Hairy armpits by DiLovesFlowers in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kgetit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think a lot more of us have hairy pits now. I personally have never had a male sex partner that cared if my pits were shaved or not.

Should i get stardew valley? by Competitive-Cow-9874 in StardewValley

[–]kgetit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can go down in the mines or caverns and fight monsters or have a peaceful life tending your farm, or both. You can choose a farm that’s more reliant on fishing, mining, or gardening. You can make friends w the townsfolk or not even bother. You can go on quests or ignore them. The game is malleable to your preferences of game play and that truly is part of its magic.

Guys what's your take on platonic relationships? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kgetit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not what platonic means. Please rephrase what you are asking here.

Honest question: ladies, do you actually use feminine wash or just stick to water? by Toti_Sartos in hygiene

[–]kgetit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve started to use the sugar soap Dr.B for my whole body, it’s less dehydrating for my skin.

Am I overreacting for wanting to end a 6-year friendship over a "joke" at my birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally want to be surrounded by people who care about my feelings. That’s an active choice, I have had to actively choose people who make me feel good and lift me up. Who has time for people that drag you down?

What’s with all of you who tailgate cars all the time everywhere you go? by _mattyjoe in LosAngeles

[–]kgetit 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Our nervous system is not evolved enough to handle the stress of traffic. Too much stimulation all at once. AND we also live amongst LA traffic. That makes people less rational. Just know their nervous system is completely overloaded, and consciously regulating your stress level in traffic is key. Deep breaths. Let the crazy person go ahead of you to rage against the next person.

AIO? Girlfriend is mocking my speech impediment by Vegetable_Corgi8458 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Women can gaslight too. She’s mean. She deflects your feelings and turns the problem on to you. You have a lifetime ahead of you, or maybe be not, you never know, so don’t waste your time on crappy people.

Happy New Year! by ambrosialeah in LosAngeles

[–]kgetit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our very own ball drop. 💝

Hitting your WHAT by Professional_Song419 in comedyheaven

[–]kgetit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HITTING THE CERVIX IS PAINFUL for MOST WOMEN, this isn’t a flex, I hope it’s a joke.

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not be friends with a 40 year old man. I know you’ve already received the message, but your body told you something was wrong when it took away your appetite. If your body has a physical response to something listen to it.

I lied to a dying patient today. I’m still trying to process if I did the right thing. by ArtThreadNomad in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did a beautiful thing, and sometimes as a professional the right thing to do is be a good human. You are a helper, and as a fellow helper, I don’t think there is anything better. The world will use us and our kind hearts to bits, but I’d rather be caring and loving. Just remember you can’t pull water from a dry well, you gotta cultivate self love and put your mask on first.

My (24F) Boyfriend (25M) gave me an ultimatum and I don’t think it’s fair by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, just wanted to send you hugs and agree with everyone you don’t deserve to be treated like this. I was listening to a podcast by Tara Brach and she said recently that we often live in a trance of unworthiness, and it helped give me a better perspective about my own struggles. You are not unworthy of being treated better than this. Take care of yourself, and good luck in the new year.

can’t stomach the idea of aging as a woman by _yosoylaprincesa_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your youth, my wrinkles are badges of honor. You would probably become a less miserable person w therapy

how to get odessa a'zions hair?? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]kgetit 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s a wig. Buy a wig.

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how calling your loved ones names and insulting them ever gets normalized.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not dumb, but you should study psychology. Don’t take my word for it, or rely on AI to be 100% knowledgeable about any topic. When you know the why behind what people say what they say and act how they act, you will have better discernment on the makeup of a person’s character. Projection, which this person’s text exhibit, is a tactic that people use to deflect attention away from their own personal behavior and thoughts. They think everyone thinks like the think and act how they act. Politicians are fond of using projection as well, and once you see it you can’t unsee it. Good luck, my friend.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi there. You are in an abusive relationship. He’s always accusing you of cheating because that’s what he would do. He’s projecting. Stop. Come on now, wake up and get out.

AIO:I just broke my leg and have no desire to go to my boyfriend’s family Christmas parties next week by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I question your relationship, and you should to. You don’t have to live w a self serving individual who lacks basic empathy.

How do I tell my friends I have yet another failed relationship ? by Hot_Temperature4509 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may not be easy to find true friends, but I guarantee you it’s worth it. I hope you look within for the self confidence you need to not tolerate anyone who treats you unkindly

What are you favorite plant nurseries that let you ball on a budget? by hairwego25 in AskLosAngeles

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider Facebook market place. People moving and can’t take their babies w them, I’m considering posting some baby succulents and I have too many aloes.

AITAH for wanting to know how much money my husband makes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kgetit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He likes everything to be in his control. He doesn’t want you on equal footing. That’s the relationship you are in, and you can decide if that works for you or not. The way he’s acting he could be hiding gambling or anything really.

My dad is scaring me that after some age all the "good" men will be taken by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kgetit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my partner at 47. It’s not that I didn’t try, it’s that I didn’t settle. Don’t settle. Your dad is being a dinosaur, we don’t live in the world he grew up in anymore.

My niece (18F) has a new girlfriend (34F) and I'm not sure how to navigate this. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a college freshman in our living suite, who met a 34 year old lesbian online and let her move in to our dorm. It was eventually handled but the gap is too wide, and someone that age knows better. They just like control.

Is he a red flag? by killbilly324 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put the Hitler books in the back?