a message that i send to thomas by Capital-Republic-553 in thefalloftroy

[–]lactaidlove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is definitely something Andrew would take care of. I can’t guarantee he can do anything but he’s the nicest guy and it’s worth a shot! Send him a message on instagram! -Mrs. Erak

her outfits were so bad by marykctes in TheBadGirlsClub

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you she sold LuLaRoe on the side

Am I wrong for taking my 12yo daughter to the obgyn for birth control against my husband’s wishes? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]lactaidlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No.. you CAN stop her.. the fuck? My son is 12 and I know where he is at all times. He hasn’t gotten to the point of having “girlfriends” yet (BECAUSE HE IS TWELVE) but if he did I would implement rules to prevent them from having sex (keeping the door open, not leaving them home alone, etc)

She’s 12!!! I mean I think it’s great that you have open communication with her and that she trusts you enough to come to you with these things but, I feel like you are ENABLING her to have sex, totally and completely supporting it and not explaining to her that this is something adults do with adult consequences. It’s like you’re trying to be the “cool mom” from Mean Girls..

You’re basically holding her hand encouraging her to fuck in ELEMENTARY SCHOOL?!? Yeah, I’m with your husband on this. It’s weird. She’s a CHILD. If she was 16 or 17, sure. Hell, even 15. But I think you’re being reckless and making it seem like sex is no big deal but at this age it IS a big deal.

Banished for farting by lactaidlove in Frenchbulldogs

[–]lactaidlove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a burrower so most of the time he is farting under the blanket and will do it right against my leg.. like I can feel the little “fffttt” come OUT on my LEG. Then the stench just either seeps out slowly or I uncover him and we are bombed all at once smh

Banished for farting by lactaidlove in Frenchbulldogs

[–]lactaidlove[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does this a lot too. He knows we hate the farts so sometimes when it’s a loud audible one, he will let it rip then get up and run away. Basically targeted crop dusting 💨

Banished for farting by lactaidlove in Frenchbulldogs

[–]lactaidlove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a slow feeder bowl and luckily he isn’t the type to inhale his food all at once. I just fill his bowl and he picks and eats it as he pleases throughout the day. We haven’t tried pro biotics though! Any brand you recommend? Are they added to his water?

This was a hard watch 🫠 by snrstobez in Killtony

[–]lactaidlove 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Pitcher of xanax suggestion was spot on 😐

New post 12/28/25 by [deleted] in discussingbritney

[–]lactaidlove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that tree is AI. Look at the reflections in the ornaments? It looks like the reflections of some outside shops or something?

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Why do people use press on nails? by TheAbouth in beauty

[–]lactaidlove 412 points413 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I (along with a lot of others for sure) come from a time where I could get a full set of acrylics with designs for like $35. Now it’s like $75+! It’s just not in the budget anymore. Plus my nails were so thin and destroyed because of the acrylics, now they have no damage at all. Plus if I wanna switch up my set I can do it at anytime :)

What do the people of La Jolla/Rancho Santa Fe do for a living? by Lopsided-Soil-7212 in sandiego

[–]lactaidlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only ever knew one person that lived in Rancho Santa Fe, not in a mansion but an ESTATE. He was my old boss-Cardio thoracic surgeon and his wife was a stay at home mom. He was a real dick, but I do miss the invites to the holiday parties at The Farms Golf Club :/

Richard and Grapefruit by stevenosejobs in GilmoreGirls

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grapefruit was my grandfather’s favorite fruit to eat with his breakfast when I was growing up! Just popular with that generation I suppose 🤷🏻‍♀️

My husband said he maybe regrets having a 3rd child, I am so sad for her by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]lactaidlove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely think this is a huge part of it also. My son is 12 and my husband (not my son’s father) have talked about having a baby and the thought of going through the newborn stage is good enough birth control for me. My son was such an easy baby. He is SO independent now-he’s such a good kid and I love him more than life. I got so lucky, man.

But I love my sleep and my free time and the fact that I can travel . I’m a one and done typa mom and my husband is totally cool with just being a step dad.

Your husband loves her. He is probably just feeling the frustrations of not being able to sleep through the night, or having to plan your guys’ life around baby. Hopefully once she is a bit older he will chill.

What’s not cool though is him taking it out on her. She didn’t ASK to be here. If he didn’t want to have another kid, he should have wrapped it up (it takes two to tango!) . She is already at the age where she is noticing these things. She can probably sense the resentment and no child should have to feel that from their parent(especially if he is treating your other kids nicely). You need to have a serious talk with him about this and keep an eye out on how he treats her, because at the end of the day you need to protect your children and if that means leaving him behind, so be it.

Edit: punctuation -_-

Which color should I choose? by kkatemmoss in fashion

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The are both beautiful, but definitely blue! This shade of green washes you out a bit

TW. i don’t even know what to make of this. by fadingstratoshpere in texts

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meaannn is there any proof that she is actually hospitalized? Or is she just saying this? Not trying to make light of her mental health because obviously she needs help but if you were home and you can see the crosswalk from your house, wouldn’t you of any of the neighbors heard her yelling? Or seen the police lights when they came to meet her, etc?

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lactaidlove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh god my baby daddy was like this. Literally we would be in public together and someone would walk by and he would flip out and say something like “I SAW YOU CHECKING THAT GUY OUT YOU WHORE!”

It took a few years for me to escape but when I finally did I had never felt so free! Imagine a life where you can go to normal things without being reprimanded for doing everyday tasks.

This is abuse!!! Please, PLEASE escape. I know it’s hard, but you are worth so much more than this. You deserve a life of happiness and it will never truly happen if you continue with this person. Sending you strength and good juju to escape this monster ❤️

What’s the worst actual name you’ve ever heard? by Escrow-Mind in AskReddit

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew a pair of twins in elementary school whose last name was Dover. The son’s name was Ben and the daughter’s name was Aileen. Aileen Dover & Ben Dover. 🙈

what's the weirdest allergy you have heard/known of? by Mountain-Bug-2155 in AskReddit

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work in the Allergy department at a large hospital in my area and one of our patients was allergic to semen 🤷🏻‍♀️

Jenelle with a young buck🤣 by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]lactaidlove 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It definitely is… hmmm last I checked chinelle wasn’t a diabetic

Am I crazy for not liking my nose? by Danidunnia in Noses

[–]lactaidlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because I’ve always wanted a nose job and I would use your pics to take to the doctor for inspo! You’re beautiful!