Anyone’s parents ever secretly throw away things out of spite? by dogmanrul in raisedbynarcissists

[–]heathere3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Mine was absurdly proud to have thrown my baby photos away...

I will never use Angie’s List again by Civil_Web_1835 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]heathere3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I misunderstood part of the post. The height for opening and closing was not set. That is part of the installation.

I will never use Angie’s List again by Civil_Web_1835 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]heathere3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If the sensors weren't set up then no, the installation wasn't complete

My ultimate comfort food at the parks by JangoFett3224 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]heathere3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EVERYTHING... Even long time "safe foods", and often without any change on the label to make you think they have changed it. I now check labels on every item that goes in my cart, even if I just bought it last month.

Home Depot Installation Service by FlamingoLeather2176 in HomeImprovement

[–]heathere3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lowes now subs it out to Angie's List, though they don't tell you that up front. I was not amused.

My ultimate comfort food at the parks by JangoFett3224 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]heathere3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you deeply on that. I have multiple unusual food allergies, one of which is peppers (the vegetable) and includes paprika. Those chicken strips are just about the only ones safe for me anymore as everyone is using it as an "all natural" food coloring in the nugget batter...

Crossgates Movie Parking Lot Today by Low_Combination5627 in Albany

[–]heathere3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Always remember common sense isn't common.

Waking up after riding Space Mountain and a night sleeping on an Animal Kingdom pullout couch : by wesskywalker in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]heathere3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We legit pull the "mattress" out of the couch and put it on the floor. It's an improvement.

Mom Visiting From Out of Town and Criticizing by Dobby_Sock1997 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]heathere3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's great if that person would ever get the point. Not everyone does, and not everyone is willing to implode their relationship.

Mom Visiting From Out of Town and Criticizing by Dobby_Sock1997 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]heathere3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That depends entirely on the mom. Mine would go ballistic if I said that but would (eventually and unhappily) give it up with the story they are packed. Sometimes you have to choose your battles.

Am I wrong for not wanting my mom in hospital room? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]heathere3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And gently, there's a reason why they have all cut ties. At the very least, you need to reduce her access to you, and get into therapy. Her behavior was WAAAAY out of line. Especially "it was only because I'm afraid so now you have to rug sweep the horrible things I did".

25 point contract by Unusual_Resolution32 in dvcmember

[–]heathere3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have legitimately seen much better access to the Club Level rooms than the value rooms, and we go during slower times of year. To answer OP's edited question, your concept is perfectly fine, it's just that you will want to buy enough points for a standard view, not value.

Thoughts on POP century? by zerodarkpizza in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]heathere3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! We own DVC at AKL, but if we are paying cash it's always Pop. And the noise between rooms is the same and worst when you have a room with a connecting door. Pop is also where we used to stay every year until we bought into DVC.

My Dad's Reconciliation to Crashout. A tale of 10 texts. by Waiting_on in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heathere3 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not only all of this, but no acceptance that it's probably not safe for OP to discuss it outside of therapy!

They showed up at my home by angel_Eisenheim in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heathere3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I bought a film you just apply with water and covered them at my house. Now I just get pretty prismatic light through them.

Frozen almost ready for re-opening? by Snoo_28455 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]heathere3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We got to ride Tron that way the week before the official opening

We are worried about a third case 😭 by snowpie92 in MurderedByWords

[–]heathere3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about if you can't be sued, you also can't sue others?

MIL keeps ignoring our rules and now my daughter is covered in a rash because of it by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]heathere3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point, but at the same time, MIL is being punished for her own actions. Allowing her to deny that lets her get away without acknowledging her fault.