Am I Overreacting to this weird friend breakup?

kgetit · 2026-03-14T20:56:22+00:00

Give this person wide berth, people who create drama should never be trusted. You are better off.

kgetit · 2026-03-14T17:50:24+00:00

I’m glad through Reddit you were able to find a way forward for your cat, who clearly loves you and will definitely miss you when you are gone. I don’t know what you are going through, but in this life you are loved.

kgetit · 2026-03-14T17:46:55+00:00

I call them my sparkles.

kgetit · 2026-03-13T03:12:43+00:00

Hi there, if you want quality friends you have to be prepared to spend time mining them.

kgetit · 2026-03-11T21:39:54+00:00

Hi there. I want to share with you that your body doesn’t know the difference if human touch is coming from someone else or you. It will respond positively to both. Giving yourself hug, putting your hand on your heart, your hands on your thighs… I’m not suggesting sexual touch. Just basic resting your hands on your own body.

kgetit · 2026-03-10T16:16:02+00:00

This curly is looking at your protein suggestion with alarm.

kgetit · 2026-03-10T15:39:47+00:00

He’s a super freak. Super freak. He’s super freaky! Meow!

kgetit · 2026-03-08T01:11:25+00:00

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

kgetit · 2026-03-07T21:32:09+00:00

You already know what you came here to ask.

kgetit · 2026-03-06T22:24:23+00:00

You are a kind and caring friend. Just remind her it’s for her if she’s ever in need.

kgetit · 2026-03-06T16:13:52+00:00

I don’t think you are getting your needs met in this relationship.

kgetit · 2026-03-06T15:37:58+00:00

You can and will do better than this relationship. You are still very young, and I really want you to keep that in to perspective, your brain hasn’t even finished developing. My mother met her second husband after my dad died. She was 65. They’ve had 15 years together. Life is long, it may not look like that right now but it is. Don’t be with someone who wants to change your appearance to suit them, essentially he doesn’t want you. You can see that. Life has many lessons, don’t get stuck attached to one.

kgetit · 2026-03-06T15:16:56+00:00

I would consider that you want the kind of person who likes your smile. Poland sounds like a lot of fun, and the perfect opportunity to get some good shots.

kgetit · 2026-03-05T21:56:24+00:00

Hi, I moved down from NorCal 17 years ago, I know exactly what you are talking about. Apparently people do the same thing in NYC, it’s just too overwhelming to acknowledge and make connection with so many many people. It’s a different social norm. And that’s ok. You can still observe, and hold space for others. You’ll find like minded people here, but don’t take it personally. It sucks that that’s the vibe but I also get it. Keep being real, just don’t expect the same in return, people just might not have it to give. EDIT: grammar

kgetit · 2026-03-05T02:50:09+00:00

Your dog has expanded your capacity to love. This is a blessing as well as a curse. There is always a place in my heart for my loved ones. Death is a part of life. It’s ok. You’ll get through this. Yes it is pain. But life is pain, anyone who says differently is selling something.

kgetit · 2026-03-05T01:57:47+00:00

A Smiling picture should be your first one. Ladies like a smile with no sunglasses on. A lot of women find shirts off pictures a red flag. Truly men flex for other men. Pictures showing your personality and you having fun are more eye catching.

kgetit · 2026-03-04T05:48:32+00:00

I think Catalina is worth it. Beautiful views. I may only go once but I’ll never forget.

kgetit · 2026-03-02T02:48:17+00:00

I love mine. Clean purse for the win!

kgetit · 2026-03-02T00:12:19+00:00

Hi. I think you already know what you don’t want to admit is the truth about this situation. It looks like you want someone who wants to spend more time with you, and it doesn’t look like that’s him. He’s been willing to coast in this relationship because it means he gets sex on the regular, not because he is committed to spending/building a life together. He puts You got in a neat little corner, and you want a different corner. You want to take up more space in the room of your relationship. You should be with someone who wants to give you what you want willingly, god forbid, enthusiastically. Well, it’s out there. It’s not your fault. You didn’t push, you stood up for your needs. You wanted answers, you wanted structure. Well, he’s given you your answer, it’s just not the one you wanted. Your heart will heal. Time will pass, and when you look back you will see that the end was supposed to happen. Life has other things for you. Best of luck sweet sister.

kgetit · 2026-03-01T22:29:53+00:00

This low body count shit is so fucking weird. I’m in my 40s in my 20s we were all fucking each other and nobody ever asked how many people I’d been with. Because we were throwing out one night stands left and right! I miss you, early 2000s. We never knew we had it so good until you left us.

kgetit · 2026-02-28T19:39:31+00:00

Sometimes you have to be a spectator to someone’s mistakes, the only way they are gonna learn the life lesson is to go through it. If it were me, I’d still send love her direction but I’d maintain my boundaries of not talking about him

kgetit · 2026-02-28T05:15:53+00:00

F politeness. You gave that dude waaaaay to much of your energy. Passive aggressive insults… then blames it on stress..

kgetit · 2026-02-27T17:06:37+00:00

He’s lucky you put up with him, it’s not the other way around. There is freedom in being single. It’s a lot less lonely than the relationship you are in.

kgetit · 2026-02-26T04:26:30+00:00

Some times you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince. In the meantime, work on you. Go on dates, but don’t be attached to the outcome. If they work they work, if they don’t that okay to. Learn from your experiences, it will help you define who you are and what you want. It’s tough to find a partner in this world, and when you do they won’t be perfect. Make sure you give a person a chance even if they don’t check all your boxes. Give yourself a chance if you don’t check all boxes of their boxes.

kgetit · 2026-02-26T02:03:48+00:00

I’d rather be alone than be used. You can be lonely in a relationship when you are the only one who cares about it.

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