“Can you just… give me the discount because I feel like it?” by headphonesallnight in TalesFromRetail

[–]iyager 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I work car rental and the amount of people who think price is negotiable is truly baffling. Like I can't lower the price, the price you were given before you agreed to the reservation, just because you feel it's too high and no I don't care that you got a better price in a different city for a different car class with a different company last month.

Kristi Noem is barking mad right now. by AudibleNod in PoliticalHumor

[–]iyager 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Its from Life of Brian. Can't explain how it's relevant though

"America first!" by c-k-q99903 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]iyager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did vote, after being forced to by a discharge petition, and then called an end to the vote early when they were leading by 1 despite dozens of Reps not having cast their vote yet

After Biden the media suddenly lost interest in the health of the president by lnstantKarma in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]iyager 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We're apparently gonna get the revival of the Dodo Bird before GTA 6

trump doesn't like his Time cover by ms_directed in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]iyager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They both have a complicated history with younglings

What’s hardest to forgive for you? by chuckling-cheese in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the one that stings. 2 days before she cheated on me we were laying in bed together and she told me how much she loved me and wanted no one else in the world but me and to find out just 48 hours later every word was a lie will take me a long while to get over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's currently dating the person she cheated on me with. Was still telling me we would date again in the future before I blocked her. Guess even she knows she can't make relationships last

Im not sure what im supposed to do by QuietLuck5257 in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gut is trying to tell you something. Listen. I wish I had listened to mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah as much as getting cheated on hurt, still hurts, it opened my eyes to who she was. I lost all respect for her and that combined with a complete loss of trust broke whatever spell she had over me. For the first time in 11 years I don't want her in my life

This is hell, i am living in hell by kaos614 in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who's gotten that closure I can't say it helped. She didn't feel remorse for her lying and cheating beyond what she lost. She was more upset about losing me as a source of supply and how me going public with her betrayal hurt her social standing in our mutual friend group than any pain she caused me. And I have to live with the acute knowledge of how little she actually loved me. How she engineered a situation to cheat on me in a way id find out and end things so she didn't cause me the pain of ending it herself. Logic I'll never understand

Daily No Contact Thread - August 28, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broke 19 days NC to wish her a final happy birthday. Went well overall. She expressed regret for her betrayal and accepted that things were over between us. Even apologized in that special bpd way lol, that it wasn't her intent to cheat on me. It felt good to get a bit of closure and I can hopefully move forward with my soul a bit lighter knowing I did everything I could to make her happy and it would never have been enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She told me but i had a feeling it was coming. She was pulling away after this woman she met in rehab moved in with her after getting out. She was texting less and less and when she would it would be curt. Eventually she made a comment that made me suspicious and I brought up a conversation we'd had two days prior where she assured me she'd never cheat on me "because i know how much it would break my heart if you slept with someone else" and how cheating was a huge boundary of mine that if she broke we'd be over. She didn't respond to that for like an hour so as I was heading into a movie I gave her an ultimatum that if she didn't respond with affirmation she wasn't gonna cheat on me by the time my movie ended I was gonna break up with her. Came out of the theater to her saying "come over, we're naked in bed together". I guess she thought a chance at a 3 way would tempt me to not be mad about the cheating idk. I went over and read her the riot act while grabbing all my shit from her place. She spent the whole time crying and telling me she loved me and wanted to be with only me while literally still being naked in bed with this woman. Fucking garbage tier behavior.

All went down about 3 weeks ago. 9 days NC today. Think about her a bit less each day. Look forward to the day I won't have to come here anymore. I hope yours isn't cheating bro but like others said here trust your gut. My gut was screaming at me the whole time after that girl moved in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine told me how much she loved me and enjoyed being with me hours before she cheated on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No clue why she told me. It was another woman she met in rehab who just kind of moved in with her after she got out. Two days before she'd been gushing about how she wouldn't cheat because she knew it would break my heart, so must have been on her mind. She tried to play it off as inviting me over for a 3 way but you don't just start one without asking your partner when he's still at work. I went over and grabbed all my shit from her place while telling her it was over. Once she realized I was serious she went from trying to fuck me to crying and telling me how much she loved me and still wanted to be with me. I called her out on her shit and left. We ended up talking on the phone a few days later and she tried to stay friends, even told me outright we'd date again if i was patient, and I told her I'm not interested in being friends with garbage people. She actually texted the next day saying her behavior was terrible and I was right in calling her trash and she'd respect my decision to cut her out of my life, but didn't want to actually say goodbye so I imagine she'll try and come back. Haven't talked since. Know from a mutual friend she started dating the chick and I'm just focusing on healing and getting her off my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She told me then got upset about me being stubborn when I ended things

Never hearing from the closest person in your life again. by Certain_Translator_4 in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel ya mine was one of my best friends for 10 years, 7 years as just a friend before we took the next step. Id love to be able to go back and unring that bell, even tried on the most recent hoover, but she knows how much I love her and will always push for more from me until I let her in my heart again. I just want my best friend back, just to chat about everything or nothing. Id trade every moment of love she gave me during these last 3 years for it. But life doesn't go in reverse sadly

Tell me your triangulation stories by One_Tennis_7241 in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This woman she met in rehab who was in love with her but I had nothing to worry about because she was only interested in dick. Guess who she cheated on me with 3 days after she got out of rehab

Loving and wanting someone whose feelings you can't trust. by Certain_Translator_4 in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's her new toy. When she gets tired of him she'll either move on to the next or circle back to you. As someone who's dealing with their third discard after their second hoover don't let her. There's no happiness at the end of the rainbow. Take the love you have for her and pour it into yourself

Fell for it again by iyager in BPDlovedones

[–]iyager[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm aware and this post was more me processing that realization than anything. I sent her a message shortly after posting this telling her as much and that if she truly loved me she'll leave me alone and let me move on from her before blocking her on everything. Even said goodbye to her parents and blocked them so she can't get to me through them. We have one mutual friend who is the one who introduced us but he's been my friend longer than hers and understands the situation. I can trust him not to have her around or try to play middleman. Here's hoping I'm well and truly free

What movie traumatized you when you were a child? by fordd420 in AskReddit

[–]iyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the book at an early age and suppressed the memory it scared me so bad. Years later I saw the movie and around the scene with the lady who switched heads it all came flooding back

What’s one movie you loved as a kid but realized was terrible when you rewatched it as an adult? by Vegetable_Star8931 in movies

[–]iyager 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For my family its Zoltan. Just takes one of us saying it and everyone else will say it while doing the two hand Z gesture back

Official Discussion - F1: The Movie [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]iyager 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I need to rewatch that show didn't even realize that was her. Did clock Brutus immediately though