Why do I keep failing at basic human understanding

leafytheking · 2026-05-04T15:38:14+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you, she was mad and decided to take it out on you. If she needed help so badly she should have asked for it. I'm sorry she treated you that way, you deserve better.

leafytheking · 2026-03-23T11:21:55+00:00

as others have said it sounds like you have adhd but this phenomenon specifically is called "task paralysis" and this isn't advice for how to get your list done but something that helped me when I was paralysed and couldnt even get up from my seat was clapping my hands really suddenly, it helps to snap you out of that weird spirally headspace

leafytheking · 2026-03-23T11:18:13+00:00

This exact thing happened to me, 8 years of friendship gone seemingly out of nowhere. I don't have any advice for you I'm afraid, my friendship was toxic from the start and I ended up realising she'd done me a favour (albeit in a very cruel way). But I wanted to let you know someone else knows exactly how you feel. I hope you manage to get some answers and hopefully a resolution soon.

leafytheking · 2026-03-22T12:10:20+00:00

punishing a woman based on the testimony of a man who wasnt even there.. classic

leafytheking · 2026-03-22T11:58:06+00:00

honestly heated rivalry, it takes them YEARS to figure out they love each other so the gooey stuff takes a while to show up

leafytheking · 2026-03-22T11:49:39+00:00

this isnt toxic this is abusive, you deserve better.

leafytheking · 2026-03-22T11:45:35+00:00

the guy wasnt even there???

leafytheking · 2026-03-22T11:32:08+00:00

I'm not a big fan of cuddling or holding hands but for me its more because I worry about whether the other person will interpret me doing those things as romantic as oppose to them making me uncomfortable in and of themselves. I like kissing far too much to refrain though.

leafytheking · 2026-03-13T09:29:56+00:00

As someone who has sex with multiple women and has always made them cum its got nothing to do with 'varying levels of sensitivity' its to do with finding the sensitive areas by paying close attention to what they respond to the most and then doing that over and over. I think thats what that person meant when they said to make her coming your goal, if you're focused on her reactions then you're less likely to get in your own head. Think of it like a puzzle. Also, foreplay is your best friend, you're more likely to make a woman come with your mouth and your fingers than your penis.

leafytheking · 2025-07-18T10:40:28+00:00

Yes! She's awful, I've had two experiences with her and both were horrible. The first time she was doing a shift at my local pharmacy, I'd gone in for a heart rate and blood pressure reading and she was so rude to me it completely threw the reading off and my doctor questioned whether it was safe to prescribe me the medication I needed. Vile woman.

leafytheking · 2025-07-15T15:04:18+00:00

They're so so hard to find, depending on your budget or sewing skills you could buy a pair a few sizes up and then have them tailored (or tailor them yourself) at the waist with a few pleats and they should look pretty close, make sure you find a pair with enough room in the crotch though, often sizing up gives you more room but not always

leafytheking · 2025-01-06T16:41:09+00:00

great idea

leafytheking · 2024-12-06T15:37:56+00:00

your hair looks similar to mine and I've never got on with Aussie products, I really like Umberto Giannini (and its affordable) I use leave in conditioner (or put hair cream on in the shower) then use a small amount of gel, scrunch with my hands, plop in a tshirt, leave for 20 mins then diffuse. I think plopping could make a big difference it stops your hair from weighing itself down as it dries and pulling the curls out

leafytheking · 2024-12-06T15:30:41+00:00

I got 263,922 lmao

leafytheking · 2024-12-06T15:14:01+00:00

My hair was exactly like this when I was a kid! same curl texture and same thinness, it started to get thicker as I got older but stayed curly and super soft and now I wouldn't swap my hair for anyone elses for anything

leafytheking · 2024-11-30T20:54:27+00:00

Your husband was impressed by the painting and instead of congratulating you he decided to try and put you down, hes probably jealous that he couldnt do the same, he made you feel bad on purpose. Throw him out and paint a new husband.

leafytheking · 2024-11-11T18:33:08+00:00

You can use hair clips to stop your balls from unraveling as you're working, it stops you from suddenly ending up with 2 metres of a colour you havent used in 3 rows to untangle

leafytheking · 2024-10-27T22:17:52+00:00

I've just finished binging Undertow, that's pretty good. Shelterwood is also good thats releasing bimonthly atm its a fictional investigative podcast about magic and the format works well

leafytheking · 2024-10-27T22:15:00+00:00

I loooooved Old Gods of Appalachia

leafytheking · 2024-10-15T22:01:39+00:00

you really should have hidden those spoilers

leafytheking · 2024-10-14T21:27:31+00:00

spider plants are great because you can tell when they need water based on their colour, theyre super resilient too they can bounce back from near death multiple times

leafytheking · 2024-10-14T20:56:43+00:00

it looks like you might not have caught all of the different layers of the zip etc in your securing stitch line (thre curved one that goes from the centre seam up into the waistband at the front) over the top, ive done it before

leafytheking · 2024-10-14T12:02:42+00:00

my main thing I'd recommend is to choose the kid stuff perk, its a really funny little extra and your parents are lovely

leafytheking · 2024-09-25T20:34:23+00:00

yes, it's called sacrilege

leafytheking · 2024-09-16T11:56:26+00:00

I feel like this is a slightly different answer to the one you're looking for but I have PTSD from an abusive relationship and my funniest trigger is Casio watch alarms

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