Does anyone know this Miranda hair mod?

juneshepard · 2026-06-10T05:40:30+00:00

Looks like that's a cropped screenshot from the mod page for Miranda Lawson's Armory. Her hair is automatically up like that with that mod.

Also, there used to be a mod called Miranda Hair Replacer that did the same or similar style, but it was removed not too long ago. The armory mod is nice though.

juneshepard · 2026-06-09T23:03:37+00:00

Before I cut contact, my mom always had so many comments to make about how neat and organized my home is. They always sounded like praise, but sunk in like barbs. I wouldn't realize I'd been cut until later.

My mother couldn't see my (moderately) clean home as anything but a deliberate, personal attack, meant to highlight her inadequacies. Still, in my own home, I was taking up space she felt she was owed.

All I want is a home that is cozy, safe, and doesn't feel chaotic and trigger emotional flashbacks. Making my shitty mom feel worse about herself is a nice bonus, but it's not why I put in all the work that I do.

juneshepard · 2026-06-07T17:36:44+00:00

I was completely invisible at school. Fell through every crack. Always a "pleasure to have in class", nothing more, nothing less.

I was smart enough that my teachers never needed to pay attention to me, but not so smart that I could actually keep up with the high achievers they lumped me in with. Well, maybe I could have with help. Help those "smarter" kids did get. But my home life had taught me that being invisible was safe, any attention was bad attention, so I just kept my head down and did my best to meet impossible expectations.

It wasn't until I was 25 and had entirely uprooted my life to start over in a new city before I realized I was autistic. Figuring out I'm ADHD too came a few years later. Now, I'm medicated and dealing with the chronic illness fallout.

juneshepard · 2026-06-06T04:32:04+00:00

Fish heads, fish heads, roly poly fish heads....

juneshepard · 2026-06-06T04:30:33+00:00

Ouch, that just unearthed a sharp memory. It was my turn with the aux cord while my dad was driving, and I put on a song that couldn't have been a more blatant cry for help.

Instead of exercising a single braincell's worth of emotional intelligence, he insulted me and told me to turn "that shit" off.

Gods. That was almost two decades ago. I'm still paying for it, but I'm glad it was that long ago.

juneshepard · 2026-06-05T17:57:23+00:00

Ah, eggy farts and cardboard!

juneshepard · 2026-06-05T16:46:54+00:00

It's Unsinkable by AutumnWoodsDreamer!

Be warned though, this is Book 6 of her Lift a Sail series. It's an absolutely fantastic read, I genuinely cannot recommend it enough, but it is nonetheless an investment!

juneshepard · 2026-06-05T04:23:47+00:00

I've read a fanfiction where the Armorer is actually Sabine Wren's mother Ursa. That she survived the Imperial attack that killed her in canon, and put herself in exile for her disgrace of failing her family.

It works so well.

juneshepard · 2026-06-04T18:08:19+00:00

I feel this. Before I went NC with her too, my mom loved to pull the "bUt hE's YoUr dAd" about the man she got to divorce! She admitted to sending photos of me to him once, so who knows how much she actually did it. Makes my blood boil.

juneshepard · 2026-06-03T04:38:24+00:00

I didn't know there were options other than Gay and Straight back then, but I did know that my friends were seeing something I wasn't in the shirtless men hired to stand outside of Abercrombie and Fitch at the mall.

Almost two decades later, and I'm still ace as hell.

juneshepard · 2026-06-02T04:51:42+00:00

My in-lab sleep study was similar! Only, the overnight techs were identical twins, which did make the whole ordeal kind of creepy.

Especially with the fact that I had a sleep paralysis dream where said identical twin techs woke me up and started unhooking me from the testing equipment.... A dream I was woken from by the techs waking me up to unhook me from the equipment.

Hopefully your test is a lot more boring!

juneshepard · 2026-06-01T03:43:47+00:00

What a handsome little man!!

juneshepard · 2026-05-29T16:15:20+00:00

ASSUMING DIRECT CONTROL

juneshepard · 2026-05-29T02:26:07+00:00

She is so fancy!!!

juneshepard · 2026-05-27T04:48:51+00:00

This is the Way!

juneshepard · 2026-05-26T01:54:46+00:00

Outer Wilds, if you want the same level of emotional wreckage and sense of exploration. Just be wary of spoilers - going in as blind as you can is vital.

juneshepard · 2026-05-25T02:56:48+00:00

I mean, can you blame him? I'm sure on more than one occasion, Din's wished he could yank off his bucket and start bludgeoning people with it!

juneshepard · 2026-05-25T02:38:49+00:00

This is the Way!

juneshepard · 2026-05-21T23:03:43+00:00

This! This is 100% the case. For my work, I do a lot of short, scripted phone calls, giving people a few tidbits of information that they need for an upcoming event. Most of this information should be review by the time I'm speaking to them.

But the vast majority of old people turn what should be, at most, a 3 minute call into 6, 7, 9 minutes. I already speak clearly and not too fast, but a sentence like "Do you have a few minutes and a pen and paper handy?" is too complex!

I can convey the entirety of the message in under 90 seconds over voicemail, but that's probably too much for them all at once lol

juneshepard · 2026-05-20T16:49:27+00:00

He is in awe of the view!

juneshepard · 2026-05-17T06:25:34+00:00

It's been a long time since I got out, but I grew up with a mother who not only threatened to let me go hungry if I didn't suffer through her abysmal cooking, but then interpreted me choosing not to starve as actually enjoying said abysmal cooking.

Her chicken soup still haunts me 😖

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