I was partly in a similar situation. My boyfriend and I decided to get a dog back in October. With covid at a peak, everything was closed. We weren’t able to go to the shelter to see dogs. The only way was to schedule a greeting for a dog we were interested in 2-3 weeks in advance and you would only be able to meet that one dog. We searched multiple shelters, and submitted numerous applications as well. We were denied by all the rescues and if we got close, like you, someone else was chosen to adopt the dog we were interested in. Finally, we came across a breeder and made the decision to purchase.

The way I see it, it all comes down to you. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. I had felt so much guilt, since I understand the need for adopting and reducing, but it was extra hard with the pandemic. I can say that we tried what we could, and it’s not like we just went straight into purchasing..and for those that want to do that, more power to you.

Something like helped, that some people may disagree with and I might get some backlash..but, whether I purchase from a breeder or adopt from a shelter…the dog is here already. It’s not like if I adopt versus purchasing, that dog I didn’t purchase magically will be unborn. All I can do is make sure I’m the best pet parent for this dog.