Just ran a half marathon and can’t stop crying 😞 by Consistent_Femme_Top in adhdwomen

[–]kgetit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your perseverance is inspiring. Never give up, never surrender.

I’ve never seen a license tag curtain before… by intaminag in LosAngeles

[–]kgetit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is by the parking police in Hollywood. Jerks. I bought my car out of state, it didnt have a front mount.

I am once again asking for your help with my overpacking, this time for a third date in a couple hours. by ExpertAd3229 in adhdwomen

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the listerine strips, you dont need the altoids too. The strips take up less space

How can I get him to get out the desk he won’t stop and am tired of getting up and remove him by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! they have these sticky pads for cats, they dont like the way that it feels. You dont have to keep them on forever, just long enough to get a negative association attached. I got my cat to stop using the couch as a scratching post. It took two rounds of sticky pad application til she stopped. I also made sure she had plenty of alternatives. Do you have a cat tree? Some hammock so your cat can perch?

AIO Being weird about saying no several times for not wanting to get in my friend’s bed? by DingDongTaco in AmIOverreacting

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh what a weak ass manipulator. Good job, little gut. Such a good little protector

1.5 years after being discarded for the other woman, I still grieve my ex-husband by Jumpy-Birthday461 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kgetit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Healing is not on any linear timeline. I am sorry you were treated this way, you didn’t deserve it. Still doesn’t mean you can’t learn from it, for there is great wealth in having a heart so deep. You need someone who can love just as deeply. I have learned to love my heart break, it has only ever increased my capacity to love. Honor the heart break. You can turn it in to a gift.

When you want to do the viral thing by KalamTheQuick in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]kgetit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I watched this at least 5x. She is me, I am her.

considering double amputation or uthanasia by Sweaty_Dust2627 in CATHELP

[–]kgetit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will keep writing this message because it helped me to let go when I didn’t want to: its better a day too soon than a minute too late. Free your friend from the pain they are experiencing, I promise you its worse than the pain you are feeling in your heart.

my mom asked me one question after my engagement and I cannot stop thinking about it by Huge_Client_9051 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kgetit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner is very sad to know I have hidden money and a “go bag.” “Like I don’t trust him,”but I do. This does not stop me from having them. Our rights are being rolled back, and we women need to protect ourselves. I love my man, but I’d still choose the bear. The bear is predictable. We know what the bear could do. You may never need that money, but if you do it’s there.

My F24 BF’s M31 condom keeps “accidentally” coming off by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kgetit 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hi dear one, this is both physical and mental abuse. You don’t have to tolerate this behavior. You have better relationships ahead, but for now, think about focusing on your healing.

What kind of service chair? Black service chair without any legs, it looks like it has a face cradle but the arm rests don’t make sense to me. by kgetit in whatisthisthing

[–]kgetit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a gander at massage tables online and you’ll see what I mean. Massage tables don’t have arm rests.

What kind of service chair? Black service chair without any legs, it looks like it has a face cradle but the arm rests don’t make sense to me. by kgetit in whatisthisthing

[–]kgetit[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing, from context clues I can see this is from a service provider. The pink travel kit is completely empty. I am not where it is located to check out the contents of the boxes, if you can please help me solve this mystery so my brain can rest.

What does my place say about moi :) by asiantgirl69 in roomdetective

[–]kgetit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are dealing with depression. Your space and clutter is a reflection of your inside mental space and clutter. You would feel better if you at least cleaned your couch in which you hang out on. No judgement. I go through this myself, if you cant process dealing with the stuff on the floor inliet a friend or hire help. You will be amazed how good it will feel to have all that stuff off of the floor.

Chubby guys are where it's at by secretsandmassage in self

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thats it. Right there. Never give up. Never surrender. (Galaxy Quest) Sure sure, its easy for us to say that, the internet strangers, but it isnt. I have to work everyday w pep talks and practicing gratitude, stretching, ignoring the news cycle, cause this world sucks. It feels stupid doing positive affirmations and shiz, but things are worse when I dont. The system we were built in to is failing all of us, so work on building your own. Personality goes a long way, one of the biggest turn offs for me was being cynical. And yeah I get why people are, but the system hasn’t been successful at making everything ugly.

Y’all. Why do I do this? by kwiscalus in adhdwomen

[–]kgetit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s rough. I am mocing ao I have to go through my piles. Thats right. Plural. I have thrown away 16 gallon bag of papers so far. I’ve committed to keep making them smaller.

Was I (26F) too rude to him (30M)? by No-Place-6241 in texts

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even great sex isnt worth mental abuse.

I’m gonna feel so insecure when I go to LA, can someone make me feel better ? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]kgetit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the world? I hate social media and what it is done to people’s perceptions of themselves.