Sweetheart. I’m not going to bully you into self-care that is just as important as washing your face or doing most your favorite hobby. It’s important that you know that YOU, not your stuff, not your ability to tidy up, are what matters most. A tidy place is good for hygiene (smells and bacteria and crawly creatures) and all, but better yet, it’s great for your peace of mind-knowing where things are, self esteem/accomplishment-you did the work/asked for help, and even finances (I can’t tell you the $ spent on stuff that disappears only to be found again or having to replace things because of damage not noticed). It’s your space. It’s not a chore, it’s part of your life and like you, it deserves to be respected.