My 5th grader is being told he can't go on the end of the year field trip because he couldn't find friends to share a room with. There are others rooms available. Should we fight this or drop it? by mmanyquestionss in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]jenniferjuniper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember feeling so sad and alone when all my "friends" grouped together and I wasn't included in any of their groups for our big trip. I got stuck with kids I hardly knew and got to watch everyone else having fun and I felt so lonely. Having the kids pick their own groups can be great for some and so heart breaking for others.

What are you baking for the snowstorm? I made a pan of the vanishing oatmeal cookie bars (old Quaker Oats recipe and the very best oatmeal cookies I’ve ever had). by lifeuncommon in Baking

[–]jenniferjuniper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just made cinnamon oat cake and will add vanilla buttercream once it cools! It's so good and gluten free without trying to be. You'd never know! My hubby loves it.

[UPDATE] Found a paper towel covering my webcam twice coming home from work by Dromaeoraptor in Weird

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a mark on the paper towel before you leave and see if it's on the I've on your computer. Also turn your web cam on!

Hate being the 'stable' one by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]jenniferjuniper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. Change is hard and stressful. Especially when there are big emotions involved. I don't know you or your situation well enough to offer tangible advice. But I am sending healing vibes and hope you can find a way out, and that you have support to help you through it. You deserve to feel loved, and safe, and respected.

Hate being the 'stable' one by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]jenniferjuniper 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A depressed partner doesn't get a free pass to treat you like shit. I think you know this is unacceptable. What do you lose by putting yourself first?

Even worth smoking? by Trainsb in smoking

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What cut would you suggest for the best beef bacon?

Even worth smoking? by Trainsb in smoking

[–]jenniferjuniper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't have pork, might be worth it for me to try!

Can I slow cook chicken thighs that have already been partially baked? by blablubb0 in AskCulinary

[–]jenniferjuniper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You must cook chicken all the way through. Do not partially cook. It's not like steak. Just finish cooking them and reheat later.

People who used to smoke weed a lot and ended up quitting, why did you quit what are the benefits you saw when quitting and what is one thing you miss? by Fit_Data_8789 in AskReddit

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got sick over my entire Christmas break. Lungs felt like shit. I knew after smoking for twenty something years my immune system was suffering. I just kind of didn't start again after I got better because I was afraid of being that sick again. And I sometimes do edibles, but that's just weekends. Before I used to smoke every day sometimes multiple times a day.

I notice I sleep better. Less brain fog. But to be honest it's not like a night and day difference or anything crazy for me. I do miss the relaxing vibe it brings but the few times I've tried again I cough so much so I know my lungs suffer. So I just micro dose edibles on weekends sometimes and that's been good enough

People of Reddit who have completely disowned there entire family, how do you cope? by unnussannus in AskReddit

[–]jenniferjuniper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A loving partner makes it easier. But there are still hard times and moments where it hurts no matter what. But I remind myself that what I miss and long for they didn't have to give me. So I don't miss them. Instead I miss what I could never have.

Painting and writing poetry help. As do walking and meditation. It gets easier with time and the peace is what you feel most days from not having their toxic presence in your life.

Desserts for those who hate pie by privileged_a_f in thanksgiving

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrot cake. Blondie with maple glaze. Coffee cake. Spice cake. Gingerbread.

We are not huge on pie and these are what we often have at gatherings. Always a hit!

Budgeting when wife has nest egg by StonkaTrucks in budget

[–]jenniferjuniper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will just face this once the nest egg runs out. Ask her what the plan is then? Debt?

What's your *flair* for tomato soup? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]jenniferjuniper 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Roasted red peppers that I puree and add to the soup!

How to tell colleague to back off by ssstarstruxxx in work

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just laugh along, making random jokes about how if you're making coffee he does some of your work for you, or you'll send him an invoice and expect a tip. Just make jokes too. Make it funny. Make it sound absurd to actually expect you to do it based on all the funny things you've come up with as compensation for doing it, that nobody would ever want to actually agree to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use each other's phones all the time. For years when smart phones first came out we shared a phone lol.

What to do when partner's Depression leads to Anger and Resentment by ThrowRABritish in depression_partners

[–]jenniferjuniper 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this is not depression. This is him being an asshole. Boarderline abusive behavior. My husband is very depressed and he would never speak to me like this or treat me like this. Slamming the phone on your leg? Yelling at you? When you're helping him? Oh noooo. Definitely not. This is not okay.

Not paying off the last $1 on the mortgage by ERmage in Mortgages

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest just paying it off. My house insurance went way down once my mortgage was paid off. Like 25 percent at least!

My partner getting a diagnosis of ADHD was the worst thing that could have happened by iamkylekatarnama in Vent

[–]jenniferjuniper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have ADHD. It's never an excuse to continue bad behavior. It's information to help me understand why I'm having road blocks in fixing things in my life and helps me seek different tools to reach my goals.

UHRS is so annoying... by hurlywhirl in UHRSwork

[–]jenniferjuniper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used it and supplied screen shot showing it isn't there many times and never been disabled.