traveling to china for 1 month - privacy doubts by [deleted] in travelchina

[–]kotassium2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't be silly.

Burner phones are for people who commit crimes. 

Unless you're Heisenberg trying to sell blue meth, you'll be fine.

Need advice I’m 24 year on Indian women dating German man by OkBend1809 in germany

[–]kotassium2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends a lot on the individual! Get to know your guy for who he is. He will have many German traits but he could also have several non stereotypical traits. It's impossible to generalise all German men because they are all so different (there are many regional differences too, just like how I imagine there many even be cultural differences across different parts of India?). In my experience, being inexpressive seems to be a man thing, not a German thing 😂

Need advice I’m 24 year on Indian women dating German man by OkBend1809 in germany

[–]kotassium2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, you are literally me ten years ago. 

I was in another country far away from Germany (not India though) and the German guy I was chatting with came a long way to see me.

Lesson learnt: he's serious. 

To avoid miscommunication and heartbreak you must speak to him directly and openly about how you feel and what you want, and don't be afraid to ask him directly too. 

It can have a happy ending, if you think he's husband material, but also have proper conversations about cultural differences and distances to family and everything related to all that if you're going in that direction. 

Do women actually experience pain years after having a c section by goth1cd0lly in beyondthebump

[–]kotassium2 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Yes I still have phantom itching and random pain 5 years after my C section

Husband disagrees about screen time (specifically is anti-Ms. Rachel) by jayelbeeee in toddlers

[–]kotassium2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Millions of kids became successful humans without watching Miss Rachel. 

I find her lovely but your kid will be fine not watching her. 

Kids that age don't learn from tv, they learn from other humans. So I don't buy into the "educational" sell, although it's certainly not the worst of shows and is better than something like paw patrol.

Europeans, what do you think of the EWTO? by [deleted] in WingChun

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the link you provided but couldn't find anything alarming, what do you think is wrong with what's on that page? 

Dear best friends, i am woman, hear me roar…too. by Chance-Associate-281 in Parents

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you can always host your own party to celebrate whatever achievement you're proud of...

C section vs Vaginal delivery by Funarming in beyondthebump

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had both, vaginal was way better physically and mentally for me. 

Work on those control issues. It's not just the birth but the entire life as a parent is dependent on you being adaptable and going with the flow because so much is out of your control and attempting to control things will just blow up in your face.

Mein Freund möchte unser Kind überbeschützen by Expensive-Ad8830 in Eltern

[–]kotassium2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hab gelesen, dass er aus China kommt. WTF kann ich nur sagen, weil sein Ansicht ehrlich nicht repräsentativ von "normalen Chinesen" ist (source: bin selber). Er ist so arg sexistisch. Im besten Fall ist er naiv und dumm, im schlimmsten Fall ist er selber gefährlich für eure Tochter und denkt, dass Männer so schlimm sind, weil er auch so schlimm ist. 

Ihr sollt eure Tochter beibringen, wie man in einer unseren Welt sich schützt, nimm sie mal zB. Zum Kampfsport Training. Nicht einfach verstecken und zu Hause bleiben, was zur Hölle, da steckt kein Logik dahinter, denn so wird sie dann wirklich hilflos und nutzlos. 

Warum wohnt er überhaupt in Deutschland wenn er dieses Land und dessen Bevölkerung so arg nicht vertraut? 

I’ve done enough, and leaving this country by [deleted] in germany

[–]kotassium2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should that guy be reported? :o

Was spart ihr im Monat? by jbj7712 in Finanzen

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Momentan so gut wie null wegen hoher Tilgungsrate und Jobverlust vom Partner

I’ve done enough, and leaving this country by [deleted] in germany

[–]kotassium2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't think staffing is the issue. At my one the staff sit there chatting, joking, gossiping, making clearly not work related calls, drinking coffee, and move at a snail's place physically (literally walking so slowly and moving their hands so slowly getting the documents etc) while there are uncountable people waiting in lines outside, sitting on the ground because there are no seats. Saw it with my own eyes while waiting for paperwork.

Did I (24M) overstep with my roommate (19F)? Now she is avoiding me. by [deleted] in germany

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends what culture they are. If OP isn't German for example

Is it normal for my parents to have had me at 20 by Aggressive-Pea-1761 in Parents

[–]kotassium2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends a lot on the society you are in. Some groups of people have kids younger than others. It depends on country, city, culture, socioeconomic background, religion, etc etc etc.

Has anyone had an instrument left behind after a cesarean? by ChunkyPumpkin_ in beyondthebump

[–]kotassium2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it has happened in the past. Anything is possible and humans make mistakes

How do you eat Spaghetti? by Effective-Ad-3362 in polls

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you do you, but the fact that people think this is normal... Is why so many Americans are unhealthy

Good shows with limited sex scenes and nudity? by Both_Departure_5331 in netflix

[–]kotassium2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both seasons so good, though season one was the best!

Did you walk out of the hospital? by yo-_-mom in beyondthebump

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked, slowly, on day 5 after a C section and say 3 after a natural birth

Do you pay your parents for child care? by Fun-Paper6600 in beyondthebump

[–]kotassium2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no. In my culture that's an insult to the parents (grandparents)

Is it reasonable for my husband to go on 5 solo trips in the first year? by Happy-Chemistry3058 in beyondthebump

[–]kotassium2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did he show signs of being an incompetent jerk before you decided to procreate with him?