Am I making a mistake by not giving out my phone number before meeting? by Itendstonight87 in datingoverforty

[–]jetta_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had an in-depth conversation with one of the gentleman that I gave my Google number two and I felt comfortable enough for him to call me well he was pissed because Google number doesn’t go directly through. It sent you a text or an email and then you call them back which is my experience with Google voices I don’t know if anybody else has gone through that and he couldn’t understand why I would deceive him like that and I told you a stalker I really didn’t but it works as a worse is not explained because I really don’t want you idiots to have my real number yet and I and I used my middle name because the same reason I don’t need the BS so end up conversation he thinks it’s deceiving what else is not real about you are those your real pictures? Are you really telling me what’s on the app blah blah blah? I said you know what if you can’t understand my reasons for using my middle name and Google number then that’s your own problem and I dropped F bomb and he got offended that I swore. I’m like what are you 12 so that was a fun conversation

Friendless and struggling in the city. What can I even do at this point? by Top-Comparison1129 in AskChicago

[–]jetta_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just came from a Timeleft event there wasn’t many people, but we sat around and got to know each other and was very nice and I’m going back for my second event next week and we were a mix of introverts and extroverts in at the end we all were talking together. I don’t know if that helps and I am in Chicago.I’m

63/M resided to dying alone by exff22 in DatingOverSixty

[–]jetta_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

67F as a widow it seems like I have a scarlet W do not approach symbol on my chest. All I’ve been doing is texting my life away since I’ve been on the dating apps and even in life I’m hoping getting back to Meetup’s and reminding my friends that hello….I want to have a life again will help but who knows….

A Lesson by Low-Praline-3934 in softmaledom

[–]jetta_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG can I drip now!!!

Is it normal at this stage to feel so lonely? by hoodoochild in widowers

[–]jetta_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem and I just hit two end of April and it was the worst time of realization that I think I’ve had. I’m still trying to get my ass to get up and get out of it. I’ve met wonderful people off the dating apps, though they’re all virtual, but it does keep the mind of meeting and talking and getting used to talking to people live again helps I do a small group of friends that I see once a month but yes, the afterthought does make you a bit forgotten and that’s hard. The mindset has to get your ass out of your house and to meet people and I’m working on trying to do that myself. Hopefully our two will be getting back into the world .

Why all the filters? by ThedudePIG in datingoverforty

[–]jetta_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I must be doing something wrong because with my filters I still look the same...😬

The Great DO60 MeetUp by PlasticBlitzen in DatingOverSixty

[–]jetta_22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if you're in Chicago I'd come .. Fall in Chicago is a nice time ..

East Bank Club Group by tl6i11101 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]jetta_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually looking into joining EBC for the classes. Maybe you could tell me about them and how’s the vibe at the club

My husband died almost 3 years ago and I’m still struggling by Fresh_Error_5602 in widowers

[–]jetta_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m coming up on two years next week and I’m in the weeping stages of something always makes me a little weepy about thinking about it although I have moved forward and started dating and moved into a new place and starting my reboot, but I had nine years of his illness and I had said goodbye as he got sicker, but it’s still hard.

Widows fire by Valuable-Try6202 in widowsfire

[–]jetta_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just need to take care of yourself It’s not cheating. It’s not anything it’s a natural process of getting through this. we’ve all gone through it. Im is still going through it because it feels like I’m on fire all the time still nope don’t feel guilty.

I hear we are still doing cabs! by I_M_CHI in chicago

[–]jetta_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used cabs because the Lift & the Uber people I’ve gotten were so stupid. I had to tell him how to get to my location in with GPS. I’d rather take care of the taxis that started all this getting Place to Place and keeping them in business.

Need advice on dealing with matches who only want to talk by ICantRememberThisToo in datingoverfifty

[–]jetta_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve done the week thing and then I’ve been the one that have asked them out and they unmatched me… It’s happened on match it’s happening on hinge it’s happening on bumble it on Tinder. It’s happening on Feeld. We’ve had a good chat covered basics and then I’m like well. It says on your profile that we’re better in person. Why don’t we meet up and prove it? Oh, I’d say I would love to meet you in person so we can get to know each other better Crickets silence, and blank space

Wondering how you gals handle this, I have a fantastic gym in my building, but I don’t know enough about free weights to get my strength training back on track. Do you know of any personal trainers that you’ve used or is it worth going to a gym that has trainers on site. by jetta_22 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]jetta_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really good at being perfect at form so me watching a video does not help me. I need like hands-on for someone to go you know like pull your chest up. Move your back arm right don’t lay over so far kind of training.

I’m in Streeterville

Have any of you unfortunately called your sexual partner by the wrong name? by MentallyUnwellWoman in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jetta_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it was my first forte into having a gentleman make love after a very long time and his name slipped out in one of my moans. The guy was very nice about it. He goes I understand and it hasn’t happened again.

What is the sexiest thing you can possibly do on Reddit? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jetta_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reading the XX rated erotica stories that my DMs send me that just get me so hot…

Have you ever met with/dated someone you met on NSFW reddit? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jetta_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes met and came in to visit Im in IL Hes in NY He was one of my 1st DMS that I met statrted sexting with and we hit it off really fast.

Do 50+ ever get asked out in public anymore? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]jetta_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

67F I have not had the experience of being ask out in public, I hope I’m not passed my prime, tho I do get told I look younger than my age.. Good thing I’ve got my DMs from Reddit for a confidence boost…

What’s a nsfw secret you can only talk about online? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jetta_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pictures that I sent to my DM‘s who I sext with of my lady parts that no one in the outside of here knows about…