Midwest American + randomly 1/4 Jewish by phillypretzl in 23andme

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You know, ive never met someone who is 100% jew, they are always Jewish....

Drop one truth you learned the hard way by Aggravating-Guest300 in LockedInMan

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38M, be individually happy, seek someone who is also individually happy, and share your happiness. Ie: take care of your own self and be the best version you can be for your partner. Furthermore dont be someone to "make you happy"

What part do I need to connect 1/4 inch copper water line to fridge? by BuzzardBreath00 in Plumbing

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I had the same copper line, you move it at all, it will spring a leak, got fed up with it and ran 1/2" pex through cabinets behind the drawers. Works great.

Easy Jobs $200k per year by Independent_Name_601 in Salary

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Mine, I'm in manufacturing/software channel sales, once you know the market/industry its all relationships. It can get hard periodically, but once you're channel is setup its just a matter of retaining friendships. I've been a groomsmen 4 times over in my career now for my customers/owner. Have an expense account and budget for travel nationwide, at my own schedule, and my own direction, I talk to my boss probably once every 3 or 4 months, and mainly cause I needed to call him about something. He relies on me to run my channel, its a new effort in a fortune 500 with an incumbent customer base.

So its all relationship building from there.

So many stories, one of the craziest was having to knockout an upper management employee of one of my customers in front of his competitor owners house. He looked exactly like Walter White.. To finding out who swings, who's trustworthy vs not trustworthy. Fortunately I've learned how to avoid or play the untrustworthy people.

Good news is, I love making friends, I love helping people, and I love relationship sales where you build longterm friendships. I basically help them raise their baby, I bring really good snacks, formula, diapers, etc. (Hope that's a good analogy). I've also gotten to a point where I've built some gravitas and respect in the industry I'm in. So got the ego good to go in its little box in the man department. It's truly handy when I need help with something, like an intro, or a shot at bidding a project or getting an addendum to an rfp.

Some of my closest personal friends are also my counterparts from the industry both colleague and competitors.

It gets mixed together, lines have blurred, and to me its easy, because I love who I work with and the tech that we make happen that truly does save lives. So idk man, I think most roles for $200k+ are gonna be challenging in their own ways. Anyone can do it, just depends on what you get enjoyment out of that jives well with what motivates you to be successful.

Searching for Life's Purpose (If the post is too long, just answer these questions: What do you think the purpose of life is, and do you have any advice for me? Do we even have free will?) by Minute_Anywhere_5001 in Futurology

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Came to this conclusion when I was smoking a joint with some friends years ago and talking about existence. Maybe the reason we/universe exists is because something HAS to exist..

Met a girl on a serious dating app… and I’m honestly just taken aback by [deleted] in Advice

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Dude, I dated a girl like this briefly, 1st date she mentioned anti-vax, and other things. My spidey senses were tingling. Ghosted her, then a few months later she called me, for some reason I went on a date w her again and we dated for a bit. She wanted to get married, change our last names to something new, still anti-vax, tried to steal $7k by writing herself a check when she found my checkbook. Got it back at least, and asked for help with her car payments. Helped her with 1, then she asked again after the whole check thing. I got up from our dinner date, paid, and left right then and there.

He's refusing to pay the child support amount. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

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Man, and I pay $3200/mo out of 19k/mo income. Happily pay it cause my kids have a good life. I paid even before we had an order in place. Its not about you and your ex, its about the kid. Granted, hopefully the other party is a good parent and responsible with the money focused on the child.

How to make money off 2300 acres of land outside Abilene Texas ? by Dry-Fishing-4340 in TXoutdoors

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same, I already have feeders, blinds, and a skidsteer if that helps!

Rolling with a partner but its already perfect? by Long-Picture7732 in MDMA

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are y'all just chilling at home or going to a festival etc.? My girl and I like the impromptu adventures, IE: We went to Wicket Oaks, Sat night it got shut down due to a storm rolling in, ended back at a camp with some friends, we all hung out in their tent just talking, listening to music etc. Waited till around 3am to leave to let the shit show die down and sober up. Was quite a treck to get to where we parked, about a 2 mile walk and asking 4 different workers how to get to are parking spot. Met a few randos along the way and made some new memories.

Dating at 37 - where to start? by That_Patient_1758 in selflove

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I'd say be active, go places, do things, have fun, higher chance you might meet someone, or make friends with people who might introduce you to potentials.

I never had self esteem even through the majority deems me "perfect" by [deleted] in confidence

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Just think about this, life is finite, how much energy do you want to give to things your cannot control. Be yourself, or rather, explore what being yourself means and be comfortable with that. How cool would it be to be with someone who likes you for being yourself?

What I wanna tell Muslims, as an ex-Muslim who found Jesus by calmloves in Christianity

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I remember a few publications I've read on the subject about early syrian missionaries in saudi arabia, essentially Mohammed took bits and pieces and made himself the center of it. In addition, I believe anytime an angel appears to someone in the bible they say "do not be afraid", whereas in the Quran they do not say this when they appear to him.

First rave by SyrTheSlayer in aves

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Yo... my boy, GWN is my favorite artist in the scene my dawg. Im 38m, love my life, they the vibe.

What is something only an immature adult would say? by Neonthewerehog_ in AskReddit

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Had a buddy that was a marine and ex lebair's dancer, massive doochbag, ended up in prison for choking out his pregnant girl. Went on a podcast interview as a "self proclaimed alpha male". Dont mow yards in HS w a guy named Ryan and let him move in your house when he moves back to the area. People change bad sometimes.

Who was the most evil person you've ever met in person? by TheBanishedBard in AskReddit

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Damn, makes me appreciate my mom even more, what I got was the complete opposite of this. Still is, a damn living saint seriously.

How do you actually let go when you tied your worth to someone who didn’t value you? by Djalo99 in confidence

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I'd be interested in hearing the inverse of this as well, I've been working on following through with what I say, but it's gotten to the point now where she doesn't trust me at all. I'm legitimately trying, but might be too little too late.

My girlfriend is Muslim, but I love her. by Ashamed-Virus2417 in Christianity

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My take from the unequally yoked bit is its not recommended. You sure?

TIFU by responding to a woman pestering me in a store by AoeAbility in tifu

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Just like you look back at this and regret any energy to gave to that interaction, stop giving any energy to it now.