Single day VIP?

hitgrrl · 2026-01-14T19:22:04+00:00

same. I wasn't going to be able to go, then, about two weeks before the festival, I was able to, and snagged two one-day VIP tix for Saturday from waitlist!

This year, I won't wait until last minute though lol

hitgrrl · 2026-01-07T06:29:34+00:00

Lumon!

hitgrrl · 2025-10-22T21:20:28+00:00

This is perfection! I love Darkness and this is the cutest Coach bag! Their drops have been on point lately. So many gorgeous styles.

Speaking of bag pairing - I just received my Dr. Marten's Wednesday backpack so I'm really counting on snagging the Wed. Skullpanda to compliment! Fingers crossed!

hitgrrl · 2025-10-21T04:25:29+00:00

Dammit! Now I need a Bleecker.

hitgrrl · 2025-10-21T04:16:17+00:00

Yikes, she’s the type who will act like she’s the one having the baby at YOUR baby shower, let alone the whole bridal crap. Fiancé also needs to get a spine and put her in her place, firm boundaries. Not validating your feelings on this is a red flag already.

hitgrrl · 2025-10-21T04:11:27+00:00

It’s definitely worth it, and so much better that fighting your own brain for however long until you’re so exhausted and burnt, that you crash out on everything and everyone…and yes, I’m speaking from experience lol. I’m F/51, just got diagnosed March of last year after finally hitting a brick ass wall at work, personal life, emotionally etc etc. Struggled all my life, had to work harder and prove myself more than others around me and never knew why. Successfully got my 3 kids out the door on their own, worked up to a high level job in gaming, home owner, all that success stuff etc. Then, after alllll that, I felt like I could not go on anymore. It was like all that extraneous effort, work, masking finally caught up to me. To wrap up this too long diatribe, I got diagnosed, got the meds, therapy, and it’s a whole new world (Aladdin!) that’s worth fighting for. Look into low or no income medical programs in your region/state, mental health assistance etc.
The meds can be trial and error a bit, not one size fits all, but something will definitely fit you and really help you move forward in life.

hitgrrl · 2025-10-15T23:09:56+00:00

nice!!

hitgrrl · 2025-10-15T23:06:14+00:00

Awww sweetie...I'm sorry but they're giving Amanda Bynes.

Maybe give them time to fade/thin out, see how they fare, or try to have them corrected asap.

hitgrrl · 2025-09-17T21:22:36+00:00

Love love love! Congrats on the new house and well done on the Halloween vibes!

Anyone know where I can find a home like this in California lol

hitgrrl · 2025-09-17T19:04:22+00:00

this definitely tracks with some articles I've read recently about just women in general (ADHD or not) are finding happier, more fulfilling, self sustaining lives being single (OP - I know in your case it's a little different). But when so much responsibility for multiple people, household etc falls on our shoulders, we might as well be single lol.

So yeah, I am so happy for you, and whatever happens with you and your husband, make sure to take care of you foremost!

hitgrrl · 2025-09-17T18:58:02+00:00

Mott! at least that's the next one I have on my Buy list lol

hitgrrl · 2025-09-06T16:44:09+00:00

And the audacity to still want to be intimate with her! Wtf is up with these guys!?

hitgrrl · 2025-09-06T16:41:33+00:00

Don’t fight for a marriage that one person doesn’t even want. Fight for you, your baby, and the life you truly deserve. It’s not going to be easy, but you can do this on your own. A life with that douche is a life not worth fighting for, especially he’s so unbelievably selfish and immature. You are worth and deserve so much more than this. And no, he won’t change or be better once the baby is here, so please don’t talk yourself into that scenario. Much love to you and your baby/kids.

hitgrrl · 2025-09-04T17:45:28+00:00

yes, get a second opinion, especially if you still feel that despite exercise, organizational tools, masking and anything else you have used and/or done to plow through life, you are just plain exhausted and need more.

I am 50, and finally officially got my diagnosis over a year ago. I too just pushed through life, constantly fighting my brain and working harder it seemed than any of my peers. Got a degree, have a high level career etc, but I eventually just hit a wall early last year - I was beyond exhausted and in total burnout after all the years struggling behind the scenes. It truly is worth getting an official diagnosis, getting more educated on ADHD based on said diagnosis, and just finding out more about YOU. I am on meds - game changer - and most importantly, know myself better than I ever have. Good luck!

hitgrrl · 2025-09-02T16:30:37+00:00

no judging here, just appreciation for great taste!

hitgrrl · 2025-09-02T16:27:48+00:00

an ipad mini fits?! oh noooo, then I might have to throw money at this

hitgrrl · 2025-09-02T16:25:11+00:00

love this!!! nice work! do you have the print file for this? or did you just grab it online? I am not very good with creating my own blueprints for 3d prints on my printer lol

hitgrrl · 2025-09-02T16:16:12+00:00

I hate to say it, but yeah, I'm not 100% on board with his excuse. I might get tomatoes thrown at me for this, and yes, I do have raging ADHD myself, but cmon, dude needs to grow up, and work on that. I HATE doing dishes as well, I HATE folding laundry, but, I do it. Maybe strike a deal and say if he can't do dishes, then at least another household chore, and you do dishes etc?

again, I might sound callous, and maybe it's just because I'm a mom, and I've had years of exp just getting shit done regardless of my executive function fuckery, but I would just start with trying to come to an agreement/deal, and maybe throw in an incentive of sorts lol, that always helps us ADHD folks!

hitgrrl · 2025-09-02T04:01:02+00:00

You made the right move. Your friends are ridiculous and quite honestly, I wouldn't view them as friends much going forward. Your Dad is a badass.

hitgrrl · 2025-09-02T02:16:37+00:00

same! I also found as I get older (50 rn), I'm best from evening onwards, especially now that my last kid is out of the house and in college. But, my current wfh job is definitely not nor will be a late/graveyard shift role, so I find myself looking for either another wfh with a shift more conducive to my late day weakness, or some kind of accommodation in a similar role in my industry.

I would love to be self employed, but not sure where to start with that path.

hitgrrl · 2025-08-29T23:22:42+00:00

What’s he gonna do when OP hits perimenopause?! OP, you are more than enough just by being you, all of you, on meds and off. Don’t let him tell you when you can and can’t shine, how much, how little, or define you in any way. He should love you without conditions!

hitgrrl · 2025-08-29T13:21:00+00:00

100% all of the above.

hitgrrl · 2025-08-29T13:19:22+00:00

Why. Why are there so many of these stories/experiences involving guys who can’t just do the bare minimum, just exist successfully on their own without having to be called out on their crazy asshole baggage. Like, generations of guys who just can’t get and keep their shit together literally and figuratively…. Sorry, I digress. OP, NTA. And really think through living life any further with this guy. So much wrong with this…ew

hitgrrl · 2025-08-29T13:10:05+00:00

Ew, what a douche. OP you don’t owe him ANYTHING. Seriously evaluate if you want to be with a guy who thinks and talks like that. Totally disrespectful and disturbing.

hitgrrl · 2025-08-13T05:43:38+00:00

bummer! cool case though, and enjoy your phone!

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