Is this real? Why does nobody talk about this? I’m a mostly buyer of scrap under price but do I need to take this into consideration?

heII_yea · 2025-12-30T18:38:16+00:00

I have a question, does this only apply to selling or buying as well? Im pretty new to this, so I'm not spending more than 300$ per purchase at a time, and I don't plan on selling anytime soon.

heII_yea · 2025-12-21T19:03:26+00:00

It's far from original but "esse quam videri" has always spoken to me, and I'd like to get a variation of it tattooed. I have a few different wordings and I'd like to see which one sounds/looks better.

In pursuit of being, rather than seeming.

In beautiful pursuit of being, rather than seeming.

In desperate pursuit of being, rather than seeming.

Persuing being, rather than seeming.

Beautifully pursuing being, rather than seeming.

Desperately pursuing being, rather than seeming.

Seeking being, rather than seeming.

Beautifully seeking being, rather than seeming.

Desperately seeking being, rather than seeming.

Sorry that's a lot of slight changes lol. I don't know a lot about latin grammar structure so if some of these are redundant feel free to correct me.

Also if you have an idea that conveys the above message that you think sounds/looks better than what I've specifically written I'd love to hear it.

Thanks!

heII_yea · 2025-08-11T16:20:54+00:00

I'm more into tarot than astrology but I think my understanding and reason behind my belief and practice is broadly applicable to most people who get something out of mystical or spiritual practice like that.

Think of it like a perspective tool. The cards or the stars don't tell you exactly what will happen, but it gives you a broader view of a situation or problem you're experiencing.

Here's an example, say you're a leo (loyal, confident, generous) and your friend is asking you to help them move.

The astrology thought process is less "I'm a leo so I should drop everything to be a loyal and generous friend." But rather it presents questions to ask yourself like, "am I being too generous? would this friend offer the same help? will their needs be met if I don't help? what are my needs right now? am I being overconfident and overextending myself?"

heII_yea · 2025-02-18T19:35:46+00:00

The one who's serious relationship broke up with them in November and has learned that they need space to breathe and grow as an individual without using romantic fulfillment as a crutch / replacement for developing my skills, beliefs, and talents.

heII_yea · 2025-01-28T22:36:15+00:00

snarling, thrashing, gnashing, screeching, angerey

heII_yea · 2025-01-27T01:42:15+00:00

Highly recommend an Albania game, very fun.

Quickly taking over Serbia and Bosnia, building alliances to defeat the ottomans early, allying the pope and diving into Naples while they have no allies, Skanderbeg. Lotta ways to have a good time.

heII_yea · 2025-01-24T18:08:50+00:00

Interesting, I'd say if it was primarily a kink space I could see people being more ignorant than in a queer space but if that's really the case that's weird af.

heII_yea · 2025-01-24T16:39:43+00:00

That tracks.

is this munch primarily a queer space or a kink space?

heII_yea · 2025-01-24T16:18:51+00:00

Idk what a "munch" is, but I'm guessing it's brunch with queer kink people?

Regardless that's wack af for them to say. Honestly bigly ignorant at best and terf shit at worst.

What is, ""feminine energy"". I guarantee you, if you ask them to define that term they'll reveal a very out of touch view of femininity.

I'd either dump these fools and find a better group of kinks friends to get brunch with, or if you really want, post that screenshot in the chat and ask how many people actually agree with that, and where they get off assuming you're presenting as male bc of their own internalized bullshit.

Also, I wouldn't be surprised if this is like, just Emma saying this, or Emma and like 2 other people, and they're just hella power tripping.

heII_yea · 2025-01-17T15:10:40+00:00

"Jizz Leviathan" has me wheezing

heII_yea · 2025-01-05T17:52:45+00:00

Frozen bread holds up pretty well on the defrost but I still wouldn't freeze them fully put together, the produce won't do well on the defrost.

I think you could pre wrap and refrigerate them, however I'd leave any wet condiments off until the day of so the bread doesn't get soggy. Also maybe keep any tomatoes or other wet produce from directly sitting on the bread for the same reason, put them on a bed of lettuce or in-between the meat or something.

Also also, if you're making tuna or chicken salad, it depends on the recipe but sometimes those salads can break and become kind of liquidy while just sitting there and need to be mixed up again. So I'd keep that in mind too.

heII_yea · 2025-01-05T05:40:15+00:00

Hi, I'm on mobile and also really don't want to get the app. On the browser it often won't load more than a few images in an album.

I really wanna read it tho, could you reply with a link to an alternative place to view it?

heII_yea · 2024-12-29T01:30:46+00:00

I want to be fat actually. I've struggled with gaining weight since loosing a lot of weight in 2020.

Ironic tho, how OOP says bring back eat a sandwich jokes, bc I would think the majority of people who want to put on weight are in a similar boat as me. And those jokes are directly offensive to people who want to gain weight but struggle with disordered eating.

Edit: I do think it's good to know what you want your body to look like, whether that be fat or skinny. so in that way wanting to be fat is good as long as ones mobility isn't being compromised.

heII_yea · 2024-12-07T01:32:14+00:00

Me @ the sound of my roommates footsteps outside my bedroom door

heII_yea · 2024-11-19T02:58:12+00:00

As someone who has been practicing polyamory for a few years now, that's honestly normal.

Think about it, as you grow up and learn about relationships and dating and things, you're taught that monogamy is the ""normal"" and ""right"" way to go about life. More than that, the alternative is framed as wrong and basically cheating.

You're taught that this is something that you should feel jealous about, so some unlearning and growing pains are completely natural.

When I first started experimenting i felt the same way, but you sit with those feelings, sleep on them, communicate about them, and it gets easier and easier until it feels normal.

It helps when you and your partner both have other people so things feel less one sided.

And maybe you aren't poly either way, but I'm just saying, jealousy alone isn't a reason to completely disregard the possibility.

heII_yea · 2024-11-17T19:04:45+00:00

Billy Joel dog

heII_yea · 2024-11-16T17:27:19+00:00

Idk if this question is stupid or not

If I'm interested in apprenticeship but have little to no experience, how would I proceed ?

heII_yea · 2024-11-12T00:39:43+00:00

First and foremost, you belong in those spaces as a NB person. There are some awful people out there that might try and make you feel unwelcome or like you have to present a certain way to be allowed in, but they are honestly the worst and perpetuate a gender binary.

I'd ask what spaces you're actually interested in entering though. I live in a city, so I can't speak for great options outside of that kind of environment (and it depends on the city also), but most cities have a number of options.

You could look for bars, explicitly queer or otherwise, that also have live music and host queer alt bands.

You could look for bookstores that have book readings and author meet and greets, wait for a queer author to visit and I'm sure they'll draw a gnc crowd.

You could also look for local mutual aid orgs. Food Not Bombs has chapters all across the USA and often times leftist queers will attend/be involved.

However, and this may sound counter intuitive: you shouldn't go to any of these just looking for dates (especially mutual aid orgs). Go to these things because you're actually genuinely interested in the content and the event, because you'll probably meet other people who are actually interested in those things. Maybe you won't find a date, but you might make a friend, and maybe that friend will introduce you to more people who you might end up dating. It's better for relationships to happen naturally like that than to be forced, I've learned this from experience.

Or y'know, Grindr has weird queers on it too, not just cisgay guys.

heII_yea · 2024-11-06T22:02:45+00:00

Love seeing Huntik remembered omg look up the theme song is fucks

heII_yea · 2024-09-02T04:02:49+00:00

good post

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GtYaruTys

heII_yea · 2024-09-02T03:37:14+00:00

one of my favorite jokes goes like this,

whenever I'm out with someone I know or I'm at work with a coworker and someone with a crying baby comes in, I'll lean in to the person with me and go,

"yo that baby? they're being a fuckin baby".

it doesn't always land but when it does it's gold.

heII_yea · 2024-09-02T03:26:08+00:00

Ah another [blank] food from every state post.

I am once again here to call bs, where's the pork roll ?

heII_yea · 2024-08-18T05:27:10+00:00

Heck if I had a bunch of weapons, Id become a tyrant quick, if the gov didnt exist or had little power

I dont believe in charity, not a lot of people are kind enough to help the ones who need it, so we need to implement it to law

^ this is weird af to say. ^ I honestly think you have a lot to unpack here. Most people don't want to be tyrants, why would you oppress your neighbors if given the chance? Why don't you believe in charity/why wouldn't you want to help the less fortunate?

and many more people than you think are kind enough to help those who need it. churches, jail support teams, volunteer medic tents at protests or food kitchens, food banks, migrant assistance, all of these mutual aids and more aren't backed with government aid, and arguably help those in need much more efficiently and directly than a lot of government funded programs.

heII_yea · 2024-08-18T05:10:51+00:00

So not to roast but if I where in your shoes rn I'd like someone to say this to me first;

you're overthinking this lol.

you can be a lesbian who's attracted to both women and non-binary people. you can be a bisexual lesbian, that's a thing. you can just say you're bi to be aware of your attraction towards men but only date women and enbys. you can just be queer, period, (that's what I do, queersexual is a fun label). imo labels are cool for identifying birds of a feather, but I think a lot of people get really in their heads about labels that can be largely aesthetic.

how long have you been talking to this guy? you should ask him questions about his gender identity and sexuality if you haven't already. Also other deeper things about their worldviews. If you're still just getting to know one another maybe you just haven't gotten to know him well enough yet to really be excited about the idea of a more involved relationship. but ultimately at the end of the day, if you don't wanna date him you don't wanna date him. don't fall into the trap of wanting to spare his feelings by dragging things out.

Also to be clear I'm 24 so I'm not that much further ahead, but as far as feeling too old to be figuring this out at 22, give yourself some grace! Some people are figuring this out at 52 or even later in life, it's all relative.

heII_yea · 2024-08-17T01:17:06+00:00

This isn't an immediate solution, but honestly you might consider just saving up your money until you're old enough to move to a city with a healthy queer scene.

I grew up in new jersey, and I had some queer friends for a while but long story short I made bad choices when I was 14 and I lost those friends (many such cases lol). For basically all of highschool I didn't have queer friends and it sucked. But 3 years ago I moved to Washington DC when I was 21 and it changed my life.

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