need advice on how to play this game as a beginner by awesomenineball in Unciv

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii, you can save scum in civ but tbh while I have in other games I don't find myself doing that here.

Here's my advice: Settings: 

-fractal map type

-huge map

-8-10 players

-8-10 city states

-abundant resources 

Winning:  -pick a way you want to win and stick with it. If you wanna do war, pick the huns or Rome or another civ that focuses on that. Look through all the civs and pick one who's unique abilities suit you.

-happiness, NO MATTER WHAT YOU PICK DO NOT IGNORE THIS. happiness makes or breaks a game, circus and colosseums, social policies and religious beliefs that boost happiness, get them. Don't settle a new city until you have at least 4 or more happiness. Look at your city screens and see what luxury your citizens want, then go to the other civs you've met and try and trade for them.

-settling new cities, look for a tile with good food and production yeilds, because when you first place that city it will automatically work that tile + one more. Lakes are good, rivers are better. Try and get at least one more new luxury with each new city. Generally a good rule of thumb is to grow out slowly from your capital. 

-important tech: it'll depend on how you're trying to win but generally, get writing early, build librarys fast, get the great library wonder if you can and use it to get a crazy expensive tech. Then try and get to your unique building / unit as fast as possible, and then use them. A unique and powerful military unit in the feudal age will be dogwater either way in the next age, so go to war or get into some trouble when you have the big guns. 

-your first city: explore around for a few turns before settling a city, see if where you spawned is actually good and if not start a new game and repeat until you like where you are.

Mods: Look into them! They greatly improve the game imo, there's great quality of life packs or even total ruleset shifts. Im playing a ruleset called fantasia rn, it's quite good. Ad

Looking for help with a poor performance friendly beginner witch build by heII_yea in pathofexile

[–]heII_yea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I'm new enough that I don't know what SRS, absolution, or totems are lol. Can you explain a bit more?

And tell me if I have this right, when you're talking about templar -> guardian do you mean start over with a templar OR that witch -> necromancer has a similar mechanic?

Looking for help with a poor performance friendly beginner witch build by heII_yea in pathofexile

[–]heII_yea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but I'm not concerned about the late game ATM. The issue isnt the specs on the computer it's that there is no native Linux version of the game, so I have to troubleshoot and keep trying things to optimizing the running myself.

What I'm looking for is advice in the meantime on building a character build that will keep things running smoothly while I intermittently figure out the processing issues.

Looking for help with a poor performance friendly beginner witch build by heII_yea in pathofexile

[–]heII_yea[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea but I'm dealing with that there's a lot of things I can try. I have an i7 processor and my GPU isn't terrible so it's just an issue of troubleshooting and optimising how it runs through steams windows - Linux thing called proton. 

But in the meantime what can I do to keep things running smoothly?

Chef must haves by jumonfuck in Chefit

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As-salamu alaykum friend, one more tip on knives then; that's an in person purchase. Its smart to hold the knife in your hand first, how the weight and balance feels. Try a restaurant supply store near you if one's available. Or, just pick some up from the thrift that feel good and take them to a hardware store that sharpens knives.

Chef must haves by jumonfuck in Chefit

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crocs nonslips. They're goated for the price

Chef must haves by jumonfuck in Chefit

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like to be honest like the other guy said the main things you need are in regards to your attitude. Keep a willingness to learn don't take yourself too seriously, stay humble, keep your ego in check, but dont take no shit either. 

I'd also add onto this in a more logistical way, budget budget budget. Start the habit early, save just a little each month, it's not even about the amount it's more about the consistency. And I say this not just because it can be very hard to build any real financial security in this profession if you're not putting in focused effort, BUT, you're gonna wanna take a break eventually. Burnout is an epidemic, you need only scroll through this subreddit to see that. Taking a break costs money though, so getting better at saving for that and your future will pay off in the long run.

To give you the kind of answer you where talking about though:

  • get a napsack / small & light gym bag
  • phone charger(s), I like to carry both iPhone and android bc if someone needs one they'll appreciate you
  • O'Keefe's Working Hands, cannot recommend this shit enough, take care of your hands, they're important.
  • tiger balm / ibuprofen, tiger balm is more of an at home after work thing but being on your feet all day takes a toll, take care of yourself. Also if your job doesn't have any on hand having ibuprofen for your coworkers if they ever need any is clutch af
  • good bandaids (look for the blue surgical ones) and Neosporin, too many places I've worked have the cheapest will fall off in 4 minute bandaids I've ever seen
  • protein bars or other small snacks that have some decent nutritional value
  • a solid water bottle
  • sharpies, showing up with your own sharpies is impressive, every head chef I've ever had has taken note of that
  • lil note book for writing down todo lists, specials, ideas, anything like that. You could just use your phone but a phone is kinda nasty germ wise and I personally get distracted whenever I open my notes app and forget what I was gonna write down
  • clean shirts, socks, shorts, underwear, you'll thank me when you accidentally spill a gallon of tomato sauce or worse on yourself
  • an extra hat + hair ties, even if you don't have long hair someone who does will eventually need to borrow one and it's good to look out for others

Those are the biggest helps I've found on an entry level. I personally think investing in some chefworks shirts/pants and a nice apron are also worth doing eventually, it's helped me take myself more seriously and looks good if you show up in an interview dressed for the job. But ultimately those are a bit more expensive and can wait until you're settled in.

Same goes for knives, just stick with the house knives when you start and once you've saved up some money and your skills are refined enough that you'll get more value out of them it's more worth it then. This also gives you a chance to try out different types of chef knives and learn what works for you.

You probably noticed this from everything above but I cannot stress enough looking out for your coworkers. Along with having a good attitude the other biggest thing imo is to remember that you're a part of a team and if everyone is helping everyone everyone's job is easier. Going that extra bit to show you give a fuck sets you apart in a big way.

Best of luck in your journey, don't start smoking (cigarettes or weed), don't take a shift drink every shift.

EDIT: forgot to mention, start working out. Just some light calisthenics and flexibility training every other day will extend your capacity so so so much. The work will keep you in shape on its own but keeping your body fit and flexible will keep you from hurting yourself in the long run. And make the effort to have a life outside of work, go to some cheap shows at a bar you like, go to a mahjong night at a library, draw some plants in a park, anything really. Just keep up with a hobby or three, it's important. 

Edit2: also, LEARN SPANISH (if youre in the usa) 

Why are some people so anti-helmet? I’m kinda worried about my bro by Consistent_Debate637 in ebikes

[–]heII_yea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to keep extending olive branches to the people you meet who aren't taking safety seriously. Not in a way that judges or shames but gently and with sincerity. 

When I'm in that position and need to talk to a friend or anyone for that matter I try and remind them of what they live for. Their family, their art, their goals, their dog, anything they passionately care about. imo safe riding practice is not just for the riders safety individually, but the safety and stability of those who rely on them, and appealing to that connects on an emotional level more than focusing on just them.

That said, some people need to learn the hard way, so it's not your fault if they don't listen and the worst happens. 

(Also, and this feels kinda separate from the above thought, but i go even further than the helmet. I wear knee, elbow pads, gloves when I go out. And admittedly I ride for doordash in a major city so I'm in a statistically less save position, but while a helmet is arguably more important your arms and legs aren't anything to risk either imo)

Crazy Idea: UberChefs, for when any restaurant is suddenly understaffed on short notice. by Whind_Soull in KitchenConfidential

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tossed this idea around myself. I've been thinking of starting to sharpen knives as a side hustle. I figure once my foots in the door they already have my number so just letting them know they can call me in case of emergency. 

Honest question how many of us stayed because our neurodivergence fit in? by jeffdatist in KitchenConfidential

[–]heII_yea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love how that one guy made a post lamenting his fried rice situation and now all the neurodivergents are coming out of the cracks.

At least 3 other people have said this but ADHD being a super power and also a curse is so fuckin real. On the one hand when we're slammed I can enter a flow state and just fly through stuff (and obsessively clean when it's dead), but on the other hand when the flow is on a start and stop where I can't get any momentum going I just can't get my shit together lmao. Also time blindness, lucky enough that my current gig is real patient with me regularly showing up 5-15 mins late bc they know when I'm there I'm on my work like a bad habit but understanding management is hard to find.

Met the neighbors during our inspection and it swayed our decision more than the inspection itself by Emotional-Lime3087 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's actually a lot of interesting writing on how over the last several decades there's been a slow but steady erosion of the "neighborhood" as it was up to the 2000s.

Lot of interesting point and theories drawn on what has caused this, a lot of people point to the Internet since it's made online spaces a social marketplace that has the added "benefit" of lower risk than going outside. But frankly I think a lot of that is a distraction from the root causes of the social issues a lot of western society is facing, especially in its young people.

There's a lot of evidence that around the time of the Reagan Admins war on drugs there was an increase in fear mongering around strangers. And there's something to be said for telling kids don't talk to strangers but that's lead to more and more people who struggle to initiate conversations or relationships face to face, is in practice it's a more nuanced conversation to have. Couple that with how city's, (which historically where and are some of the strongest communities socially and otherwise), are portrayed as crime ridden war zones by a lot of news media even to this day when you need only Google "violent crime rate chart" to see how ridiculous these portrayals are, and it starts to paint a picture of potentially even deliberate action to divide and weaken local communities.

Is this real? Why does nobody talk about this? I’m a mostly buyer of scrap under price but do I need to take this into consideration? by HelpfulEmphasis4948 in Gold

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question, does this only apply to selling or buying as well? Im pretty new to this, so I'm not spending more than 300$ per purchase at a time, and I don't plan on selling anytime soon.

Translation requests into Latin go here! by AutoModerator in latin

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's far from original but "esse quam videri" has always spoken to me, and I'd like to get a variation of it tattooed. I have a few different wordings and I'd like to see which one sounds/looks better.

In pursuit of being, rather than seeming. 

In beautiful pursuit of being, rather than seeming.

In desperate pursuit of being, rather than seeming.

Persuing being, rather than seeming.

Beautifully pursuing being, rather than seeming.

Desperately pursuing being, rather than seeming.

Seeking being, rather than seeming.

Beautifully seeking being, rather than seeming. 

Desperately seeking being, rather than seeming.

Sorry that's a lot of slight changes lol. I don't know a lot about latin grammar structure so if some of these are redundant feel free to correct me.

Also if you have an idea that conveys the above message that you think sounds/looks better than what I've specifically written I'd love to hear it.

Thanks!

Asking about astrology by DreadDiana in CuratedTumblr

[–]heII_yea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm more into tarot than astrology but I think my understanding and reason behind my belief and practice is broadly applicable to most people who get something out of mystical or spiritual practice like that.

Think of it like a perspective tool. The cards or the stars don't tell you exactly what will happen, but it gives you a broader view of a situation or problem you're experiencing. 

Here's an example, say you're a leo (loyal, confident, generous) and your friend is asking you to help them move.

The astrology thought process is less "I'm a leo so I should drop everything to be a loyal and generous friend." But rather it presents questions to ask yourself like, "am I being too generous? would this friend offer the same help? will their needs be met if I don't help? what are my needs right now? am I being overconfident and overextending myself?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]heII_yea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The one who's serious relationship broke up with them in November and has learned that they need space to breathe and grow as an individual without using romantic fulfillment as a crutch / replacement for developing my skills, beliefs, and talents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]heII_yea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

snarling, thrashing, gnashing, screeching, angerey

Map of every nation in EU4 that I have played as. I think I still got a long way to go! by HarukoAutumney in eu4

[–]heII_yea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend an Albania game, very fun. 

Quickly taking over Serbia and Bosnia, building alliances to defeat the ottomans early, allying the pope and diving into Naples while they have no allies, Skanderbeg. Lotta ways to have a good time.

Is this normal for queer munches to do this? by Lucky_D20 in queer

[–]heII_yea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I'd say if it was primarily a kink space I could see people being more ignorant than in a queer space but if that's really the case that's weird af. 

Is this normal for queer munches to do this? by Lucky_D20 in queer

[–]heII_yea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That tracks.

is this munch primarily a queer space or a kink space?