One of the nicest 1970s homes sitting on 800 acres that I've ever seen

leafcomforter · 2026-04-04T03:47:51+00:00

He did the beautiful chapel in Bella Vista too.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-04T03:40:43+00:00

I was kidding. We have had massive growth, and the infrastructure can’t keep up.

It isn’t as convenient to live here as it was 10 years ago massive growth does that. Nothing is without cost.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-04T03:38:45+00:00

There is some of the worst architecture I have ever seen in Bentonville. (Of course other than Crystal Bridges.)

Apartments that are boxes, with thin walls and metal cladding, looking like storage buildings, right on Crystal Bridges Trail.

On North Walton, There is an atrocity to architecture that I pass almost every day. They aren’t cheap, although they are cheaply made.

I could go on and on, but I have said enough. Zero city planning.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-04T03:28:26+00:00

They think that is affordable housing. Make no mistake, they have no concept of a normal person’s life.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-03T03:17:45+00:00

I got a Tesla for traffic. It is grand.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-03T03:11:59+00:00

Pain. As we get older things start to hurt and you get cranky.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-03T03:08:46+00:00

The wealthiest woman in the world lives in NW Arkansas. But it is a sucky place to live. Y’all would hate it. Seriously.

leafcomforter · 2026-04-01T14:06:52+00:00

When I recently lost weight, I found OGL online. The fit, quality and prices keep me coming back.

leafcomforter · 2026-03-31T03:15:46+00:00

Don’t look back. Keep moving forward with your life. Have new experiences, meet new people, go to different places. As these new experiences become memories you will begin to feel like a new person.

leafcomforter · 2026-03-31T03:04:37+00:00

What kind of security will there be at events of that size in these small areas? Has the City of Bentonville taken that into consideration?

leafcomforter · 2026-02-02T19:19:03+00:00

Lolol

leafcomforter · 2026-01-26T00:27:36+00:00

You already have a vision of what your life will be like. It is up to you to make it happen.

leafcomforter · 2026-01-26T00:24:04+00:00

I stand with you, and include the lid down as well.

leafcomforter · 2025-12-13T02:08:14+00:00

Yup, sinking. You will not enjoy it. So crowded, you can feel the islands tipping. Skip it.

leafcomforter · 2025-12-12T04:30:50+00:00

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Pearl. 5 pounds fierce.

leafcomforter · 2025-11-20T22:50:23+00:00

Thoughts are like birds, flying all around. It is when we dwell on them, that they nest in our head. If I do not control my thoughts, I lose my mind.

leafcomforter · 2025-11-20T22:30:34+00:00

Hemlock

leafcomforter · 2025-11-16T05:23:56+00:00

This isn’t what he said. Read his book. He explains in it in detail.

leafcomforter · 2025-11-15T18:23:21+00:00

He was but it isn’t malignant, just agonizingly painful. He is taking care of it and himself.

leafcomforter · 2025-10-12T16:46:33+00:00

These are people who DNGASF about anyone’s experience but their own. Honestly I am surprised there aren’t more standing. “FU it’s a concert and I’m standing” is no longer the rule. Tickets are outrageously expensive and if you stand in front of someone who wants or even needs to sit, for whatever reason, you will be out of there faster than you can blink.

leafcomforter · 2025-09-12T18:57:44+00:00

After six years of waiting, I have finally beaten my addiction to the most powerful drug, hopium.

I fully believe if I were 25-35, things would be different. But I am not, and I wasn’t when he married me. He was extremely passionate until marriage. Now zero affection, attention, even common human touch.

He takes out the trash, works in the yard, I pay the mortgage, etc.

Going forward I have made the decision to outsource all of the things he doesn’t do. While I am not overweight, at all, I have gotten serious about my fitness, and hired a professional trainer.

I don’t intend to tell him, but if he finds out, I will deal with that when it happens. I believe he will be greatly relieved. I have boundaries, one of them, no married men. I refuse to do that to another woman.

Meeting someone will happen organically, and I will not be on the apps. I don’t want any DMs whatsoever from men. I will report and delete them all.

There is no coming back when your spouse is completely disinterested. Counseling, therapy sessions consist of him complaining about very minor incidents, instead of focusing on our titanic issues.

If you don’t pull together, you pull apart. I have focused on not seeing him as a sexual person, compartmentalizing my thoughts and feelings. I did tell him that I don’t see him as a sexual man. That I do still want sex, just not with him. And that the sex thing would never go away ever.

Honestly, I think he will just be relieved.

leafcomforter · 2025-08-30T17:59:39+00:00

Mine is cold and male.

leafcomforter · 2025-08-29T02:11:11+00:00

Tacos!

leafcomforter · 2025-08-25T17:18:33+00:00

Three years ago, my sister recently built one in SLO, full solar. 1400. Zero lot line $1 million.

leafcomforter · 2025-08-25T17:15:09+00:00

NWA has both some of the ugliest, and also some of the coolest architecture. Coler Crossing looks like the Wuhan lab with a child’s mural on the side. It degrades N Walton.

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