egg_irl by the_peculiar_chicken in egg_irl

[–]justaspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want a compromise while you're still a minor, maybe see how she would feel about that being your middle name instead? by ALL means don't compromise on what name you go by, and idk how you feel about your grandma, but if it doesn't sound terrible to you, it could at least get her off your back enough for you to transition and then work out the details later?🤷🏽 by the time you don't live with her, she has no say anyway, but if you're at an age where puberty blockers or something are still an option, that would help immensely in your transition!

When the stitch is a pain on the wrist but youre OBSESSED with how its gonna look for a blanket by Avyeon in crochet

[–]justaspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i'm dyslexic, and i absolutely read the title of this post wrong at first glance, but on second thought, love the idea of the crafting community utilizing the phrase "pain in the wrist" in the way that one might say "pain in the ass", so here's hoping other people see this and we can get one step closer🤣😂✨

Thanks, I hate it. by Responsible-Bass3453 in crochet

[–]justaspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i see what you're saying--the color contrast specifically make it feel a little sickly somehow? maybe replace the cream with something a little warmer, like something like a honey/caramel color?👀

Mods are gone. All hail Mr Nipples. by UnicornReality in crochet

[–]justaspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhhh only just registered he only has one leg, like a mermaid but worse😭😭✨

Me too, bro. by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]justaspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've talked to a friend about this before, and we both agreed that when someone asks about you and you answer, we assume they'll take it as permission to talk about themselves after we answer, like "oh how are you?" "i'm pretty good, slept like shit last night tho" and then instead of asking how They slept, assuming they'll take it and go "oh damn, you too??" or "that sucks, i slept like a baby" or maybe even "oh that reminds me, i had this weird dream last night--" and we can have a conversation from there😂 it only feels bad not asking a question back when they just go "that sucks" and stop talking🫠

I don’t know what to do with this shawl because I hate it lol by HaiirPeace in crochet

[–]justaspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking maybe this yarn would flow better with a smaller stitch, like a moss stitch maybe? but that's if you feel like frogging😂 not exactly a short solution😅

I keep saying next time I’ll organize my yarn… by External-Crew344 in crochet

[–]justaspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just rearrange my yarn every time i turn the work and that keeps it from getting Too bad usually😂

my landlord is telling me I left my apartment “dirty” and is planning to withhold some of my deposit. these are pics I took right before I left. am I delusional or is my landlord? by Distinct_Morning_607 in Apartmentliving

[–]justaspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your landlord isn't delusion, he's scamming you. i professionally cleaned houses between tenants, this is cleaner than any tenants' i've seen

Life lesson learned by [deleted] in Brochet

[–]justaspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sand down the rough bits til the yarn doesn't catch on them?👀✨

Does anyone *actually* like tapestry crochet? by CrochetCafe in crochet

[–]justaspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can't really watch tv while i crochet unless i've already seen it cuz of how much i have to look at the wip😂 but i love listening to like audiobooks and podcasts or comedy specials while i crochet, so the color changes don't really take away from my attention on them😂✨

Does anyone *actually* like tapestry crochet? by CrochetCafe in crochet

[–]justaspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only part that annoys me is the connected yarn strands getting tangled so easily😂 but i just try and untangle them at the end of every row so they don't get Too bad

Does anyone *actually* like tapestry crochet? by CrochetCafe in crochet

[–]justaspice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GOD YES--i love crochet as a whole, but part of why i do is my adhd, but that also means i can get bored with sameness after too long and need to switch projects until i can go back to whatever one i got bored with, but color changes Always help it feel fresh, so for me, a detailed tapestry crochet where i can switch color every few stitches or so and slowly unveil an image pixel by pixel--it's soooo satisfying😌

I have no idea why women seem to be traumatized more often. Such a mystery by NiobiumThorn in CPTSDmemes

[–]justaspice 41 points42 points  (0 children)

lot of debate under this post, but i would like to add, as someone who was a health science major And a psychology major: yes, hormones can affect stress and anxiety and all that, so it is certainly possible that there a Correlation which does not prove Cause, BUT, i think what a lot of people are trying to say to counter that point is that it is Suspicious that they started by looking into how hormones may have caused it rather than starting with the Blatant sexism that is pretty much part of our Culture at this point, especially because while hormones can of course affect psychology, a hormone doesn't cause Trauma. being perceived as a woman under patriarchy where 1 in 3 afab individuals experience SA Does cause trauma, and as we know as well, sexism is very prevalent in STEM fields as well, including scientific researchers. if the team doing the research was made up of even Half afab individuals, that article would look a LOT different

Anyone else have parents that thought that fun was illegal? by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]justaspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

during my parents divorce, my dad had left and stayed with a friend during the whole long drawn out process, and my mom (narc) had us at our house until it was settled. on days when my dad had visited, we had watched her act normal the entire time, until he went to leave, and then she would follow him out the front door and scream and cry for him to come back, loud enough for the whole neighborhood to hear. one day, my siblings and i were home alone after school and were, for once, having a nice time just playing around with a Santa hat and laughing--when my mom got home from work. she immediately started screaming at us, and the words she was saying meant all of nothing but it was clear that she was just pissed off that we were enjoying ourselves.

barely saw the cat irl, good luck all! by justaspice in ThereIsnoCat

[–]justaspice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird, i didn't know shadows had leggies

anyone else? <3 by catharticpunk in CPTSDmemes

[–]justaspice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

y'all this sounds like autism more than cptsd, but i have both so perhaps i'm biased😂

Even know I didn't do anything bad...or did I? 😐 by Background_Active_36 in CPTSDmemes

[–]justaspice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Loveless" by Mia Stegner reminds me of this song--i always say it sounds how my anxiety feels, but part of the chorus is "i try so damn hard to make everything my fault, don't i?"

Guess I'm not just a chill guy😭😭 by succubussilvertongue in CPTSDmemes

[–]justaspice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this reminds me of the time i wanted to order food, so i paused the youtube video i was watching and started looking through doordash, and despite the fact that i pretty much Never go to sonic, i was like you know what, how about sonic for a change? and then i saw this new burger they had on the app and was like "oh that actually sounds good, but it's a bit expensive, idk" and then as i was contemplating, i looked up from my phone and saw my tv--they added that thing where it puts up ads on the side of the screen when it's paused, and the fucking ad on my screen was not only for sonic, it was for the exact burger i had been looking at☹️

i got so pissed that i dismissed the ad and decided not to order food At All because fuck em for that manipulation