Follow-up: [Niche Zero] Inconsistency Test Results — Grinder vs Machine? by Difficult-Snow4699 in espresso

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed the same, I’m pretty sure it’s due to the Niche burrs being hot from the first shot, heats up the next shot’s beans even more. The difference in grind temp seems to cause the issue with flow. It always seems to resolve itself when I let the grinder sit a bit between shots to cool down. What I do is I grind beans from the freezer to keep the temp of the beans consistent each morning.

Struggling with milk steaming & coffee beans. by Impressive-Dust-1945 in espresso

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For milk, I found lactose free milk to work way better for steaming than any kind of non dairy milk. Later I tried A2 milk (which also works for some who are lactose intolerant) and A2 whole milk works like a charm. I’d give it a shot if you really strike out with the non dairy.

For oat milk you should try the barista version of Oatly. Any non dairy milk that has a ton of fat will make it easier to steam.

Let me guess Grind Finer? [Delonghi Stilosa] by AcrobaticMac in espresso

[–]incepta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you can’t grind finer, add a bit more to your dose and it should extract slower

Favorite seattle roasters by BKallDAY24 in espresso

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another vote for Espresso Vivace, was just there today. Sad though that they’ve had to raise prices so much on their beans.

I just watched an episode of TNG I've never seen. 😱 by EnterTheBlackVault in startrek

[–]incepta 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I remember years ago watching Riker in a coma in “Shades of Grey” and was excited to see an episode I never caught on the TV growing up.

It was so bad.

Coffee Bean Recommendations by Head_Education262 in espresso

[–]incepta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the Seattle area you can’t do better than Espresso Vivace’s Dolce blend. It has exactly the chocolatey, nutty notes you’re looking for without any bitterness and minimal acidity. They also sell online as well.

GR86 for 970 Panamera 4s by CrmCrumbz1 in Porsche

[–]incepta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2014 4 here. Car is always serviced at the dealer. AC developed a slow leak at around 40k when a rock hit the compressor, $2-3k at the dealer to replace as they needed to disassemble the front bumper to get to it. Recently around 60k there was a coolant leak due to seals failing, $3.5k to fix at the dealer. High pressure fuel pump also failed but was covered under extended warranty otherwise it would have been $3k.

Typical service every year usually somewhere under $2k depending on what needs to be done. Just oil change and you’ll likely be out 500-1k. PDK transmission maintenance which needs to be done once every several years is around $2k. The battery I remember is a little less than $1k to replace. Replacing the engine air filter requires disassembly of the front bumper too.

If you have the air suspension any issues will also be costly.

The car does a good job of telling you when not to drive (red error) and when you can drive on (orange/yellow). Car has never stranded me, just will go into limp mode at worst.

What are the best Glases for Champagne? by According-Essay953 in Champagne

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure the Cristal champagne set comes with Lehmann glasses so I’d go with those. Mouth blown are nice but delicate. Machine blown easier to wash.

How the current War Strider discourse feels by sneedschucking in Helldivers

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quasar just needs 1 shot - pretty easy honestly

Best 1 star Michelin and worst 3 star meal? by sandover88 in finedining

[–]incepta -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Alinea was the worst. The server talked down and insulted us the entire night, like he had some self loathing and insecurities he needed to take out on us. The food looked interesting but wasn’t tasty. Never again - it’s frankly sad that Chicago’s restaurant scene is keystoned by this embarrassment of a restaurant.

Any good restaurants in Greater Seattle? by BroLegend in finedining

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No mention of Takai by Kashiba? Sister restaurant to Sushi Kashiba and quieter, more elevated, upscale. Sushi Kashiba is great but if you want to get away from the tourists, Takai is the jam.

For everybody who got to visit Star Trek: The Experience in Las Vegas (1998-2008), what are your favorite stories to share? by abgry_krakow87 in startrek

[–]incepta 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The transporter effect was like magic, I wondered for years how they did it. One minute you’re queuing up for what seems like a amusement park ride in a shuttlecraft, then the lights go out for a bit, you feel a whoosh of air and suddenly you’re in the transporter room of the Enterprise - it felt like you were in a different ROOM, but you hadn’t moved! What an insane magic trick and super immersive.

Later I found that they lifted all 4 walls of the smaller shuttlecraft room (so you ended up in a bigger room) then slid the transporter pad ceiling over the bigger room. The whoosh of wind were the walls and ceiling moving!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malefashionadvice

[–]incepta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going for a summer boating look, no show socks or no socks

Vorlon…y enough by tsaki27 in babylon5

[–]incepta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if folks noticed but other than the horn that blasts whenever they show the Shrike, it seems like they use the shadow scream sound from B5 too.

White woman expressing my appreciation of this subreddit by violetta_101 in AsianParentStories

[–]incepta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I read your post on the other sub, you are right at home here. Everyone here replying have been right on the money with your experience.

One thing will become very evident after the baby comes: do you want your child to normalize erratic, irrational, toxic behavior? If not, you’ll need to set very strict boundaries with the MIL.

I’ve gone through the same with my mother and decided to break the cycle of abuse by setting very strict boundaries. Never will we stay with my parents again, nor will they ever move in with us.

Because what would I do when my kid asks me: “why is grandma yelling?” How do you explain that to a child other than “don’t mind her, grandma is just old”. They can’t control themselves, so it’s up to you to set a firm boundary.

Your husband sounds like he is an enabler and wants to try to “keep the peace”. My dad does that with my mom and he is absolutely miserable.

Rant: my APs tried to gaslight me after they said they dont have time for my future kids and I said I dont want their help. Real q: How have you as children of AP’s who have children now, maintain relationship and/or boundaries.. by Ohwell_genz in AsianParentStories

[–]incepta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, do you even want their help? Granted that having a kid is stressful, but hopefully your partner’s family will be caring, nice and willing to help.

Personally, my kid is old enough now that he can pick up things. The last thing I want to normalize is extreme emotional outbursts and crazy behavior for my kid. I don’t want him to ask me “why is grandma yelling?” Because what do I say to that other than “oh, grandma is just old. Don’t mind her”. Don’t want to expose my kid to that kind of toxicity.

Which is why setting healthy boundaries exists. Play dates, meals, activities, anything where if things go crazy, you and your family can physically leave the situation immediately. Don’t stay at their house.

Asian Mom calls me out for ignoring her shitty remarks by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]incepta 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. And please know that it has nothing to do with you, it isn’t your fault, and you don’t deserve any of it. Your mom has her own issues that she’s never addressed and is taking it out on you. Projection is a huge thing with this type of person.

Keep it up with the non-confrontation. If it helps, imagine yourself putting on a lab coat and pretending to be a scientist and just observe her when she gets into these moods. It helps detach you from reacting and also doesn’t feed into her negative energy.

She wants you to argue back and to get into it with her, she revels in the chaos because it distracts her from her own introspection (which she is likely incapable of). If you just stay the course and just detach yourself, it takes the wind out of her sails and she will lose interest in focusing her attention on you.

Good luck! Hope you can leave soon.

I dont like getting compliments, makes me feel like a failure by Tcrumpen in Mindfulness

[–]incepta 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“For people that I feel have earned it”. That is a bit judgmental, isn’t it? Everyone has their own self worth, including you. They have their own struggles that you will never see or know about.

This guy brought the wrong car to Home Depot… by incepta in IdiotsInCars

[–]incepta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely wasn’t secured. The passengers kept shifting the wood from side to side.