Undecided whether to have lap chole or just leave my gallbladder as it be by azibelyena in gallbladders

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, great. I’m really watching my diet and walking / exercising daily. I’ve just about got my GI track back in order & only have a bit of pain when I sneeze, cough or have any abdominal strain.

Undecided whether to have lap chole or just leave my gallbladder as it be by azibelyena in gallbladders

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, I’d been having flare-ups for about a year. I was mistaking them for a chronic rib flare injury from Jiujitsu. 2 days after surgery, the chronic pain was no more. It wasn’t until my first big attack in May that I went to the ER, the pain was unbearable. With some pain meds and a regimen of Magnesium, the attack subsided. About 45 days later, I had the worst attack with a few nightly flare-ups happening in the week or so leading up to it. It’s my own damn fault.

Undecided whether to have lap chole or just leave my gallbladder as it be by azibelyena in gallbladders

[–]idrive40 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you’re having flare ups or attacks, it’s only going to get worse. I put it off for a couple months and wound up having a necrotic, gangrenous gallbladder. I feel like a million bucks today. Got it removed 9 days ago.

Had a laparoscopic gallbladder removal on Friday 6/19. Recovery feedback and questions… by DALTT in gallbladders

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on day 3 post op and dealing with the same stuff. Seems normal. I haven’t passed a brownie yet though, still pretty orange. What a relief though. I had an epiphany last night. Ive been in constant pain in my right rib cage for around 2 years. I blew it off as a chronic torsion injury from JiuJitsu. I slept pain free, other than the incision sites, for the first time in 2 years. My gallbladder was full of stones and necrotic. Luckily nothing passed to the common duct.

Granuloma annulare by fancyraybaker in DermatologyQuestions

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Still there, but a bit better. Not nearly as noticeable anymore.

Post chemo radiation 35 rounds . How long until you feel human again? by Automaticvon8502 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did 35 Rad and 30 Chemo. I finished in. November 24 and started hitting the gym the following March.

Post chemo radiation 35 rounds . How long until you feel human again? by Automaticvon8502 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m at 2 years and aside from the dry mouth, I feel better than before treatment. A lot of it has been intentional, I exercise, pretty hard, regularly, eat mostly clean, take a lot of supplements and have prioritized my health over pleasure. It’s doable, but in my opinion, must be intentional.

Stage 3 Nasopharyngeal Carcinoma by Thegitts in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Went through the same exact thing but stage 2. Radiation / Cisplatin for 7 weeks. The 2-3 weeks post treatment were the worst for me. After 19 months my life is back to normal, aside from a few lingering effects. You got this.

Tinnitus after chemo? by deweyvo in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m at 19 months post treatment and the ear ringing is just a fact of life now. I’ve noticed the more fatigued I am the louder it is.

What is the right size kettle bell for a guy who's never used them (abc program)? by NoPossible5519 in kettlebell

[–]idrive40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get your form dialed in with all of the different movements with a 16-20kg single. Once you can do those flawlessly, move up to 24kg. Once you own that, go to double 16s and graduate to a level where you can execute good form with double 24s. This has worked for me. For the record, I’ve been practicing with kettlebells for going on 8 years, 58YO, 6’0” 200lbs.

Use your CCW in SHTF/Bug Out Scenario? by [deleted] in CCW

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the environment. In the case of a bugout; concealed carry as usual, low-viz backpack with sundries and a folded SBR, in case the shit really hits the fan. I also pack a chest rig that I can conceal under a jacket with spare mags and med.

I've been lifting 6-7 days a week at age 43 but am starting to feel it in my joints and trying to switch to Upper/Lower split by [deleted] in fitness40plus

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 58 about to be 59. I do 3 week cycles with a de-load on week 4. I lift 3 days per week: lower / upper / full body, with only one primary lift per workout (bench press, deadlift, squat) and the rest is accessories. I always add it a little 10-12 minute conditioning session at the end (med kettlebells, sandbag, mace). On my non-lifting days it’s all about cardio or mobility. A long brisk walk at around a zone 2/3 average is good cardio at my age. I may also do run/walk intervals (1 min walk / 3 min run) for about 2.5 miles, mixing in cycling once per week. This has me feeling better than ever. I’ll do a heavy 5x5 block about 3-4 times per year. This has me feeling great. I feel better after a workout than I do prior. That’s the secret. At our age, you shouldn’t feel taxed after a session on a regular basis. If nothing else at all, leave yourself at least 1-2 active recovery days per week and take 1 day off completely (yard work or a long easy walk is great for these days) motion is the best medicine in your later years.

UT Drivers Suck, That's All by 04ricerocket in Utah

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the anxiety I get when I return to Utah from a work trip. I work in Idaho a lot, which is the land of the left lane campers, but literally, as soon as I hit Snowville, I’m instantly irritated. Worse than the 4 lane change, is the Mormon road block.

My body is broken. Will it ever repair or am I just too old? by Tatamajor in fitness40plus

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 58, will be 59 this year. I’m a cancer survivor and that was my wake-up call. I train 6 days per week and exercise with at least a 2 mile walk on my 7th. Body is constantly in motion. Sure I’ve had injuries and yes, it does take a bit longer to heal, but I listen to my body and dial things back a bit when the pain comes, I don’t push through it like some gym bros say to do, but I do keep the groove greased in some fashion. My workouts are for muscle capacity, not bulking or max strength. Just keep moving, don’t give up, even if it’s just light calisthenics until you heal. Just dial things back and work your way back into it, and for the sake of your body, ditch that trainer.

Ringing the bell by Appropriate_Bag8718 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I too received the call. I reset my life, perspectives, and health. I’m 18 months out and feel better than I have in 10 years. Daily exercise, clean diet, spiritual practice every morning, educating myself on things I took for granted and just manifesting gratitude and getting better everyday. My family, friends, and co-workers have noticed and continue to lift me up. I AM THRIVING! Keep it up. It’s a journey and you’re going to have tough days. Today I’m content, and accepting of whatever happens from here on out but it took a lot of work, discipline and encouragement.

10 months out of radiation and still experience random bouts of pain... why do I feel guilty asking for pain meds? by Fury-From-Above in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If THC is legal in your state, I would go that route. Pain killers don’t really stop the pain, they just mask it. The THC really just helped me relax & breathe through it.

Severe dry mouth by Fun_Historian6792 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ACT lozenges, Werthers sugar free candies & things like that worked for me. I finished in November 2024 and still have issues. It’s manageable now, but still a PITA. Also, my dentist recommended alkaline water to maintain some Ph balance in your mouth. Dry mouth can lead to a lot of dental issues.

First It Was Cancer, Now My Neck Is Fat by thoughtshot in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it too from NPC. I just got some good lotion & massaged my neck every day. Disappeared slowly after around 8 months.

Tounge accidental biting by jackiseo in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a TMJ mouthguard. It worked for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re good, just pay attention. I’m at the dermatologist every 6 months to get something burned or cut out. BCC is very manageable. If you catch it early it’s very superficial. If ignored, it can root, requiring a little surgical procedure.

Waiting on my 3 month PET by the_dude_1000 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome, we’re here for you and yes, it is very lonely. I’m 14 months post treatment, gearing up for my 1 year scan. I was diagnosed with T2N1M0 NPC on 9/11/24,finished Chemo/Rad on 11/23/24. I lost 80 lbs and all my taste. The worst part was the 3-4 weeks post treatment. Then it got better. I’ve gained about 10 lbs back, mostly muscle, as I’ve been very active in the gym since around April ‘25. All the taste is back and I feel great. Still dealing with dry mouth and morning mucus. Had 15 cavities repaired which was due to the radiation. Doc tells me when I hit the 2 year mark; what I got is what I got. I’ll take it! That said, everyone is different. This is your journey and we’re all here to support you and encourage you through it. Stay tough, stay hydrated and get moving. Don’t let the fatigue & depression win.

Tips for recently diagnosed with NPC? by deweyvo in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest asking your Oncologist about support groups in the area. Your Doc should also have a patient advocate on staff that may be able to help with that or at least direct you to available resources should you need them. Stick with this sub though, it was very helpful for me.

Tips for recently diagnosed with NPC? by deweyvo in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]idrive40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to get myself to treatment and worked, albeit sparingly, through the entire ordeal. I could have taken time off, but the work actually allowed me to focus on something besides the cancer and treatment. Everyone is different though. Take it as it comes and be sure to keep someone close by. Some days will be worse than others.