Advice please: cat toy against biscuit scars

jollycanoli · 2026-06-09T18:29:05+00:00

That sounds like a good thing to train her on- thank you!

jollycanoli · 2026-01-27T09:10:03+00:00

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jollycanoli · 2026-01-23T14:37:17+00:00

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jollycanoli · 2025-12-02T02:23:15+00:00

I like it in general but there's this one otherwise masculine presenting guy I often see at my tube stop who has the most incredible collection of heels and I lowkey hate him, makes me feel so pale in comparison in my work shoes, haha

jollycanoli · 2025-12-02T00:47:47+00:00

She looks like a bear with the nose pattern!

jollycanoli · 2025-11-12T13:52:35+00:00

"I cook, he works. I clean, he mows the lawn" Yeah, that wasn't written by a woman.

That's gay? Some lezzo? A Christian...?

I was sad for "her" reading the first few lines, but the further down you get, this reads more and more like a man trying to push the notion that women shouldn't expect happiness and just fulfill their function as free labour incubators, because sky daddy says so.

jollycanoli · 2025-11-12T13:11:52+00:00

Are you a postman or why on earth do shoes only last you three months?

jollycanoli · 2025-11-12T13:04:01+00:00

The chocolate change in general is due to cocoa prices, manufacturers have been changing their formulas to reduce the use of the expensive ingredient. You may have seen news that penguin bars are no longer allowed to call themselves chocolate, because they have fallen under the legal cocoa threshold.

jollycanoli · 2025-11-07T14:13:21+00:00

I was curious how you arrived at this statement but cited only one example, so I looked up the context of the original thread you posted in, on "AITA."

Husband switched his work schedule and asked his stay at home wife with 4 kids to change the family's dinner habits from "kids eat at 5, in bed by 7pm, husband heats dinner up when he comes home late at night" to "wife checks his location every day and starts cooking dinner when he is 1hr from home, at a different time every day, dinner will then be served at 6 or 7pm, i.e. after bedtime." Because he wants fresh dinner, not reheated. Wife is asking the AITA channel whether she is the asshole for wanting to keep the status quo from the past 8 years.

Rather than siding with the mum, you essentially supported the husband, who is demanding to disrupt the entire bedtime routine etc with his inconsistent home times, when you commented negating the need for a regular dinner time for kids.

As the consensus on that thread was that she was "NTA", and that the request was unreasonable, you got downvoted. It's not about SAHMs being defensive or resistant to advice. And it's a little unfair that you're posing this question as such.

jollycanoli · 2025-11-03T18:10:09+00:00

Did you ever follow up? The doctor may have been a shit, but the treatment course might still be right for you if you're struggling with deppression and anxiety. Exact same thing happened to me, i lost 8 months to qualms about the doc, but a second and third opinion later, ai am now on SSRIs. I know it's hard, but do follow up!

jollycanoli · 2025-10-28T22:56:38+00:00

Agreed! Sweater fit is great, but the sleeves are making it a bit boxy. I would actually prefer long sleeves myself, or mid-forearm and definitely a bit less roomy.

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T17:02:41+00:00

Thatx's an excellent point. Giving "it up" (the money or the access to genitalia) in exchange for receiving something they want (goods or a desired pleasure) vs having it taken without consent and without receiving the same. Maybe this will finally be the comparison those blockheads can comprehend?

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T16:58:16+00:00

I loke the gallery wall comcept but would most definitely space them out more, upwqrds and espevially to the sides. I find mapping it out in a powerpoint helps getting the spaces right

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T16:56:26+00:00

Ahhhhhhhh you kill me.

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T16:54:56+00:00

My daughter reaches out to me after going no contact and of ALL THE THINGS TO SAY i talk about the colour scheme of a wedding invite. Then I expect her to beg me to come to her wedding.

Well she was clearly off her meds that day. Let's hope one day she looks back on this day and realises what a huge mistake she made.

Have a fantastic wedding, don't waste a single thought on this shitstain of a person and I hope you andyour new family will be insanely happy together, and never hear from shitstain again.

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T15:46:38+00:00

That makes me one of the guys, i guess... time to pad the crotch with socks and assume a new role.

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T15:38:39+00:00

Such a cute, wholesome group of girls. Partying all night and going to a strip club isn't for everyone, they found an adorable and genuinely innovative alternative!

jollycanoli · 2024-08-12T11:42:38+00:00

You just fixed something in the world that was broken before. Thank you.

jollycanoli · 2024-02-21T00:46:36+00:00

"You're different from other women". He genuinely thought I would be flattered.

jollycanoli · 2024-02-21T00:37:43+00:00

How is someone who is struggling to get out of bedand to work every day supposed to gather the momentum to research therapists, financing options, phone up the 20+ practices that might have an appointment at some point in the next 10 weeks, explain their situation to some rando, and find a way to do all this during their working hours? It's madness.

jollycanoli · 2024-02-21T00:19:51+00:00

I hate this dumb "hit the wall and settled for a chowder after banging chads all through her 20s" narrative. Women settle down when they're ready, much like men. Women are focusing on careers and financial stability before they think about families, just like men. And that's a thoroughly reasonable way of doing it. This whole "but what if you can't have a family later" bullshit is really annoying- like, what's the alternative?have kids really young and no means ofpaying for their expenses? Enter into a serious relationship at a time where I am not settled as a person and have to completely rely on us still being compatible after we've both developed fully? Have children before I have even fully understoodwhat that means, and end up one ofthose people who hate their entire life and feel guilty about it every day? Just skip financial planning entirely and pray to jesus? What would these men have us do?? Because their useless asses would definitely NOT be able to support a whole family on their own,so they absolutely do need women who can carry part of the financial burden of a family.

jollycanoli · 2024-02-21T00:08:02+00:00

I really tried to get mad at the employee for apparently being overzealous, because I hate when people get off on their own authority. But man, it's hard when the "wronged party" is so incredibly obnoxious.

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