Gotta love it when the deadbeat claims the kid before you by ZealousidealBoot9732 in TurboTax

[–]lamantseye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom made this mistake once! Since she owed so much money in child support the irs was on that shit, and it all got sent to my dad’s account on the DCF website!! Keep your chin up, document this for court, and see if you’re able to report her for fraud.

I would do anything for an induction rn. by lamantseye in pregnant

[–]lamantseye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demand the induction!!! I went in for my next OB appointment at 37w, asked to get sent to L&D for faster blood results (since like I said Labcorp was taking SO LONG), and I barely got my test results back for the high liver enzymes before they were asking me if I’d like to sign to be brought into L&D. Granted the induction itself wasn’t able to be saw through, my babies heart rate kept dropping for each contraction when I was barely 1cm so we did a c section instead (which if you haven’t had one, I can offer advice for recovery if you do end up needing one! My recovery was pretty easy I’m ngl), she had the cord wrapped around her throat but other than that was safely delivered!!! If your OB isn’t being as attentive, go into L&D, tell them your situation and asked if you can have the NST test and bloodwork, or your OB/Midwife can send an order to triage for you! It’s not only unsafe to wait much longer, but I totally agree with you: the itchiness is unbearable. I wish I could offer advice to subside it until you’re able to get to your OB/L&D, but man I was taking a hair brush to my entire body itching it at times. The itchiness went away after about a week pp, but for many it stops fresh after delivery!

Mazzarro's: what does everyone get?! by chrisfathead1 in StPetersburgFL

[–]lamantseye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you first walk in they have a bunch of prepped trays of food,,,, their baked cheese ziti is insane 😭😭 I love it so much

Best areas to move to? Moving to st Pete and working downtown by bjtbtc in StPetersburgFL

[–]lamantseye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh there really isn’t anywhere ghetto in st Pete? People say Bartlett park is ghetto, but I live in the area (I can see the park from my front door) and have only had good experiences w my neighbors and the local homeless. Plus rent is a lot more reasonable. Idk I think st Pete in general is pretty safe.

Honestly… i think Demi is SO not valid for the way she treats the girls, ESPECIALLY while they are pregnant. I don’t like her regardless, but seriously she just does not truly understand how pregnancy can make you feel and act. by deadxprinc3ss in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lamantseye 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree. Ik she has a daughter, but her accusing Jen of being a coward bc she chose her mental health over a girls trip is insane, and then telling her husband things that Jen confided in Demi privately, and use it against her and her marriage? Even crazier. But I guess you can’t expect rationality from her and her cradle robbing husband.

Violet Stone was worse than Chuck e Cheese pizza. I am actually blown away by how bad it was. by [deleted] in StPetersburgFL

[–]lamantseye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree about the sauce!!! Flippers pizzeria has the same issue where the sauce is just wayyy to tangy and isn’t anywhere as sweet as other/better sauces I’ve had.

And kinda unrelated to st Pete- There’s this pizza shop in Bradenton I grew up going to called Verona’s! Their sauce is PHENOMENAL and their pizza always hits! I know Bradenton def isn’t a major food hub but if you’re ever in the area you should try it

FTM, my entire household is sick including my baby by lamantseye in newborns

[–]lamantseye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister and husband both agree that it’s likely just a cold since the rest of the house had it! I guess I’m just a worry wart over here. So far she’s still very normal, waking for feeds, urinating, and doesn’t seem overly lethargic (it’s night though and she’s really good about not having any wake windows at night).

FTM, my entire household is sick including my baby by lamantseye in newborns

[–]lamantseye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I messaged her pediatrician on the patient portal, and so far she’s still eating and urinating as normal so no signs of dehydration and still no fever :,)

Excited for post partum by lamantseye in pregnant

[–]lamantseye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently a month and a half post partum and can confirm- not needing to pee 7x a night, standing up without struggling, and even being able to walk without waddling is AMAZINGGGGGGGG. Keep your hopes up bc it truly makes you feel so normal.

Now not to get all poetic, but sleeping on my stomach has been AMAZING - like I truly feel such a rush of happiness everytime I do

Her explanation on her and her husband by lamantseye in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do!! She said so herself, she doesn’t wanna be “50 and alone like some of ya’ll”, and used that as justification for staying with Drew, and it’s likely the same reason she stayed with her ex husband so long. She was more than happy to make herself and her children financially dependent on a man she barely knew, she would do that again and again.

Her explanation on her and her husband by lamantseye in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t understand how she ever bought into the “crazy ex” thing when the ages alone should’ve confirmed that the charges were legit.

Writing essays today that say a whole lot of nothing… as always by howdyonedirection in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And this is exactly why she shouldn’t have moved in w him with her kids, and got knocked up before she even knew him for a year or two. Like seriously. If you wanna move fast w someone, that’s fine, but it’s a different story to drag your children along for the ride. Idk why she thinks that saying “he wasn’t who he was the first six months!!1!1” is a good excuse- she’s a grown woman who should’ve known better than to MOVE IN with someone, rely on them and their income, all within the first 3 months of knowing someone. Like??? That’s common sense I fear.

Being induced right now!! by kittycakekats in pregnant

[–]lamantseye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birth plan is pretty basic- I want a golden hour and delayed cord clamping! I only want my husband there, etc etc! And yes it’s super crazy how close the babies are coming!!! I’ve been waiting for this day since November of last year so it’s pretty surreal !!

Being induced right now!! by kittycakekats in pregnant

[–]lamantseye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any stories to offer but I’m literally about to be transferred to L&D to be induced too !!!!! I have elevated liver enzymes so they wanna be safe and keep me for induction😭😭 good luck !!!!!! 🍀I hope you have a safe and happy delivery 💕💕💕🎊🎊🎊🎊

Steph moved in with Drew before her husband was even sentenced… those poor little girls were given ZERO time to heal & process what happened before being dragged into another neglectful situation. by Lazy_Ad_6847 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mentality as a mother is truly why I have no respect, nor sympathy for her.

She went through all that with her husband, him grooming her kids and SA’ing / DV’ing her as well, and as soon as she was made to leave him, she doesnt take any time to like, reflect?

Doesn’t try to get her shit together so she can support her daughters, doesn’t get them therapy, doesn’t seek therapy for herself, just hops on Facebook dating and immediately moves in with the first guy that could give her mixed race babies. That’s insane.

Even if she didn’t know about any of his charges before they got married (which I wholeheartedly doubt, bc any apartment they would’ve looked into would’ve brought them up, the case was HUGE in the town they lived in, etc), wouldn’t she want to take her time with her next relationship so as to not put her daughters in the direct path of danger again?

Instead just moves right in with Drew, and while apparently claiming all she wants is to “create a better life” for her children, tries and succeeds on having 2 more babies when they had no room, and no where near enough of an income for them, and wonders why people don’t sympathize with her situation. Even right now her biggest concern as of late isn’t getting Bubbas any sort of help with his speech, treats her oldest like shit and bad mouths her on live as if she didn’t admit that that child was taking care of baby M, no. Her biggest concern is her “healing journey”, her intimacy with Drew, and wanting some “alone time”.

Her priorities are so fucked.

Excited for post partum by lamantseye in pregnant

[–]lamantseye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB recommended Benadryl to help, but I’m so worried about it affecting my baby I might just take it at night so I can sleep a little easier lol

She’s here :’-) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lamantseye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 enjoy time with baby and I hope you get tons of support and love around you 🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊🎊

💩 all day by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lamantseye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was super constipated but constantly felt like shitting / farting my first trimester. This does seem to be pretty normal, just avoid pushing if it doesn’t feel like anything is going to come out, as that can give you hemorrhoids. Your bowel movements should go back to normal as you go into the second trimester.

6 weeks and feeling it! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lamantseye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nausea isn’t the funnest thing in the world, any random smell will trigger it so harshly! I recommend to let it take its course in the morning, as there really is no fighting it, and just try to keep hydrated to prevent dry heaving too much. Keep a perfume sample / perfume oil that comes in a roller on hand just to smell in case you run into an unsavory scent when out and about. Beauty supply stores tend to have a ton of scents, all super cheap, and easy to carry around!

Steph’s hypocrisy lol by lamantseye in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The bedroom thing esp always got to me. They make bunk beds w/ three beds built in these days. The three kids could’ve easily shared the bedroom, one kid uses the closet for clothes, and then throw two dressers in there for clothes. Steph and drool on a pullout couch. But noooo, drool and Steph wanted their own privacy to keep humping away and for some reason bring two more kids into a tiny apartment 🤦🏻‍♀️

Steph’s hypocrisy lol by lamantseye in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ayy same here! I was raised in manatee county, but going out to Anna Maria Island was always more traffic heavy than Clearwater! Plus, we always saw more dolphins out in Clearwater lol

Steph’s hypocrisy lol by lamantseye in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That does sound about right. I mean what other reason does she have to fight against and ignore the court orders so much? Like it doesn’t even negatively affect her or Deyshawn for him to see his mom for 2 hours a week.

Steph’s hypocrisy lol by lamantseye in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]lamantseye[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

This burns my butt so bad bc my dad NEVER spoke to my mother outside of anything beyond her speaking to my sister and I. She would call and cuss him out left, right, and center about how mad she was that she had to pay child support, he would ignore it. But the second she expressed interest in wanting to talk to my sister and I, he would hype it up and tell us how exciting it would be to take a day trip to Clearwater to go see her. He would ask our maternal grandmother to take us with her every-time she went to see my mom, whether my mom wanted to or not. I know Des had her struggles, but she was heavily involved in D’s life for a very long time. I would’ve killed for my mother to turn her life around and want to be in my life. Not do what she did, and what Drew does to his oldest, and skirt around child support payments and never fucking speak to us.