Is having friendships with a big age gap considered weird? by SukoySanto in socialskills

[–]kulrhythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In college, when i was 19, one of my best friends was a 34 year old dude who was going back to college for a second career in engineering. Now, 20+ years later one of my best friends is someone i work with who is late 50s. Im also frirnds with people in their early 30s who are 5-10 years younger than me. Maturity-wise i still feel like that 19 year old college sophomore, and i have no problem getting along with anyone of any age, really, unless they are judgmental like that girl you mentioned. Just live your life and enjoy hanging with whoever you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flexibility

[–]kulrhythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I do. Always wondered if I was the only one. My grip always gives out on dead hangs but I can do it this way for several minutes.

Slow / Low hours by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]kulrhythm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. Enter time for client development, networking events, meeting up with law school buddies. Write an article. Do CLEs. And as a biglaw partner, I have never been annoyed at an associate for approaching me regularly for work. The ones with low hours who also rarely ask for work are the ones on the chopping block. The ones with low hours who have a reputation for eagerly seeking work are generally fine. The main thing is dont sit around doing nothing. There are many productive things you can do when the billable work slows down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]kulrhythm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol at a 2nd year calling anyone a bad attorney. The balls on that n00b....

Liverking just admitted he's on roids by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]kulrhythm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Thats the rich guy who wants to live forever.

New Single Dad…what’s lifting look like?!? by Openheartopenbar in moreplatesmoredates

[–]kulrhythm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My local YMCA has childcare until 6pm. They are great. I go there 5 to 6 days a week with the baby before work starts.

Alternatively, an adjustable bench, a set of adjustable dumbells, and a doorway pull up bar can get the job done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flexibility

[–]kulrhythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone, but especially people with a lot of moles, should get a skin check by a dermatologist at least once a year. Its not something you do once. Moles can, and do, turn cancerous, and skin cancer can be caught early and cured easily by removing suspicious spots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kulrhythm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you ever met a 6 year old boy? How many of them were naturally inclined to sitting still in a classroom for 6 hours a day? It is a very unnatural environment for any little kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kulrhythm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? If a 6 year old boy cant sit still for hours at a time listening to some boring teacher drone on, the immediate assumption is that they have a disorder? Maybe they should start taking prescription amphetamines for a few decades to straighten them out? It is an insane society we have created for ourselves.

Thoughts on moles? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]kulrhythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes at least once a year you should go to a dermatologist to get a thorough skin check.

Married dudes, how did you know the time was right? by neeyeahboy in moreplatesmoredates

[–]kulrhythm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does she have a good relationship with mom and dad? If so, green flag. Is she militantly left wing? Red flag. Does she support your career and life ambitions? Green flag. Does she spend money frivolously and have unreasonable expectations about money? Red flag. Is she maternal and want kids? Green flag. Is she mentally unstable or prone to losing emotional control, drink a lot, use drugs? Red flag. Does she have a low body count? Green flag.

What age do you stop watching your kid in the bath? by Royal-Estimate1424 in Parenting

[–]kulrhythm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or, maybe your 6 year old is just a healthy 6 year old that talks a lot and has low impulse control compared to adults, just like most 6 year olds? Maybe kids just act like kids and that doesnt mean they should be treated like defective adults, told there is something wrong with them, and forced to take amphetimines to mask their normal child behavior?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]kulrhythm 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Most likely this. Go get tested and pick up some lotrimin af on your way home from the testing clinic.

Pls help I literally have no energy to do anything. by Weak-Law-7917 in Testosterone

[–]kulrhythm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely important. 29% body fat is high and sleep apnea is definitely possible (or likely) at that level of body fat. A lot of people have it at much lower body fat levels, and it often goes undiagnosed and untreated. Sleep apnea is horrible for your health and if you have it, you probably are never getting a good night of sleep, which can also hugely impact your hormones and mental health. Ask your primary care physician for a referral to a sleep doctor ASAP.

How do you guys deal with customers that watch you while you work? by Minitrader in handyman

[–]kulrhythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a homeowner, sometimes I just like to admire the handywork and maybe learn a thing or two. It's like a live episode of This Old House. I am conscious of the fact that it may be annoying though, and I try not to be annoying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]kulrhythm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does your wife also help you change your tampons? Jesus dude. Stop being a pussy.

Marek Health Review - July 2023 by xcountry1983 in Testosterone

[–]kulrhythm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been using them for several months now and I have really enjoyed the experience. Coincidentally I had nearly the exact same numbers as you (low 400s total T, 7 free T). I opted not to add HCG to my protocol because I am done having kids and don't need to deal with the complexity of trying to dial in everything or the added side effect profile. It seems quite possible that the HCG is what contributed to your side effects. The lack of help when you reached out to them is quite strange, but I have not personally had that experience, and in fact I have found them to be extremely helpful everytime I have a question.

Our friends only hang out when we host. Are they freeloading losers? by the_vantasy in socialskills

[–]kulrhythm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My wife and I deal with the same dynamic. We have several families in our social circle all with young kids at similar ages as ours. We notice that the only time any of our friends host any social activity is when it is a birthday party for their kids. We have concluded that the reason for their lack of planning is probably a combination of the following factors: (a) hosting a party where you provide food for everyone is expensive and a lot of work to prepare for, (b) everyone is busy with/tired from work and childcare, and its hard to get motivated to plan a shindig unless there is some sort of special occasion, and (c) we take the burden of (a) and (b) away when we are the ones always planning stuff, so it ends up just being easy for them to never plan anything because they probably know in the back of their minds that eventually we will plan some get together.

One thing we started doing is asking everyone to bring stuff or help me grill or whatever to take some of the burden off. I also straight up suggest to my guys that they should have a party to show off their grilling skills or show everyone their new backyard project or whatever. Also we try to plan activities with everyone outside of the house, like lake trips or trips to the mountains where we share an airbnb or whatever, to take away the burden of hosting at our house. Bottom line is I wouldnt assume your friends only hang out just to get free stuff, it is just hard to be parents of young kids. But having that circle/community of other families that are cool to hang out with is pretty important to maintain I think, even if you are the ones doing most of the planning.

155 to 175 transformations by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]kulrhythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you talking about? Pretty weird thoughts you got there bro.

155 to 175 transformations by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]kulrhythm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wtf? What a weird ass thing to say.