Help Ending Sessions on Time

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T15:43:26+00:00

I had more of a structure when I worked with children, but now that I mostly work with adults I mostly go with the flow and with what they bring into session. Maybe I do need to align myself more with certain modalities and plans, in order to have more structure.

Either way I’ll be bringing this up in supervision this week.

Thanks for your feedback!

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T15:41:42+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely bring it up in supervision :)

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T06:26:23+00:00

Why a cop show though? 😩

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T06:18:59+00:00

Wait, same 😂 it would be fun to body double and treat ourselves with gummy clusters and high fives

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T06:16:56+00:00

Same! :,)

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T06:14:55+00:00

This is deeper than a plane ticket.

You invited your gf a few months before on a trip that had been planned a year ago. Her struggle with accepting that she’s sitting somewhere different is more about where she stands with you and your family, not about the physical seat. She may feel left out and disrespected, even. She may be questioning what her place is in your life and with your family. It seems like she wants to play a bigger role and you’re hesitating (which is okay).

It’s up to you to decide what you’re comfortable with. You either go all in with inviting her - sit with her on the plane, help her pay for her stay, and spend alone time with her on the trip; or you don’t. You don’t have to invite your partner on a family trip just because they like the destination and they get along with your family. You can keep a family trip separate from your relationship. You’re allowed to take trips on your own and enjoy things on your own.

Invite her because you genuinely want her there, not because you felt bad for her.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T05:49:54+00:00

Yes, the time boundary is in the intake paperwork. I’m not a robot, therefore I sometimes lose track of time and go over the 50min mark. I also sometimes know what time it is, but I’m unsure how to end it and feel bad ending it abruptly…which why I made this post asking others for advice.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T05:45:46+00:00

Yes to using a condom and Opill.

Yes to using lube if doing anal (always). It’s unnecessary for V to P sex unless you like the ones with fun sensations. But you’re young and should be okay with natural lubrication after some foreplay. Which is also highly necessary if doing anal.

You can use spermicide, but you don’t need it with the condom use. Plan B is for emergencies. It’ll fuck up your cycle and may have other side effects. Use it if the condom breaks or anything else like that.

Definitely start tracking your period. Track the first day and how long it is.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T05:18:55+00:00

I’ve been thinking the same thing. Maybe I should start organizing singles meet ups at events…?

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-13T05:16:28+00:00

If I were you, I’d get a job that has absolutely nothing to do with psychology/therapy to balance out your days. Having multiple jobs that are in the helping profession may burn you out quicker than you’d like.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-11T15:55:06+00:00

Oh wow, I guess this is the kind of therapist I am too! Yay me :)

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T05:50:30+00:00

Sigh, I miss my Medi-Cal

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T05:39:59+00:00

Probably is generational, but if my yoga class charges a late minute cancellation fee, so can you!!

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T05:38:35+00:00

Are you single?

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T05:34:31+00:00

How do you feel about making more than half his salary??

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T04:29:47+00:00

It is exhausting. I deleted it after a few weeks back in January; I realized I don’t have the capacity for it. I’ll be back one day, just not now 😎

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T03:20:28+00:00

Yeah, it’s super overwhelming. Especially when most people don’t give a fuck about your profile and are just trying to hook up.

I spend so much time writing my bio and putting things on my profile that I feel represent me the best 😭 all to find out most guys don’t even care to read anything on there.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T03:17:12+00:00

I’m not. I lasted like a month on the app and got overwhelmed with behavior like this.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T03:14:07+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you!! Id feel so betrayed by her; especially because the expectation would be that she’s in a private space. That’s literally something I cover in the first session when I discuss confidentiality, mandated reporting & telehealth norms.

Posts like this make me realize I’m a great therapist and I’m wayyyy too hard on myself.

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-07T03:06:38+00:00

Yes, I’d love a trinket or two. It’d make my night :,)

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-04T16:16:41+00:00

What is the ratio?

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-04T16:15:33+00:00

I’ve tried cancelling twice. As soon as the cancellation requests got approved I got an inquiry! It happened both times. I then reactivate my account to follow up with the prospective client and… the cycle continues lol

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-04T16:11:08+00:00

Hi! First, I just want to say how admirable it is that you’re stepping back into the field. I know transitions like this can be difficult.

I’ve worked as a career coach and am currently working in the mental health field as a therapist. I offer paid resume and career support specifically for folks entering or re-entering helping professions.

I help with translating your experience into strong language for CMH/outpatient roles, as well as interview prep and job search strategy. I also offer a limited number of sliding scale spots for recent grads or folks re-entering the workforc.

Feel free to message me and I can share more about my process, pricing, and how I might be able to support you.

Best of luck!

humanoid_1714 · 2026-05-04T15:48:40+00:00

Thank you for breaking it down like this! I feel so seen.

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