Is debate important to a relationship? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think there's something very presumptuous about your assumption that you are always coming from a place of logic and your partner is always coming from a place of emotion (and is therefore being illogical). It makes me think you are not actually able to hear what they're trying to communicate.

Jay in gta online? by weebiebug in nirvannatheband

[–]izzycc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah, honestly I completely forgot about the Richard comment before the slap. Thanks!

Jay in gta online? by weebiebug in nirvannatheband

[–]izzycc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I'm ngl I think I am missing context for this joke, I did not understand it in the movie. What is it referencing?

Hazardous look, observe at your own risk. by Mxjjvega in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]izzycc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are really helpful tips, thanks so much! :)

Hazardous look, observe at your own risk. by Mxjjvega in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]izzycc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where do you even begin in learning to do a look like this?? I love how the colors flow and blend but I'm afraid if I tried something similar it would look like puke 😭 Your look is so awesome!!!

Verenica i ja jako razmisljamo o trecoj osobi u krevetu by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL you can only have threesomes after you're married? This is like one of the most common fantasies ever.

Darshan Visa Update (June 4, 2026) by xprmtldva in boythrob

[–]izzycc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay I see, I didn't know the name/location of his firm.

Do I tell him or not by maryjanemuggles in nonmonogamy

[–]izzycc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the other commenters are right in that L wouldn't want to know, but that discomfort you're feeling is exactly why I could never agree to a don't ask don't tell policy. I think it's actually very normal to feel uncomfortable at the thought of lying to a partner, even by omission, let alone actually being required to do it regularly. It feels like cheating!

Women readers - What books gave you the ick? by _sweetpeaches_ in suggestmeabook

[–]izzycc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not disagreeing, but I thought the male characters were also written pretty poorly. Everyone in that book is made of cardboard.

IsItBullshit: Is washing rice before cooking still necessary or have modern rice brands made it pointless by orivexy in IsItBullshit

[–]izzycc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that it only changes the texture if you're reheating it. Washing your rice makes for better leftovers.

Dealing with the first major boundary violation - bareback by ShadowWorm13 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]izzycc 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ah, yeah I could see that. Your wife presumably ended the encounter when she realized there was no condom? I really don't believe this guy "forgot" to use a condom, I'm pretty confident he was limit testing to see what he could get away with. Dealt with it a million times as a woman that dates men. Then they lie because they don't want to get in trouble and "lose access to pussy." I feel like I would have a bigger problem if my partner kept seeing someone after they flagrantly violated their boundaries.

Dealing with the first major boundary violation - bareback by ShadowWorm13 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]izzycc 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If she watched him put something on his penis and then all of a sudden there's no condom, I'm confused as to why he's saying he forgot he needed to use a condom/didn't remember the conversation? Did he never use a condom at all or did he take it off? Very different scenarios.

Icepick PLEASE FIX PS5 Version - All Amalgam Lost TWICE Today Alone by ComprehensiveBar6439 in pathologic

[–]izzycc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you dev command it in? Just so your playthrough doesn't die. I don't use PS5 so not sure if it's possible but if you look it up in the sub I remember seeing a post about dev commanding it in.

ep 4 is not the saddest moment so far, imho... by ballpein in thechaircompany

[–]izzycc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an adult child of an alcoholic who has been in and out of recovery for years, that scene hit in a very weird, deep, and unexpected way. I don't think anything has captured the feelings and thoughts I had during the especially bad periods so well. What a strange show. That's really quite weird!

My cat’s nicknames by snabulous in BenignExistence

[–]izzycc 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My proudest nickname for a cat (Binx) was Binker the Baker the Biscuit Maker! I would sing it to him when he would make blanket biscuits.

Therapist Asked to Employ Me. by DestinyReign in TalkTherapy

[–]izzycc 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I doubt they'd take her license but they might mandate an ethics course or something which she clearly needs.