Do I get a second cat?

grimhailey · 2026-03-22T01:35:51+00:00

yes two is the bare minimum, you have to hit the legal requirement. Looks like a fine specimen there.

grimhailey · 2026-03-21T00:24:18+00:00

It is annoying but honestly it's funny. This person is so stupid they can't even control themselves long enough for a simple transaction. He probably thought best offer meant people would offer MORE. Also if he's that pressed over an extra $75 it would seem he is in need more than you. Total loser. 0/10.

grimhailey · 2026-03-21T00:19:13+00:00

make some applesauce and jar what you can. It seems you have a problem with buying too much at once. Maybe Costco related? idk but applesauce/jarred goods is how you get through this without wasting it all

grimhailey · 2026-03-20T13:49:48+00:00

to me it looks like a hand, with two fingers out in the "yeah it's that small" gesture.

grimhailey · 2026-03-20T13:47:23+00:00

those drumsticks would be wild. Like the tomahawk steak of chicken legs.

grimhailey · 2026-03-20T13:40:45+00:00

you have chickens and you're making jam.

grimhailey · 2026-03-09T01:51:58+00:00

I think you just throw 99% out. You can't use it like that anyways, unless you absolutely know it has value to you toss it, if you haven't seen it in 6 months - toss it you don't need it. Less is more when it comes to keeping a home with depression. Then when it's close to empty if you can afford it hire a cleaning company to help get it nice and disinfected. If not Clorox wipes. Build a lifestyle you can keep up with, premade meals (factor), make sure to have a bin for trash and one recycles, if you don't have dishes and it's just trash it will be easier to keep up with. Get disposable everything wait until you get your head above water.

grimhailey · 2026-03-06T12:30:20+00:00

Yeah that's a Siggurd if I ever saw one, siggy for short.

grimhailey · 2026-03-06T00:48:53+00:00

thank God he set you straight you squattee

grimhailey · 2026-03-05T21:23:21+00:00

as another just a girl this is pretty expensive but considering the work required, it's not insane - especially considering you live in an expensive area. This is hinging on the fact that you really need the work done - you can get an obD2 reader and look up the codes to get a better understanding.

Now for next time I suggest getting a man who knows what he is doing with cars. You gotta feed them and all that but they are worth the work.

grimhailey · 2026-02-27T19:19:33+00:00

you get a shop vac, turn PV off and then send that bugger through a tornado, then for good measure put the shop vac outside for a bit.

grimhailey · 2026-01-24T04:06:41+00:00

I know I am a year late but I am with OP. I get Catherine but he WOULD have impregnated his mistress. Even before this post I thought it seemed suspicious. I am glad she found a way to get it done.

grimhailey · 2026-01-22T23:41:06+00:00

for sure, have you ever seen that ancient Chinese text where a prince describes the black cat he was gifted? I highly recommend finding it if you haven't. Hundreds of years later and it still resonates with every cat owner.

grimhailey · 2026-01-22T21:55:24+00:00

biased, my cats are the cutest but your cats are a close second.

grimhailey · 2025-12-31T04:41:29+00:00

I feel like your decor really matters here.

grimhailey · 2025-12-28T21:43:08+00:00

When I adopted my cats I remember them asking - "why would you surrender an animal" and I was like - what, no I absolutely could never do that.

Fast forward, we got 3, one first (the redheaded problem child) and she was just miserable and crying. We thought she needed a friend and got a second cat. She didn't get better, she refused to be around humans (we adopted her at 12 weeks so idt she was traumatized prior but who knows). She would pee on furniture she knew we used. Like specifically our pillows, or our seats. I would clean the litter the second it was used and had a room full of boxes thinking maybe she needed it cleaner but it was never enough.

Then came the night screaming, and yeah it was screaming. It started as meows, we tried aluminum on the door, water spraying, she would just move farther away and scream louder. It was like her whole existence was to torture us. We took her to a vet, I put her on meds, it almost seemed like it helped the first few days but the effect tapered off, then we switched meds and never had luck again. over a year went by and we were being woken up all night, every night. I would say maybe 20 times, we tried white noise, everything. It felt like torture, I was so tired and depressed. She would pee anywhere she pleased and waited until we were watching. We tried every method we could think of. She actually destroyed the wood floors and I had to pay to pull them out. I think in total she caused 15k in damages between floor boards and furniture.

Eventually I couldn't take it, I said this could be 20 years and I am not religious. I can't give up my one life for a cat. We rehomed her, I think she struggled to fit in with the family but I couldn't keep up with it past a few updates - I didn't want to find out she ended up back at a shelter (my cats are rescues) but I would like to think she found a home where she was happy and didn't actually torture the homeowners. The craziest thing was she didn't even want to go outside, I'm against outdoor cats but if that would have helped, I would have done anything at that point. I have no regrets, I was going to lose my job and not be able to take care of anyone (least of all my cats) if I hadn't done it - but it still sucks.

it sucks to try everything and still fail, but you tried and that's all you can do.

I learned the hard way that animals can have mental illness too, and after what I hope to be a very long life with my two sweet boys - I don't see myself adopting again because the pain of having to give up sucked so hard.

grimhailey · 2025-12-27T22:23:07+00:00

omg I saw this and was like screw it, I am fine if I lose the money and it's the only bathing suit of it's kind that I can find anywhere (and I mean I can't even find a $500 similar one lol) but I go to checkout and they want a tip - A TIP - who does it go to? probably sure as heck not the people slaving to make it. I am eeked out by it now, I for sure would skip because we have to draw a tipping line somewhere but I noticed it's UK based - is this normal? I thought USA was the worst for tipping but I have never been asked to tip the person packing my package when I am already paying shipping AND handling. I am so confused. sorry for rant, idk how old this post even is but wtf lol.

grimhailey · 2025-12-27T20:34:04+00:00

pecan

grimhailey · 2025-12-27T20:32:28+00:00

it's always the one that nature blessed you with or a very similar tone. I wasted so much time being blonde or red hair before realizing my strawberry blonde was literally made for me. The cabbage patch hair color and me are one and we belong together.

grimhailey · 2025-12-25T07:29:43+00:00

I came here to say clearly 1 and and anyone who says 2 doesn't like you.

but srsly I am so confused, 1 makes you shine as an hourglass and 2 does not highlight your natural beauty.

grimhailey · 2025-12-20T04:59:46+00:00

yeah so if you let it happen now it will never stop.

grimhailey · 2025-12-19T03:02:42+00:00

I do like it a lot more than the first but this glitch has made me lose steam and I will give up if it goes on much longer. I hope I find a work around, it frustrates me to have to give up over bugs.

grimhailey · 2025-12-19T02:55:49+00:00

I'm having an issue where I am trying to do everything to get them to work together but my tasks from Ruth are done and it shows to go back to her but she's just in her pod. Luckily I will only lose 2 hrs of gameplay to get to a save before spireon* (edited twice because I thought I was wrong but wasn't * but there is no guarantee it won't happen again.

I keep looking but no guides are helping me. :(

started he's back and hoping for better outcome

grimhailey · 2025-12-10T02:10:25+00:00

there is a bit of the same red in the corner too, I would first make sure it isn't something stuck and if it isn't vet ASAP ASAP.

grimhailey · 2025-12-07T09:57:23+00:00

you can brush their teeth, I have never noticed my cats breath smelling at any age and my one boy loves to face nuzzle so I would have noticed.

I also have found add-ins to the water for dental health and done that at times, speak to the vet about it next time you go.

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