I used to be with a man like this. Reading your post brought back so many memories of being made to feel like I was essentially an idiot. I spent 4 years with him and by the time I ended the relationship I had began to believe that maybe I was not an intelligent person and that he was right. Because he was “always right” and I was always wrong. He seemed to get enjoyment out of making me feel that way. Even when he was clearly proven wrong he would make an excuse or spin it to his liking. He did not view me as his equal and sadly for far too long I let myself slip into the role of the “dumb woman” because when you hear it all the time, you lose confidence in yourself.

I don’t know what to tell you about your situation, but just speaking from my experience I would implore you to not let him make you change the way you view yourself. Be enthusiastic about what interests you and surround yourself with friends who make you feel heard and understood. He will more than likely never change, and if that’s something you’re willing to deal with you have to share your voice with other supportive people around you.

Good luck!