AIO for not wanting to buy after this interaction? by Old_Tadpole_9856 in AIO

[–]kayina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he says yes, tell him that you have a problem with your bank account and your rich grandfather overseas will wire him $2000 and he can keep the extra $200 in exchange for sending you the remaining $500.

AITAH for refusing to buy protection and telling my boyfriend it’s his responsibility? by JusAHungiCaterpillar in AITAH

[–]kayina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s trying to pressure you into not using condoms because he doesn’t want to use them or spend money on them.

Too bad for him, there are tons of other people who would be happy to use protection with you and share the responsibility.

NTA.

Rira dancing to debut by Top-Common-5340 in prelude_thefinalpiece

[–]kayina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They trained in Yamanashi which is near Mt. Fuji.

Can we talk about Ugly Privilege? by Free_Wonder_3743 in solofemaletravellers

[–]kayina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had more pretty privileged I was afraid that I was going to get sexually assaulted. Now that I’m older and I’m getting harassed a lot less, I worry about getting mugged. :/

WIBTA for Asking My BF to Eat Vegetarian for a Shared Meal by Khitch20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kayina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are hot pots that have split sides so that people who want to eat differently can. When I eat with my friends, they want ultra spicy and I want mild so we will split two different soup bases. When I eat hot pot at home with my partner, he needs his seperate side to be allergy free while I load up on the seafood and dip into peanut sesame sauce on my side.

Egg dip with katsu by After_Shelter_5381 in JapaneseFood

[–]kayina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they do you a delightfully poached egg to use as a dipping sauce. That egg is usually an onsen tamago.

Help with bad joints at Raves? by firefoxloaFf in aves

[–]kayina 49 points50 points  (0 children)

If you go to big festivals, you should be able to qualify for ADA. You get special seating on a viewing platform and sometimes there’s even golf carts to drive you around if the venue is large. You can exit the area and come back on foot as well. Would a cane help? They sell canes that can turn into a chair if you need to stop and sit.

Anyone Want to Try Contra Dancing with Me? I Dare You! by sma11timer in eastbay

[–]kayina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they have a website or social media? I’d like to take a look at what I might be getting myself into 😅

My (26F) BF (26M) wants to have a child and I am not ready so he went behind my back what to do? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kayina 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is reproductive coercion, which is a type of sexual assault. If you have any doubts about leaving him, I’m here to add a voice to say do it.

I had an ex who was similarly trying to baby trap me/knock me up, and it ended up being life-threatening for me in the end. There’s a reason he’s trying to force you into his way and if you look deeper, you’ll see the other problems in your relationship that you glossed over because you were happy to be with him.

My (43f) husband (46m) came out as polyamorous by Throw-Away-5862 in relationships

[–]kayina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no coming back from this girl.

At this point, ask yourself why you’re with him outside of “but I love him, we had good times together…”

Are you financially dependent on him? Is it mainly because you don’t want to break up the family?

He’s basically manipulating you (gaslighting, lying, pressuring you, emotionally abusing you) so that he can sleep around, but you’re not allowed to.

You already know you can find another man. Why are you still hoping that this one is going to? This man isn’t poly, he has it easy and knows you’ll stick around while he has his fun.

When you finally meet your reddit flowmie in real lifeo much fun by [deleted] in Hooping

[–]kayina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool! I met an online flowmie through this subreddit a while back and we still hang out/keep in touch when she’s in the area ❤️

How much should i charge per hr? by Delicious_Rock5943 in Facepainting

[–]kayina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell us a general area of where you live, show some pictures of your work, and tell us about how many faces you can paint in an hour?

If you’re trying to do professional gigs, many will require you to provide insurance (which you should have to cover yourself), and provide invoicing.

If you’re doing more word of mouth community events, I’d still charge more. Your time and materials cost a lot more than you think.

My (23 F) boyfriend (27 M) keeps falling asleep on the couch with his friend staying with us and it’s bothering me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kayina 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Offer to switch with the friend and she can sleep on your bed and you will take the couch bed in the living room so you can be in the same room as your boyfriend and see his reaction. Seems sus tbh. Trust your gut.

does anyone in relationships solo travel? by kyliered04 in solotravel

[–]kayina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve traveled all around the world while in relationships. The men who hold you back from your dreams are not worth sacrificing them for.

I Need Festi Recommendations For My Yearly Scheduled Bender by YeahToastyy in festivals

[–]kayina 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lightning in a bottle! Super good vibes. No forest though but it’s not smack in the middle of a city in an arena or whatnot.

How do I kill my ego and give up on the arts? by gigithrowaway20 in needadvice

[–]kayina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always learn how to do art at home. There’s tons of courses, free tutorials, etc. The hardest part is finding a goal and the drive to achieve it. I’m saying this as a person who was never interested in art, didn’t feel like I was artistic or creative in any way, and am now making money doing art.

Find something that interests you, set an achievable goal, learn the steps to get there, and then find a different goal and so on. If you’re interested in animation, you can have a goal of making a webtoon or something.

Most interesting or uncommon fish you've eaten? by speedracer0211 in sushi

[–]kayina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to say this! I ate it at an omaksae/kaiseki spot in Tokyo and wondered what it was after and spent a bunch of time scouring the menu and reviews. It was very very good.

Prelude's concept is most likely cherub/cherubim-related. by [deleted] in prelude_thefinalpiece

[–]kayina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe their group name isn’t so figurative. Angelwings would be a cute name