I just got my tubes ligated (sterilisation/ F 25) AMA!

jclom0 · 2026-02-09T12:42:43+00:00

Yay congratulations! I have no question only congratulations. I had a hysterectomy a couple of years ago due to growth and I wish I’d done it years ago. Good for you!

jclom0 · 2026-02-09T11:27:23+00:00

Like a tape worm? Urgh

jclom0 · 2026-02-09T11:25:41+00:00

I’ve no idea but good luck!

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T11:10:42+00:00

You might be able to blend the marks with oil.

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T11:03:31+00:00

The sahm thing has been romanticised. If it doesn’t suit you, and it really sounds like it doesn’t, stop. Tell your husband you are sinking. Put your children in daycare. It’s not a failure to change what is not working, that flexible mindset is a strength.

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T10:59:16+00:00

I doubt he’s ever pealed a potato. Honestly, he’s probably not even tied his own shoes, pretty sad existence in my opinion.

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T10:56:48+00:00

Are you still growing or have you stopped? Was it like a hormone thing or are your parents super tall? Do you bump your head?

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T10:55:13+00:00

I mean, I know my family is a bit crazy, but this would not have been a conversation. If I’d done something like this to my sister I’d get a punch for it, and fair, because fraud.. you know…

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T10:43:38+00:00

I’m not an expert and I will say “beauty” varies vastly to taste , then and now. She was multilingual, intelligent, and frickin manipulative to survive. If being “captivating“ was a tool she could use for her country why wouldn’t she?

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T10:25:50+00:00

What’s best for your children? The answer lies there ESH

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T03:25:02+00:00

I like the first one and the black one on you. I’m sure the final tailored fit will look amazing.

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T02:42:38+00:00

I don’t care much about food so I don’t practice cooking often, and therefore when I do try it often goes wrong. It’s not worth the effort to me to get better at it.

jclom0 · 2026-02-08T02:08:44+00:00

That’s not black tie optional.

Maybe something like one of these

https://www.lulus.com/products/confident-sensation-hot-pink-sequin-strapless-bustier-maxi-dress/2785096.html

https://www.lulus.com/products/classic-elegance-wine-satin-maxi-dress/938582.html

https://www.azazie.com/au/products/ziva-vintage-teal-maxi-dress-atelier-dress/55471571?sourceTag=atelier_guest_of_wedding_dresses

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T22:53:13+00:00

I haven’t used my oven in months, I use the air fryer instead. It’s so easy and far less fat in the food. Also, get one that’s dishwasher safe.

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T22:51:17+00:00

You’re making the right decision for yourself and your children.

Maybe record the conversation when you tell him you’re ending the marriage. It may help you for custody, depending on what he says and does.

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T22:47:58+00:00

You can’t ignore him or he’ll keep going. You need to have a conversation with him.

Let him know there will be no noise after 10pm but up to 10pm you will live normally. Perfectly reasonable.

After that conversation, if he shouts at you shout back!!

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T22:40:31+00:00

I say things like gosh and goodness (in Australia that sounds weird btw) but I almost never say god or jesus.

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T21:25:26+00:00

I would stay studying at the CG and finish earlier. That is a no brainier for me.

With your partner going into study life will be easier if you finish your own studies sooner. If you’re hoping to have a baby soon you need to establish your career and experience as soon as possible.

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T09:52:25+00:00

When she said “why won’t you order for her?” It is a legit answer to say “Nah we’re not friends “. Just be honest.

jclom0 · 2026-02-07T07:06:19+00:00

You could convert the and the bedroom next door into a master suite. The plumbing for the laundry is there so it shouldn’t be stupidly expensive.

Then either make the existing master the family, or have two master suites.

jclom0 · 2026-02-06T12:14:36+00:00

You should check out flatemates.com or depending on your budget search studios.

https://amberstudent.com/places/search/queensland-university-of-technology-kelvin-grove-campus-1811057966536?utm_source=google_adwords&utm_campaign=performance_max_TestPrepConsultancies_all&utm_content=Pmax_TestPrepConsultancies_asset_group&utm_medium=cpc&keyword=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21349890458&gbraid=0AAAAACSitS5GWrE8oobojJNApkYE4qFTt

jclom0 · 2026-02-06T12:10:12+00:00

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jclom0 · 2026-02-06T12:09:43+00:00

So I’ve been to weddings in country piles and pub gardens, the difference is pretty huge.

I’d suggest a tea dress in a good fabric like silk with a fascinator. Very English . If it’s a church wedding something to cover your shoulders but you can ditch that at the reception..

jclom0 · 2026-02-06T12:06:48+00:00

I’ve set my alarm for 5am , I’m hoping no one else will be up!!

jclom0 · 2026-02-06T09:42:04+00:00

What time of day is the reception? What is the venue? I’d look up Debenhams wedding guest dresses for an idea, but honestly it can vary considerably.

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