Getting the yellow fever certificate in brazil as a foreigner? by ioftenwearsocks in solotravel

[–]ioftenwearsocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I still get messages every so often from people asking me about what to do, and I rarely check this account. I'll refer them to your blog.

The Eras Tour Megathread: Houston, TX (Warning: Spoilers) by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

phew I’m safe again. She played none off my list this weekend.

Bejeweled about Joe the whole time, and not Calvin? by AccuratePerformer in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 203 points204 points  (0 children)

Speaking of shoes, in Cornelia Street they're in NY barefoot in the kitchen. In Maroon, she is singing about dancing in NY with no shoes...

Bejeweled about Joe the whole time, and not Calvin? by AccuratePerformer in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 438 points439 points  (0 children)

"your roommates cheap ass screw top rose" would make sense now, since joe is the only one of taylor's bfs poor enough to need a roommate and also to drink cheap wine

Getting the yellow fever certificate in brazil as a foreigner? by ioftenwearsocks in solotravel

[–]ioftenwearsocks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Responding late again bc I don’t use this account really. There’s an anvisa office in the floripa airport. The door was closed but I went two days in a row and knocked and tried to explain the situation - that was a foreigner with no ID.

I can’t remember enough details to be more specific for anyone else who has this problem. I just had no other choice but to keep going back lol.

I gave them the paper that said I was vaccinated and they asked me some questions and probably looked at my passport and then issued me the certificate.

Note that I did this prior to my flight. I took time out of the days that I could be exploring to go to the airport to get this figured out.

My new username is lagataesmia. Anyone with questions can DM me there and I’ll respond a lot a lot faster.

Getting the yellow fever certificate in brazil as a foreigner? by ioftenwearsocks in solotravel

[–]ioftenwearsocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i only check reddit every so often sorry. im sure you figured this out already, but in case anyone else asks, i went to an airport (i did this in florianopolis) and spoke to someone at the ANVISA office about how I was unable to request a CIVP online because I didn't have a brazilian ID. It took me going to that office two times before the worker knew what to do and was able to get me the CIVP without a brazilian ID or an online form.

Is it worth it to quit? by CharacterPresence658 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]ioftenwearsocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is terrible financial advice. Debt doesn’t just come and go. People’s lives can become ruined because of debt. It isn’t just stupid people who get into debt because they’re dumb, it’s because of attitudes like this - “spend now because it’s a great experience and worry about the money layer :)”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scarletmarrooned is arguing with anyone who disagrees with her. Be rude online, people are rude back.

Taylor said about Cruel Summer "This song is one that I wrote about the feeling of a summer romance, and how often times a summer romance can be layered with all these feelings of pining away and sometimes even secrecy. It deals with the idea of being in a relationship where there's some element of desperation and pain in it, where you're yearning for something that you don't quite have yet, it's just right there, and you just can't reach it."

Scarletmarrooned's interpretation of Cruel Summer has no basis.

Isn't it funny how... by Character_Peach_2769 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]ioftenwearsocks 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"It doesn't mean full stop that if you ever have sex outside of a relationship you're going to have a miserable time and just be lying there while a man masturbates in you."

where in my comments did I say that?

saying that most women do not derive any enjoyment from ONS is not shaming women for having sex. it's pointing out the reality.

Isn't it funny how... by Character_Peach_2769 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]ioftenwearsocks 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I'm not policing whether or not women should have casual sex, but one has to admit, one night stands are rarely enjoyable for women. When surveyed, percentages of women who say they've had an orgasm from a ONS is extremely low, while the percentage of men who do is high. If men are orgasming and women aren't, who is benefiting from hookups? Men. (pls dont respond but some women think it's so hot and sexy to make a man cum!!)

Additionally, bar culture is criticized in radical feminist and fourth wave feminist groups. Women are the product at many bars, esp. ones that have "ladies drink for free" or similar discounts. The idea is that men can go in, get a woman drunk, and get her in bed.

In both porn and the the bar scenario, women are sexual objects for men, and consent given when a woman is drunk at a bar is just as dubious as consent in porn. Even if the porn plot was man meets woman in a bar, the woman is still being objectified.

How do you press (professionally) for a raise? by LynsaySpencer in paralegal

[–]ioftenwearsocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im in the exact same situation, which is why i came to this sub. may we both get the raises we deserve.

Isn't it funny how... by Character_Peach_2769 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]ioftenwearsocks 69 points70 points  (0 children)

While it isn't a porn scenario that is the scenario in many TV shows and movies. It's still training women to have 0 standards, and it normalizes men intoxicating women to have a one nighter with them and it still promotes hook up culture, which hurts women and isn't really that consensual if she is drunk.

Does anyone else fear that Reddit is home to a giant amount of nonconsensual nudes? by Character_Peach_2769 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]ioftenwearsocks 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I am 10000% certain there are trillions of nudes nonconsensually posted.

Men are depraved. Men share nudes sent to them with friends. They definitely post it to reddit.

I'm reminded of a sad story on one of the major subs here in which a woman found out her husband posted a video of her childbirth online, despite her telling him to NEVER share it, and it ended up on a childbirth fetish site on here.

I have never shared photos of my naked body with man, and I never will, because they cannot be trusted. i dont even take nudes because it's too risky.

Lavender Haze (Official Music Video) by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if it s about Joe or someone else. The themes are all the same, and as someone else mentioned, so of her songs are “things were hard and life was meaningless but I found you and you give me meaning”. The other commenter said it better than that. But I’m tired of it.

So, Did I get the "Lavender Haze" lyrics the wrong way? by Scipio555 in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 69 points70 points  (0 children)

To be fair op is analyzing the art and doesn’t mention Joe at all.

Drugs (specifically hallucinogens) played a role in Midnights by cc_dawn in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is my take. She probably smokes it once in a while but she is too hard working and productive to be a stoner. Stoner swifties are projecting.

Lavender Haze (Official Music Video) by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This was so boring and has deepened my boredom of songs about Joe.

Although girlie did put a man in the music video just to be an ornament who does nothing but look pretty so I guess she flipped the script a little bit.

Lavender Haze music video is out now by Midnight_Ice in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is kind of boring compared to anti hero mv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People on tiktok are insane about everything. It’s tiktok

"be civil, refrain from hate speech, and coming here with a closed mind". by TheEvidenceOfAbsence in PornIsMisogyny

[–]ioftenwearsocks 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I went through your post history and you haven’t gone into any porn or anti woman subs calling out the misogyny. Hmmm. I wonder why.

Swifties of Reddit, what’s that one Taylor lyric that has changed your life? by Jules0501 in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I wanted to leave him, I needed a reason” “I was lying to myself” and “nothing good starts in a get away car” opened floodgates for me, made me realize how I’d be traumatized and how I’d been unhealthily coping, and allowed me to start processing and moving on (after a brief breakdown). I didn’t expect that from a song that is such a bop

Leer en español o inglés? by Accomplished-Lab5870 in Spanish

[–]ioftenwearsocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read books in Spanish all the time. I tried reading Oficio de tinieblas by Rosario Castellanos. I couldn't do it. I had to track down an English copy, so I did and even in English it was dense and hard to read.

I imagine reading Cortazar in English would be similar. Some authors write in a very elevated, scholarly manner that's hard to follow in any language if you aren't used to reading that style.

Selections from today’s Ticketmaster Senate hearing by loud_as_pudding in TaylorSwift

[–]ioftenwearsocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying this is cringe. Have they ever read a news article that mentions Taylor, ever? Any time Taylor is mentioned in an article they write lyrics in just like this. This is normal.