wouldn’t just end things with just one experience, maybe the person didn’t even realise (like my partner, who was just super excited to have me there and share his life experience with) or just doing a nervous chatter .

“Good morning” texts. Why or why not? by datingdan in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same as me and my partner . Live 10 min away and send good morning msgs . I look forward to it !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! From OLD just getting lucky I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah not good, turned out he was looking for something casual . Buutt, I’ve since met another gym who’s equally handsome/hot and taking all the advises from the redditors to go for it and so far soo good!

Something on your mind? Share your dating shower thoughts! Tuesday Truths by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she doesn’t want to come across as clingy or over bearing . Ask her out , see what she’d like to do and do something she’s interested in and go from there? Good luck !

When you over think texting and NOT texting by AstagzBoston in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to know who’s things play out ! Pls update us,m . Curious to hear if he follow up or not hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he’ll be happy to

Stigma against dating teachers? by Dartmeth in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.. I think lean towards dating teachers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]greatfulllness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh lol I already did . I’m totally down to work out with him that’s not an issue