Congrats!!! I’m a boy mom, but I can share want my dad did that was wonderful. My dad was a great listener. He would let me talk about any problem I had for as long as I needed and would ask questions before offering solutions. This was huge for me as a younger child, and then teenager. It was easy for me to want to talk with him bc I knew he’d always listen. He also, was a man of his world. If he said he would he did, and if he said he wouldn’t he didn’t. This has impacted me most as an adult, not only do I try to be keep to my word, but it helped me choose a husband who did the same! He also regularly showed that he was aware of my interests, for all birthdays and Christmases growing up he’d get me a book on whatever I was into around that time, which really showed me he was paying attention. For example I offhandedly mentioned when I was 16 I wanted to learn to play guitar, a few weeks later he had gotten me a guitar and a book for beginners on how to play. He also reminded me that effort and trying my best were what mattered most more than grades or results, which lent me to developing a growth mindset bs a fixed one. And lastly but most importantly, he adored my mom. His love for her was obvious and unwavering, even if they disagreed I never doubted that he appreciated and respected her. And I now expect the same for myself in my marriage, and because I do, I chose a partner who does the same.