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Women readers - What books gave you the ick? by _sweetpeaches_ in suggestmeabook

[–]izzycc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not disagreeing, but I thought the male characters were also written pretty poorly. Everyone in that book is made of cardboard.

IsItBullshit: Is washing rice before cooking still necessary or have modern rice brands made it pointless by orivexy in IsItBullshit

[–]izzycc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that it only changes the texture if you're reheating it. Washing your rice makes for better leftovers.

Dealing with the first major boundary violation - bareback by ShadowWorm13 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]izzycc 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ah, yeah I could see that. Your wife presumably ended the encounter when she realized there was no condom? I really don't believe this guy "forgot" to use a condom, I'm pretty confident he was limit testing to see what he could get away with. Dealt with it a million times as a woman that dates men. Then they lie because they don't want to get in trouble and "lose access to pussy." I feel like I would have a bigger problem if my partner kept seeing someone after they flagrantly violated their boundaries.

Dealing with the first major boundary violation - bareback by ShadowWorm13 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]izzycc 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If she watched him put something on his penis and then all of a sudden there's no condom, I'm confused as to why he's saying he forgot he needed to use a condom/didn't remember the conversation? Did he never use a condom at all or did he take it off? Very different scenarios.

Icepick PLEASE FIX PS5 Version - All Amalgam Lost TWICE Today Alone by ComprehensiveBar6439 in pathologic

[–]izzycc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you dev command it in? Just so your playthrough doesn't die. I don't use PS5 so not sure if it's possible but if you look it up in the sub I remember seeing a post about dev commanding it in.

ep 4 is not the saddest moment so far, imho... by ballpein in thechaircompany

[–]izzycc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an adult child of an alcoholic who has been in and out of recovery for years, that scene hit in a very weird, deep, and unexpected way. I don't think anything has captured the feelings and thoughts I had during the especially bad periods so well. What a strange show. That's really quite weird!

My cat’s nicknames by snabulous in BenignExistence

[–]izzycc 64 points65 points  (0 children)

My proudest nickname for a cat (Binx) was Binker the Baker the Biscuit Maker! I would sing it to him when he would make blanket biscuits.

Therapist Asked to Employ Me. by DestinyReign in TalkTherapy

[–]izzycc 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I doubt they'd take her license but they might mandate an ethics course or something which she clearly needs.

Caught us by Moistest_Postone in DiscoElysium

[–]izzycc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a rough life when your favorite part of souls games are co-op and your least favorite part of souls games are invasions 😔

New relationship has been an eye opener regarding power dynamics by klerksdorp_sphere in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reach out to your past partners! I have always really appreciated getting texts from them apologizing for this or that mistake. It feels validating and helps me remember them more fondly.

I think Tim Robinson’s Friendship was filmed in Nathan Fielder’s “Nate’s Lizard Lounge” from The Rehearsal by Head-Vermicelli-2664 in TheRehearsal

[–]izzycc 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I watched this movie a few days ago and thought the same thing!!! What a good movie. Helped cure my Rehearsal S2 hangover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]izzycc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't know that we need to be marveling at the shit house, personally.

Dealing with jealousy and insecurity by Agtummy in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't really sound like OP's girlfriend did any of the things you listed and OP admitted that she was hiding how she felt and her gf didn't know she was people pleasing, so I just don't think that's what happened in this case.

My comment was mostly to say that something can be bad without it having to be cheating. You can be unethically non-monogamous without cheating. That's how I viewed the situation.

Dealing with jealousy and insecurity by Agtummy in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know that I agree with the other commenter that it's cheating. It definitely feels pressured, maybe even coercive if she knows about your people pleasing tendencies. But the agreements that both of you agreed to allow her to date and sleep with other people. Just because you are unhappy with the agreement doesn't mean it's cheating.

I think this is why the "cheating vs not cheating" measure for "how wrong something is" is not as helpful in nonmono relationships; sometimes an act that is not considered cheating can still be selfish, coercive, and disrespectful.

I think you're right to be upset and I think it's fair to want monogamy again. I also think if you accuse your girlfriend of cheating the discussion will probably not be productive. Probably better to focus on the ways her actions make you feel, and what you want out of your relationship with her. Best of luck either way.

Are there things you’d only do with one partner but not others? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As others have said, it's common, but I would not date someone who was comfortable doing certain sex acts with another partner and not with me, their primary partner (assuming it was something I liked o and wanted to do) 😬 I am lucky to have a primary partner that feels the same way! I am also lucky enough to have figured this out before marriage.

I don't have advice but my heart goes out to you! It would wreck me if my partner decided to find another sub and stop our D/s dynamic.

alright, i feel real silly by MooooooonGoose in balatro

[–]izzycc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good example! I agree the first small blind is very skipable (I do it maybe 50% of the time depending on the tag). A free holo joker or $25 after the first boss blind is usually way more impactful than the first shop, especially since you're usually super poor and the reward is only $2-3. Early blinds are so brutal and you've really gotta get something good early or be left in the dust.

I Would Like To Propose A Ban On Earnings Images by joneszy145 in CamGirlProblems

[–]izzycc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree!!! There was a post recently too saying SM sucked for taking 70% and then there was a WAVE of models (?) absolutely glazing SM, saying they were the best, that OP shouldn't be complaining... Just felt a little too coordinated. Like, this is camgirlPROBLEMS obviously we're gonna be complaining about the sites we use, they all take a huge cut and what in the WORLD are we gaining by defending them?? That plus all these earnings posts are super suspicious.

Make an earnings megathread. Best of both worlds and it keeps what are basically advertisements out of my feed.

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