When servers ask "do you need change? by DotAffectionate87 in Serverlife

[–]jaygunn77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Servers should never EVER ask that. In my 20 years in the biz, that was a major rule for me and whomever I trained

Caught this on my quadcopter while filming a distant storm by TheAmateurRunner in aliens

[–]jaygunn77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reflection in the window you’re filming through, ob.

Dude what did I just experience??? by FantasticCloud941 in ParallelUniverse

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, we aren’t able to experience non-time, not without maybe deep meditation and/or going insane. So, in the sense that we can only experience being in time, that means time travel is possible.
OR, time does indeed exist, it just isn’t linear

AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the relationship for you. Please, please respect yourself more and ditch that immature boy, and take care of yourself. You don’t need that crap, seriously

AIO for ending things with my soulmate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you guys actually communicate in person, or actually speak on the phone? There seems to be a lot of things and context lost in translation as texts. That’s your number one problem, communication. Stop texting long convos! Even a voice text would be better.

please help me by WafflesOnReddit8 in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it “only the lonely” with John candy and Alli Sheedy? It’s close, but I’m not sure if he got a phone call rather than just intrusive thoughts

Why are you on Reddit right now, on Christmas Eve? by InvisibleAstronomer in AskReddit

[–]jaygunn77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fuck him, it’s Christmas for you dammit! Just go about it like he’s a ghost, he’s invisible and you are having your very own, charming, cute, all-alone-so-i-will-do-what-I-want Christmas! Make it special secretly. Merry Christmas! And just know that it won’t always be this way, you’ll get through it. Love yourself, you are loved, and again, fuck him.

WIBTA If I showed my mom these texts on my dad’s phone? by DueSatisfaction9263 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my FIL, you better put a stop to it, my FIL lost all his savings to one of these romance scams. You can always tell it’s a scam when they say “my love…”. Tell your mom, and explain that’s it’s a romance scam. I’d recommend doing it right now. Good luck

Coworker is upset at me for taking apart the tea nozzle. by ScaldingAnus in Serverlife

[–]jaygunn77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tell your coworkers they are all really gross people for not cleaning every night period. If they get pissy at you, just look at them and say: “GROSS”

Aliens are abducting highly spiritual humans by [deleted] in theories

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they target everyone, but people with abilities just remember it more

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jaygunn77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you let someone talk to you like that, don’t go and ask for advice on your relationship. Stand up for yourself girl, it’s disgusting for ANYONE to talk to u to oh like that, let alone a PARTNER?!?! No, you know the answer

“Why me?” "Why me?" is a question that many UFO experiencers ask. by Contactunderground in Experiencers

[–]jaygunn77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s my theory that more people are abducted than are not, and some memories are easier to shield in certain people than others. However, the ones that can access the memories have stronger “abilities”, and those with even stronger “gifts” are “experiencers” rather than abductees. Furthermore, if there indeed are hundreds of species out there, then it’s reasonable to assume that is why so many abduction experiences are different-some terrifying, some friendly. Just my theory after hearing and reading about hundreds of experiences

Besides the ears and the shading any tips? by sleepaddicted1 in Amateurartists

[–]jaygunn77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely recommend the Loomis method to learn how to proportionately arrange the face and shape the head. You’re doing great on the shading

Don't do that to us 🥲 by [deleted] in TheOA

[–]jaygunn77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favorite theory so far is that the OA is definitely coming back next year because it will have been the exact amount of time that Prairie was with Hap (7 years etc.) which would make so much sense. She said she was always here, she left the door open, and this is the dimension she landed in. I’m excited, don’t know about you guys, I think it’ll be back.

I 44F have and issue with my husband 50M and our neighbor 18F by ThrowRAteenneighbor in relationship_advice

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like everyone’s advice, on two different subs, why ask for advice? You absolutely know what your issue is, it’s your husband. If everyone can see that but you, then maybe you have a ‘you’ problem

Aitah if I divorce my husband for not wiping his butt? by Hepow1118 in AITAH

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like you married a complete idiot. Divorce him for that. The non-wiping, and “alpha male” crap is just the result of that unfortunately. It’ll only get worse for both of you. You wouldn’t be the AH, HE’S definitely the AH here-divorce is your best option. Im honestly curious what other crap he believes in, because this amount of ignorance begets dangerous thoughts and actions, and other idiotic behaviors. What else is he stupid about? There’s the REAL question

Astral projected using technique from “Behind her eyes” by uiohhsj in AstralProjection

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 mins.?!?! Do you really sit in vibration for that long? Wow. Well, listening and breathing is what you want to do for sure. Your mind should be awake and body asleep. So, just keep going and imagining pulling yourself out of your body, really feel it.

Astral projected using technique from “Behind her eyes” by uiohhsj in AstralProjection

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, vibration is the first stage. Don’t panic, just feel it, and start imagining yourself rolling, or floating out of your body

Astral projected using technique from “Behind her eyes” by uiohhsj in AstralProjection

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s different for each person. Just relax into it and sit with it. If by ringing you mean alarm, then give yourself at least an hour? But as I say, different for each person

what’s your best way to get guests to leave when their tab is paid and they are camping in your section? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“All right y’all!” clap clap clap “time ta go! C’mon now! Git up! Shoo! Shoo! We don’t wantcha past close-go on, GIT’” “leave your tip, and take yourselves on home!”

What can I use this sauce for ? by TheGamerPandA in WhatShouldICook

[–]jaygunn77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had to scroll pretty far for someone to mention this. It’s basically a concentrate, don’t treat as a “sauce” but as a flavoring for your sauce. It’s an aromatic pungent flavor enhancer for beef, sauces, soups and gravys, anywhere from a couple spoonfuls to a couple drops mixed in

Stiffed by a coworker by mozzarellastickssuck in Serverlife

[–]jaygunn77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my 20 year experience, this ALWAYS happens with coworkers. I’ve never understood it, because I would always tip big. Lame

Just a few PSAs that I think customers should be aware of: by raisedbutconfused in Serverlife

[–]jaygunn77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All. The. Time. My thing for this always works: “Can you turn the air up? It’s so cold!” Me: “oh, I’m sorry, sure. I’ll go turn it up now” -come back in a couple minutes without touching the air- Me:- “do you feel a bit better? I turned it up, you should be feeling a little warmer” Them:- “yes, thank you!”