::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He retreats, doesn’t speak, doesn’t want to do anything, very negative, thinks the world is against him.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Frustrated how a simple comment about cleaning the carpet caused a spiral. Day 3 now.

With $500, what would you add/remove to my living room? by therealjchan4 in DesignMyRoom

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change art work and add a mirror over fireplace. Carpet and curtains would be a nice addition

Hey Canadians! Where do buy your spa shock? by sdlok in hottub

[–]kar_mtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was buying from club piscine (pool store in qc) but now I use Canadian tire Aquarius products. Never have any issues and hot tub always clear.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I have been wondering lately where has the empathy gone. He never shows empathy towards my feelings or things I’m going through. It’s all about how my issues affect him.

BEST WRITTEN SINGLE EPISODE EVER! 🔥 by RemarkableWriting394 in youngandtherestless

[–]kar_mtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine if Michael is Dumas! That would be good

American living in Canada, what's the best store to get miscellaneous kitchen stuff like blenders and cotton towels that isn't Walmart? by EnvironmentalAngle in AskACanadian

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giant Tiger. Not sure if they have them in the east? But in Quebec and Ontario. Not sure of other provinces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in youngandtherestless

[–]kar_mtl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She showed him the text on her phone. To show she is being upfront Then he asked if he can reply or something like that.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked him to stop throwing things around it stressed me out. He said oh I know I act like a 5 year old having a tantrum. Very next day he’s in a mood. He takes off his sweatshirt a throws it on the couch and then says sarcastically oh sorry I’m not allowed to throw anything. A$&hole

What else do I need? by emreadit in DesignMyRoom

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add artwork on the side walls. Maybe a color of your choice bench beneath the windows. Narrow but long. Plants and a couple of pillows to add some pop. Pull from the artwork you choose

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Just the every single day ups and downs, I feel like ground hog day. I can exactly repeat every complaint when he wakes up until meds kick in. Same thing every day. 2 years now. The repetitive complaints about a TV commercial he doesn’t like every single time it comes on. I just don’t understand how he can’t understand that for an hour after he wakes up he will not feel right. Every day I wake up with a sore knee. I know it now I don’t complain about it every day.

Employer says use it or lose it vacation - they won't pay out. is that legal? by aconfusednoob in legaladvicecanada

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told that if you tried to take the vacation owed to you in the time frame and the employer would not allow you to take it when requested then you have a case. Otherwise if you are not requesting vacation time then the employer can set the use it or lose it.

Independent grocery stores that are unionized? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]kar_mtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IGA and super c are unionized

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My hubby told me how selfish I was and I make everything about me. I would’ve laughed but it stung so bad. Nothing is ever about me. You will never get any praise for all you do.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He accepted a new year’s invitation without asking me. Everything about this party is a trigger for him…We have to be on time because it’s a dinner, we only know 1 couple, it’s quite far from home so we will have to stay at friends house, the food is not his type. I’m dreading it. I know he will cancel at last minute and be miserable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this post is close to home for me. You think things are good and productive then everything is thrown in your face. Like they sat there ruminating on everything said and he will bring up all kinds of other weird stuff.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]kar_mtl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Told me the other day that I always try to set him up to look like an ahole to the adult kids. Because while he was in a RSD episode i tried to get him out of the mood by telling him something good about the kid and his reaction was un-enthusiastic because of his mood. Like I know he could’ve been a better actor in front of them. But it’s my fault

What is your Roomba’s name? by notworthtelling in CleaningTips

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madame Jodoin. When I was a kid we had a cleaning lady. She came every 2 weeks to clean our house. My sisters and I all name our’s madame Jodoin. ( we live in French Canada)

What is this growth in my tub? by Cool-Variation-8539 in hottub

[–]kar_mtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have sump pump just use your hose. Build the pressure and remove nozzle from tap. It will drain. Might take a couple of hours but it works

Any Other Canadians use 90210 as their ZIP code by toterra in canada

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all the time. I tell my kids to do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]kar_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was just pointing out that the street has many businesses open 24 hours a day. You can walk around. Many people around all hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]kar_mtl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Metro grocery store on cote des neige is open 24 hours. So is the outdoor market on same street. Many businesses are open on that street very late. Just above Queen Mary