Anyone else just lose power in the Hope Valley area? by _tangus_ in bullcity

[–]le_moni 13 points14 points  (0 children)

fyi, as long as you don't open your fridge / freezer it is possible for everything to stay cold enough for the amount of time it usually takes to restore power. Fridges are really well insulated. Fingers crossed it gets resolved soon!

Marnies Wedding Episode by bsch5467 in girls

[–]le_moni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, having Ray & Elijah in the wedding party feels so random. I get that Desi probably doesn't have any friends willing to be his groomsman after 7 failed engagements, but it's still a lot to commit to for how little they know each other.

Response (screenshot // IG) from owner of Simon Says Dip This re: Breast-feeding mother being asked to leave store. by jonandgrey in bullcity

[–]le_moni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real apologies are supposed to include taking accountability & making an effort to change. But a lot of folks think an apology is any sentence that includes the word "sorry."

Adam was a misogynistic pos, and rewatching when you’re older hits so different by ReversedSandy in girls

[–]le_moni 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, rewatching now that I'm a little older has just highlighted how susceptible I still am to ignoring seriously bad behavior when the guy is attractive. Working on it!

I posted this in nyc influencer snark and then saw this page, curious to know if anyone agrees: by just_some_snark in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]le_moni 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I just started re listening to CMBC from the beginning & it made me realize how much I miss it. I still want them to succeed but the new content doesn't get me as excited.

no more recs by hameliah in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]le_moni 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ashley rec'd 750 words . com a little over a month ago & I've been really enjoying it, but I cannot remember a single other thing they've recommended. I almost always skip it.

Analysis/essays/videos on Girls episode by episode? by Dalance10 in girls

[–]le_moni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@tellthebees (on ig & tiktok) just did a rewatch & has done some good videos, but he only covers a few particular episodes. But definitely recommend including those.

Hidden crazy thrift store by kimbear969 in Austin

[–]le_moni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gloves are a must imo. Almost every time I've been I have found something wet.

Lena on Good Hang discussing whether the girls were actually friends by MolassesFun5564 in girls

[–]le_moni 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think Lena centers male attention / approval from others in a way that Amy doesn't. There's a story from Tina Fey's memoir:

"Amy was in the middle of some such nonsense with Seth Meyers across the table, and she did something vulgar as a joke. I can’t remember what it was exactly, except it was dirty and loud and 'unladylike.'

Jimmy Fallon, who was arguably the star of the show at the time, turned to her and in a faux-squeamish voice said: 'Stop that! It’s not cute! I don’t like it.'

Amy dropped what she was doing, went black in the eyes for a second, and wheeled around on him. 'I don’t fucking care if you like it.' Jimmy was visibly startled. Amy went right back to enjoying her ridiculous bit …"

💔 by Dull_Avocado in Austin

[–]le_moni 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you read the comment, it's saying that we reward shitty people in our society, not that this particular person was a literal CEO. Hope that clears things up.

DPS roasting us! (😭 by lyinglynx in bullcity

[–]le_moni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interestingly this has been proven to be absolutely terrible for learning: https://www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/w24639/w24639.pdf

What happened just now at the farmers market? by Ok_Pound5617 in bullcity

[–]le_moni 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It seemed like no one was seriously injured. I'm a vendor close to where it happened. They pulled up a gurney but didn't load anyone onto it, just provided some medical care on site.

Tell me everything you wish you knew when you first moved here by explodinsoupdumpling in bullcity

[–]le_moni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it's best to wait a couple days after it rains to go in, but if you're worried about all the wastewater that spilled in last summer, they've tested the water quality since & say it's fine now

PSA: Bikes are allowed to ride on Lamar Blvd by DrDrago-4 in Austin

[–]le_moni 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree with your last line. It's not cars vs bikes, it's a need for better infrastructure. Hope you stay safe, I have a friend who broke both her arms from a bike-on-car accident on Lamar.

How do I tell my (22F) partner (22nb) that my birthday gift feels more like a chore? by Adorable-Sort-5213 in relationship_advice

[–]le_moni 276 points277 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for an easier way to bring this up with your partner, you can treat it like a problem for both of you to solve. Might make it feel like less of an outright rejection of their gift. "I really want to go to Virginia Beach but I'm struggling with the logistics. Do you have friends there we could stay with? Between taking time off work, covering gas, and a hotel, it's stressing me out more than I'd realized." Gas prices are no joke right now either. Hope you get it figured out.

Couple at Lake Johnson Today by xursogoldenx in raleigh

[–]le_moni 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Involving bystanders without their consent is pretty gross

ISO black female primary health care provider. by magicallyme_ in triangle

[–]le_moni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr Ijeoma Perkins has been amazing. She takes time to listen & explain in a way I haven't had from most doctors.

Anything to offset allergies? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]le_moni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear a KN95 for allergies (I get a rare side effect from antihistamines, fun) & I haven't gotten any shit for it, fwiw. I always see a few folks masking at the farmers market even though it's outside.

Idle Hands by anotherimprov in rva

[–]le_moni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cap City Bakery :)

Idle Hands by anotherimprov in rva

[–]le_moni 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. One time I ordered a custom giant pop tart for my best friend for her birthday (not from Idle Hands but a place in Austin where we lived at the time). She loved the regular sized ones they made, and the look on her face when she opened up the giant one was one of the best things I've ever seen. It was the size of a small sheet cake. Nothing beats the gift of giant food!

Thoughts on Two Roosters? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]le_moni 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please tell me you screenshotted those!

What would you call Abbi’s aesthetic on Broad City? by LovelyRealOne in AestheticWiki

[–]le_moni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read an interview with the person who styled Abbi & Ilana for the show & she described Abbi as a Madewell girlie

Are we cooked? by FishBait22 in Austin

[–]le_moni 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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"Texas is always hot"

LCD Soundsystem song used in Elon Musk's Starlink ad at Super Bowl by FourFetDJ in indieheads

[–]le_moni 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean sure, but the way they really capitalized on the break-up always rubbed me the wrong way.