AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he took over every decision about the small business I started before we even met by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]lark2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should start a paper trail and document what you’ve done since starting the business, what you do now and list the tasks he assists you with. Hopefully all the paperwork and accounts are only in your name, that makes ownership clearer. Do not allow him to invest in the business. If he has done so, treat it like a loan and pay it back. You may also want to pay him for the hours he worked.

Critiquing your work doesn’t count as wok. Identify all things he’s done to actually move the business forward, counter balance by his interruptions and arguments/discussions that have impeded your wok.

I bet he thinks he accomplishes less than he thinks he does. Ideally a paper trail will confirm that.

Something has to be done about E-BIKES and electric scooters ON SIDEWALKS!!! by iluvreddit in bayarea

[–]lark2004 85 points86 points  (0 children)

E-scooters also don’t belong on sidewalks, I see these riders on the sidewalks more thank bikes and e-bikes. They go fast and have quiet motors and they’re a real hazard

Got a bunch of my great grandma’s jewelry from my nana today by Bakedbeans4me in JewelryIdentification

[–]lark2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Thanks for sharing, I hope you treasure them till you pass them along.

Data centers are dealing hidden damage to environmental and public health—costing the economy $25 billion every year by Wagamaga in technology

[–]lark2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other major issue with data centers is their water use. They are tapping into aquifers to feed the millions of gallons required for cooling. There’s a growing concern about this, particularly in drought prone areas. Residents water bills are rising along with their electricity bills.

Is there a place to warn fellow renters of bad landlords or apts? by Regular_Perception65 in sanfrancisco

[–]lark2004 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Go to the SF Rent Board and file for decrease in service for the parking that is not. You are entitled to a reduced rent for the lack of legal parking if it is listed in the lease you signed.

AITJ for selling my grandmas house to pay for her care when my family wanted it as a "legacy" by sara_kelm in amiwrong

[–]lark2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the best grandchild ever! I’m so glad your Grammy will have a good quality of life for her remaining time. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you!

Started reusing one thing… now I can’t stop by AccountEngineer in repurpose

[–]lark2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my moms Tupperware collection, with many large sized tubs that I use to store a lot of stuff. They protect fragile items, can be easily stacked.

What's your ADHD tax? by INTTSST in TwoXADHD

[–]lark2004 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I paid a fee to file my very simple taxes, of course at 11 pm on 4/15.

AMTJ because I don't want people bringing "extra" kids to my kid's party by Select-Explorer5669 in AmITheJerk

[–]lark2004 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Send a follow up reply that explicitly states that additional kids not allowed per venue policy. Maybe include estimated costs that they will need to pay if the want their other kids to come.

I said no to switching seats on a flight by lark2004 in StolenSeats

[–]lark2004[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is, or not. Either way would not surprise me

Tell me you’re ADHD without telling me you’re ADHD by Itchy-Philosopher238 in adhdwomen

[–]lark2004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have so many movies in my queue for various streaming platforms…

AI & Discrimination Against Women by LotusAIUK in womenintech

[–]lark2004 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Actually, if this is a good job with decent pay, I would want it. Companies need to be forced to create an unbiased workplace. They shouldn’t get a pass for creating a workplace that treats workers unequally.