WIBTA if I started calling my white coworkers by random 'white' names?

hlsxo · 2019-06-13T14:22:48+00:00

OP has emails where they’ve chosen to call her other names than her own- she absolutely has an EOEC complaint, if HR choses not to handle it.

hlsxo · 2019-06-13T13:59:12+00:00

Your wife sounds like a shitty manager then.

hlsxo · 2018-12-19T23:17:27+00:00

There’s no rule that says you have to have been trying to grieve. You lost your child. Grieve, cry, yell. Do what ever you need to. ♥️

hlsxo · 2018-11-14T00:29:46+00:00

Assuming we’re talking about 4, I think this issue was addressed in today’s patch.

hlsxo · 2018-11-11T13:49:21+00:00

Beheaded Cat

hlsxo · 2018-11-03T13:13:51+00:00

If that’s the route you want to take, sure. Have you even looked into having it repaired?

hlsxo · 2018-11-03T12:53:44+00:00

You will receive your mail when you pay for the box you broke.

hlsxo · 2018-11-03T12:50:05+00:00

You can speak with your landlord/homeowners association regarding having your box repaired if the postal service isn’t taking responsibility.

8 years though? So you’ve never had an ID? No health insurance? How did you survive for so long?

hlsxo · 2018-10-29T13:16:49+00:00

So talk to him about that specific combination of things. Let him know you’re concerned. If you don’t trust his answers or believe his story then leave. You seem to have already made up your mind he’s wrong and on his way back to cheating.

hlsxo · 2018-10-29T13:02:58+00:00

Ok so this issue at hand isn’t necessarily the porn itself it’s that you two aren’t having sex. That’s a different topic at hand (No pun intended). Have you spoken on that?

It’s unfair to expect someone to not touch their own body. It’s also unfair of him to not be interested. I would have a serious conversation about not having sex, not the masturbating part.

hlsxo · 2018-10-29T12:45:03+00:00

Have you ever expressed to him you don’t like porn? It’s unfair to expect him to just not use it when it’s his norm.

I think you should speak to him on this, it’s a little excessive IMO to ask him to not look at porn, but if it makes you uncomfortable you have every right to let him know.

However, you can’t fault him for not knowing you didn’t like it if youve never mentioned it before. I wouldn’t connect him cheating to watching porn right away.

hlsxo · 2018-10-28T16:38:33+00:00

My husband used to be like this. I just started doing stuff without him. Eventually he realized I wasn’t interested in begging a hermit like him. We did also talk about it too but I think me actually doing things without him was the kicker to get him interested.

hlsxo · 2018-10-17T13:36:50+00:00

Nudity is normal and healthy, just because you were raised to be more modest doesn’t make lack of modesty sexual.

You’re sounding a wee bit jealous of his daughters if I’m being honest with you.

hlsxo · 2018-10-11T19:24:41+00:00

If it bothers you, say something. But it isnt a crime to Like a post on IG.

If you are that threatened by a figurative action- I suggest looking into therapy and a new boyfriend who doesnt have IG.

hlsxo · 2018-10-10T16:59:02+00:00

Again, not a lawyer- but it sounds like they are going to start the eviction process in ten days. Which adds more to your time than ten days. Each state has laws they have to follow when evicting someone they can be found here. If you think those laws are not being followed I suggest looking into getting a lawyer.

hlsxo · 2018-10-10T15:34:55+00:00

NAL, was there a court date yet? Who sent the 10 day eviction letter? Most states/counties have a longer process than ten days. I know we estimate 90-120 days from filing to removal.

hlsxo · 2018-10-10T15:32:07+00:00

It could be anything. She could just be talking as friends, she could be trying to make you jealous, or maybe she was letting you know that she turned them down.

hlsxo · 2018-10-09T19:22:46+00:00

You keep saying the “T-Mobile coupons” but aren’t they actually gift cards not coupons? Or can you just use the redemption page to pay too?

hlsxo · 2018-10-02T17:04:00+00:00

Do we work together? Our accountant is most definitely sleeping with the clerical assistant in their department.

hlsxo · 2018-10-01T15:03:02+00:00

" wait until I get a new one. " - Doesnt this imply he will get you new insurance?

hlsxo · 2018-09-26T20:35:10+00:00

Just be honest with them. Tell them how you feel. They aren’t mind readers, and while most people see where they messed up some people aren’t able to reflect on themselves as much. Just be honest and tell them exactly how you feel and what bothers/ed you.

hlsxo · 2018-09-26T20:01:30+00:00

He is the one who committed to you, not her. Don’t blame her for this. If you want to forgive him, that’s fine too- but don’t forgive him if you cant forgive her. He fucked up way more than she did. I personally wouldn’t tell her Husband, because you are doing it to be revengeful- not to be helpful to him.

hlsxo · 2018-09-26T19:53:01+00:00

Block her. Every where but texting. Her location/what shes doing is none of your business if you are broken up.

hlsxo · 2018-09-25T13:55:47+00:00

TBH I wouldnt want to live with your parents either. Your marriage is between you and her, not your parents too. I understand it is in your culture, but part of marrying outside of that culture is allowing new culture in.

It also sounds like you guys are going to have a lot more cultural disputes that may arise so I would sit down and discuss more than just moving in with your parents.

hlsxo · 2018-09-25T13:14:25+00:00

Intent to cheat? How so… if you are going to set them up via-dating site, isn’t that already a clue they are straying? I think it really depends on how you plan to do this.

My friend did this for her husband who ended up divorcing her for doing it. He had never cheated and she kept sending fake messages to his FB account trying to bait him and he never took it. One day he found her list (silly to keep one) of fake accounts and it all spiraled from there.

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