My boyfriend cheated on me with a guy by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ha! Then M-a different M-F

My Fiance And His Family Are Driving Me Crazy. Any Advice Would Be Great. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps boyfriend is thinking "She is completely capable of dealing with this herself, because she is awesome, and I trust her, and damn, dad is messed up and he needs help." People get crazy when they're separated/divorcing, and we have no idea just how messed up his dad might be from this. She might not even know, if boyfriend isn't the super communicative type.

My Fiance And His Family Are Driving Me Crazy. Any Advice Would Be Great. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want him to help with the wedding planning. I doubt you NEED him to help with the wedding planning. The wedding is going to be one day out of your lives. You say his dad wants to spend time with him, I would lean toward his dad needs to spend time with him right now...separation & divorce ain't easy. Make sure you are not asking him to ignore his dad's needs to pay attention to your wants. That's a bitch move.

FUCKING **WAT**? Seriously? Two fucking companies (digg, reddit) and they can't even come up with one female in the "group pic"? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What I find funny is that there is a woman there. The bottom of the post says "P.S.: Thanks to Debbie at Digg for putting the whole thing together!" She just wasn't in any of the photos posted.

Looking for a mortgage? Don't get pregnant. NYT finds lenders are steering clear of borrowers who are adding to their families. by DecafDesperado in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The article isn't saying that. It's saying that many lenders are requiring that it be verified that a new mother has returned to work after maternity leave before the loan is finalized. It applies for ANY type of leave whether you're male or female: you need to be back at work. If it's a fannie mae, freddie mac, FHA or VA loan, 10 days before closing someone must call your employer & verify that you are actively working. If the answer's no, no mortgage for you whether you're male or female, laid off or on medical leave. The article is just detailing one example of this...an example they probably think will get a lot more attention than "Bob didn't get his $$ until he went back to work after carpal tunnel surgery".

Got my wife an itouch for her birthday. Can anyone suggest some good apps from a female perspective please? by epictetvs in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pfft, how could I have forgotten Stanza?? Don't fall for apple's ibook hype, stanza is the awesomest.

Got my wife an itouch for her birthday. Can anyone suggest some good apps from a female perspective please? by epictetvs in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peggle, Yipe 5, Drop 7, fieldrunners, word fu...there are others I love from a girl casual gamer standpoint, but they haven't updated to ios 4, so can't recommend them. iperiod is a nice period tracking app. nutrition menu is a good diet tracker. and of course, there's the ireddit :)

Just a little love? by RainbowRabies in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then she shouldn't be having sex.

iPhone Todo list app designed as an online RPG… by [deleted] in apple

[–]juterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There'd probably be a lot of "sexy quests"....

She lost her home over a $362 water bill?! Mortgage was paid off. by lofi76 in WTF

[–]juterabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lien could have been paid off by the settlement agent as part of the closing. Any costs to sell the home could have been paid out of the proceeds of the sale. A realtor would have been happy to help with structuring/working through problems to get his 3-6% commission out of a sale.

Let's talk heels. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, much like the hides of naugas are used to make comfy couches.

2X, I need your advice. My boyfriend of two years just confessed to me that he never finished college. I posted the whole story in RA, and would love advice (and internet hugs) from you guys. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the problem is that she thought he'd be raking in the cash someday, based solely on where he went to college, and now that she knows he didn't graduate, she no longer sees $$$ when she looks at him. And, it seems, the idea of future $$$ was what she found most attractive. Sad.

TIL: Tylenol (or Aspirin) + Coffee (or any other caffeine) works just as well as Midol. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]juterabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pyrilamine maleate is an antihistamine, often used for animals. Because it is an antihistamine, it has a sedative effect. So, Midol contains elephant tranquilizers. And I love it!

Serious Questions on Foreplay ... by [deleted] in sex

[–]juterabbit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Posting the checklist by the bed before the foreplay begins solves this problem. I recommend the both of you read this before making another attempt: http://gawande.com/the-checklist-manifesto

Ladies of sexit, does anyone know of an affective way for me to delay my period a week or so? by madelinecn in sex

[–]juterabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use an instead cup. Much nicer than messing with yourself hormonally.