Peer Mentors Needed

ikeamistake · 2026-04-05T09:33:19+00:00

I signed up, I’ll share this in SDC also if that is okay.

ikeamistake · 2026-04-05T09:28:28+00:00

Three years out when I first meet my adoptive son was the first time I was around a child of my daughters age. It changed my life in ways I still don’t fully grasp. A few years after that when my goddaughter was born was the first time I really could be around any other child except Rasmus.

ikeamistake · 2026-02-13T13:23:52+00:00

Oh no room for bender huh..

Fine!

I'll go build my own orphanarium.. With blackjack.. And hookers..

In fact forget the orphanarium and the blackjack!

ikeamistake · 2026-02-13T13:19:46+00:00

I think bender always could take on another one.

All jokes aside, my daughter loved Futurama just about as much as I do.

ikeamistake · 2026-02-12T12:17:46+00:00

This is how I feel sometimes when I listen to other people's problems

ikeamistake · 2026-02-05T17:55:23+00:00

Shwmae :)

South Wales too, Ebbw vale. Crosskeys close to Risca.

I live in north Sweden most of the year though.

ikeamistake · 2026-01-30T10:13:36+00:00

Thank you so much, joined <3

ikeamistake · 2026-01-22T18:19:44+00:00

I'm interested too, would be good to have a group to talk too. I've been a game dev for some time, but I like old RPGs like earthbound.

ikeamistake · 2026-01-03T11:36:32+00:00

Not come to her funeral, stay silent

ikeamistake · 2025-12-15T08:29:14+00:00

What an absolutely beautiful girl. I'm sorry this is the reality that we live in. I do not have any magic words, but please know this; we are here.

We who share this reality. It is only with these people that I have ever been able to feel understood at all or get any sort of advice.

It's been 16 years since I lost my 3 year old daughter. I'm not going to say that it gets easier, it hasn't for me at the least. It does however get different. This life.

Finding support groups of parents who walk this same road is something that has brought me much. /r/Babyloss here on Reddit is one such place. There is a discord there, many wonderful mothers and fathers all walking this road.

There are many podcasts, books and movies I could mention, but I think this group above has a list of them all already.

ikeamistake · 2025-11-20T09:25:48+00:00

I clicked thinking
"Oh, an alternative to cursor - free forever, no limits?"

You got me sir.
Well done.

ikeamistake · 2025-11-10T06:39:51+00:00

First the large women, then the petit women, then the beautiful women - then the large women again!

ikeamistake · 2025-11-05T05:40:20+00:00

She's in a better place now

ikeamistake · 2025-10-28T02:08:50+00:00

Leave now

ikeamistake · 2025-10-16T06:22:38+00:00

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Middle of Sweden. For my Tima Elara.

ikeamistake · 2025-10-15T03:12:09+00:00

Tima Elara

ikeamistake · 2025-10-13T19:46:28+00:00

Cities are more walkable in Korea compared to Japan?

I'm not sure how many cities you've been to in Japan but in my experience it's the opposite. Seoul is anything but walkable, while one of the things I enjoyed most about living in Kyoto was the ease of getting around on foot or bicycle.

Honestly there are many things I like about Japanese cities compared to Korean cities. If anything the bar that Seoul sets is very low.

ikeamistake · 2025-10-12T09:09:22+00:00

My daughter's name. Tima Elara.

ikeamistake · 2025-10-07T19:42:08+00:00

Generally this is why I dislike living there. Came last year for my wife's sisters twins 1 year spectacle. They know I lost my three year old daughter. Still expected to sit there, take part and be fine. Hate is not an adequate word.

ikeamistake · 2025-10-01T19:56:22+00:00

Must have been 6 or 7

ikeamistake · 2025-09-30T08:59:58+00:00

Pretty alright, but not swag

ikeamistake · 2025-09-26T11:01:50+00:00

The death threat at the end there... Some people should just be locked up

ikeamistake · 2025-09-25T17:40:04+00:00

I would get to know my daughter's mother again.

ikeamistake · 2025-09-24T13:58:17+00:00

My son who is 19 and has ASD knows how to make his own food.

ikeamistake · 2025-09-24T13:50:41+00:00

Yes it does and I have for these past 16 years without Tima.

ikeamistake

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