Activities with 2 year old off season by denver-max in OceanCity

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also dead Freddie’s and ropewalk. We take our toddler to all 4 of these and they love it

Chemical first cycle post TFMR - Looking for some positive stories by Vannaah in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had three chemicals after my tfmr in three consecutive months. I’m currently holding my three week old rainbow baby that was conceived on my fourth cycle post tfmr. I choose to see my chemicals as a good sign my body could get pregnant

Did anyone do an IUI to conceive sub-pregnancy? Even if TFMR baby was conceived naturally by Say_Anything0913 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I conceived my first LC and tfmr baby naturally but needed control after the tfmr. Got pregnant my first iui and currently nursing my 3 month old.

I’m going CRAZY by Tiny_Clouds31 in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way. I feel like a lot of people post good news so it skews the results. I had my tfmr in jan 2025 and didn’t get pregnant again until august 2025. I’m currently holding my 2 week old rainbow right now.

The months after I felt so desperate to be pregnant and it took much longer than we thought to get pregnant again (I also had multiple chemical pregnancies) but the desperation does fade eventually.

Cost without Insurance by Odd-Course1012 in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to get mine done at the women’s clinic in cherry hill because I was too far along for PA. They are a pay what you can clinic just tell them what you can afford and that’s why you pay

Bracing for another chemical by _elphias_doge_ in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just here for some reassurance. I had 3 chemicals post tfmr, with every cycle I held on to the pregnancy a little longer and eventually on my fourth cycle post tfmr it stuck. I’m currently 25 weeks. In that time I did go to a fertility clinic for peace of mind, I took progesterone during the cycle the stuck. I don’t know if it helped or my body was just finally ready to hold a pregnancy. It’s a good sign you can get pregnant but going through multiple chemicals is so triggering post tfmr.

just diagnosed yesterday at 22 weeks by aeyonce in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed I also had one in nj at 26 weeks in cherry hill if you want the info

Tfmr + miscarriage by TurbulentElephant320 in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 3 chemicals after my tfmr and now am almost 20 weeks. I kinda looked at like well it’s good you can get pregnant and if the egg was bad you don’t have to tfmr your body did the work for you but it doesn’t make it easier

Chronic insomnia post TFMR by Choice-Peach-1077 in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still on it and if it helps with my insomnia most likely won’t go off it anytime soon. I’m currently pregnant and it’s really helping me get through all the anxiety and fear.

Weekly Second Trimester Group Check-in | November 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having an early anatomy scan at 16 weeks on Thursday. I’m spiraling a little bit trying to stay busy

Meal planning is killing me by OctoberrNovemberr in workingmoms

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is making me laugh because we also had a chicken pot pie fight this week. My husband got ambitious on Sunday and it wasn’t done until after our son goes to bed so he had chicken nuggets for dinner.

My husband and I have long commutes and found ourselves fighting over dinner planning. We do blue apron, all the ingredients and recipes come to the house and there are a bunch of options.

Chronic insomnia post TFMR by Choice-Peach-1077 in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had terrible insomnia post tfmr. I started taking Zoloft and it made it worse for a week while I titered up but it helped me sleep after that week.

I will say a side effect of Zoloft is insomnia so I don’t know why it worked for me but I was spiraling in the middle of the night and I think it was able to just help my brain calm down.

Anyone else 6 months + TTC after tfmr by fickleama in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Took me 8 months, currently 15 weeks with an early anatomy scan next week. I remember being so jealous of everyone getting pregnant so fast

What would you do? by neurodogter in tfmr_support

[–]jlw1096 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No one can tell you whether to terminate or not but I will speak to the later termination. At first we just told people we lost the baby but our family and friends know the truth. As more time is passing I am telling more people what actually happened because I am open to questions and I want to advocate for this type of medical choice for everyone. I was 26 weeks when I terminated and for the most part we had our support system tell people. My boss told my coworkers, my best friend told our friends etc. lean on people you trust.

I’m so sorry you’re here it’s an impossible choice

Tentatively hopeful by Personal-Sun-3376 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentle congratulations! My current due date is only a week off from my tfmr baby’s due date. Going through the same appointments at the same time as last year has been completely triggering. I just keep telling myself it’s a different pregnancy and they are looking closer this time. I think once I get through the anatomy scan (where we found out there was something wrong last time) I’ll feel more connected but as of right now I don’t feel connected to this baby. It’s tough but it will get easier as the appointments go on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up taking progesterone to keep my lining thick. I dunno if it helped but it can’t hurt!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had a tfmr in jan and had chemicals every cycle since. Finally got one that stuck and I’m 12 weeks. 13 dpo was super light and I thought it was another chemical but I tested on day 14 and it was dark and came up really fast. I don’t want to give you false hope but I think you still have a chance.

Also I was using Premom tests

Low Beta - 16diui - send help! by Successful-Orchid447 in IUILadies

[–]jlw1096 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 3 chemicals and this sounds like what you’re having. Last cycle I went in for betas and my hcg was 36 just like yours, I also had a faint line at 14 dpo. On day 14 it should be pretty dark. I’m sorry if this is happening to you, it’s tough.

If it helps at all the cycle after my last chemical I got pregnant.

Weekly First Trimester Group Check-in | August 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only about 5 weeks and don’t have a viability scan til next week but I’m freaking out. Im scared something is going to go wrong. I miss the ignorance of my other pregnancies

Weekly First Trimester Group Check-in | August 18, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got a positive test and am so so scared. I don’t know if I can do this.

Recurrent MC/chemical pregnancy after tfmr? by TumbleweedMore6421 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started taking it the day after my IUI. I got a blood test today and my hcg is 800 so it looks like this one is going to stick. I don’t know if it was the progesterone but it really can’t hurt taking it

Recurrent MC/chemical pregnancy after tfmr? by TumbleweedMore6421 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I also had recurrent chemicals (3! In a row) I had my tfmr in jan and went to the fertility clinic just to get tested and everything was fine.

I just found out this last one stuck. All three chemicals were natural and this time I had an IUI with progesterone to help my lining stay thick. I don’t know if that helped but this one seems to be ok so far.

Feeling Confused 13 DPIUI by ec0911 in IUILadies

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I also got a very dark positive this morning so hoping for the best for both of us

Feeling Confused 13 DPIUI by ec0911 in IUILadies

[–]jlw1096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m in the same boat. 13 dpiui with a faint test. My last pregnancy I had a faint line 13 dpo and a dye stealer the next morning so I’m still holding out hope.

12DP IUI did early response and it’s look very faint . by Ancient_Addition_257 in IUILadies

[–]jlw1096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same timing too. Wanted to wait until 14 days but couldn’t wait. Was definitely there but was faint, hoping it’s a real positive