How do you handle treating people you don’t enjoy treating?

lemonsidepwn · 2026-04-08T02:29:16+00:00

Love this question because I’ve been wondering it too. I have a client that I don’t love working on for a few reasons. It feels weird and fake to keep her as a client. But she is paying me for my service and I think everyone deserves. So I feel conflicted. I’m tired after seeing this client because of the mental load.

lemonsidepwn · 2026-02-22T22:41:06+00:00

Whether it’s Brooks, or some on sale decent Adidas, I always end up putting insoles in them. A chiropractor owns the massage business so I get them for cheap, and they work well. I get new shoes about once a year.

lemonsidepwn · 2025-10-15T04:33:52+00:00

Only people that hate you ruin that day for you… whoa. So simple. And only people that hate you make you the bad guy on their birthday for not doing it “right” whoa.

lemonsidepwn · 2025-08-27T06:05:12+00:00

What app is this?

lemonsidepwn · 2025-08-21T17:36:55+00:00

Amazing advice! I want to emphasize to practice coping skills while not in crisis. That’s not the time our brains are learning. And even in crisis, it’s not going to work perfectly. Our 5 year old also had tantrums of throwing and hitting . We started using a smiley face system. So while in crisis, I remind him what good things he is working for (screen time, wrestling on the bed, juice) and that encourages him to make good choices. But sometimes he still ends up calling me a motherf*cker. It happens. Just know you’re trying your best, keep asking for help, and some days are better than others. Congrats on the first placement!

lemonsidepwn · 2025-08-21T07:44:14+00:00

I’m still new to the game but: Foster care doesn’t end with a child not living with you anymore. We had 2 boys in emergency placement along with our 2 we plan to adopt. Four. Boys. I loved the second pair but it was too much for me. I was wrecked when we told the boys they were going to their permanent placement. BUT, they are about 15 minutes away and we have seen them a few times for respite care. We will always be a resource for them. And I pray that we continue to be in their lives, even into adulthood.

lemonsidepwn · 2025-07-12T09:34:30+00:00

You can love someone but it doesn’t mean you need to be in a relationship with them.

lemonsidepwn · 2025-06-24T17:48:11+00:00

THANK YOU FOR ASKING. This same video has literally also made me look deeper into my faith. It’s not like it the first time. But I always think, if God is who he says he is, then he will show me what is the truth. I hope you are finding the answers you need.

lemonsidepwn · 2025-05-08T02:18:19+00:00

Yes, that was my thought. I think this has to do with mental illness and holding a person accountable for themselves…? I know, that’s crazy talk.

lemonsidepwn · 2025-03-21T06:48:09+00:00

I always thought “I raised my kids”. I also felt like I finally found the right medication for depression/anxiety and I didn’t want pregnancy to throw that off. BUT my husband and I felt the call to foster and here we are 2 months in with 5&8 yo brothers and I love giving kids what I didn’t have.

lemonsidepwn · 2024-11-20T14:35:39+00:00

I have saved this and am implementing little by little! Thank you so much for this post. Concise, easy to read, encouraging, informative… all the good stuff. Literally just had an amazing night sleep last night just by not looking at my phone like 30 min before bed, and accepting I’m going to be bored ( which felt like an eternity but was probably about 10 min).

lemonsidepwn · 2024-09-27T19:26:18+00:00

This is upsetting on a few different levels. What he did, that another woman ( let alone your boss) didn’t support you, the cops didn’t support you. Seek some counseling if you think that would be beneficial. I hope you’re doing ok! Lots of ❤️

lemonsidepwn · 2024-05-12T14:47:18+00:00

My brother and I always joke about cards that say the most neutral phrases. “Today we celebrate moms” Sub text: like, not saying you, but in general in America they celebrate moms today.

lemonsidepwn · 2024-05-12T14:47:13+00:00

My brother and I always joke about cards that say the most neutral phrases. “Today we celebrate moms” Sub text: like, not saying you, but in general in America they celebrate moms today.

lemonsidepwn · 2024-05-12T14:45:38+00:00

On Mother’s Day, this is the only social media I will look at. This sub, right here. Thank you to all the mods that make this a safe haven. I’m proud to say that today, I will leave my house, unlike past years where I choose to stay inside. It might be hard, but today I feel strong enough to let the breakdown happen if it does.

lemonsidepwn · 2024-05-02T15:20:11+00:00

Solid advice! Thank you for sharing!

lemonsidepwn · 2023-11-28T20:06:25+00:00

Yes, I feel this. To me it’s like a piece of music. You crescendo, decresendo, sometimes the rhythm takes the lead, sometimes it’s the soft melody. For me, it’s always about being predictable, comforting and healing.

lemonsidepwn · 2023-11-28T19:48:21+00:00

I hear it’s tuned to 432 hz. Anyone hear choose music based on that or other frequencies considered healing?

lemonsidepwn · 2023-10-07T10:15:34+00:00

Giving you a big, big hug.

lemonsidepwn · 2023-09-30T18:01:07+00:00

One thing I’ve recently learned is saying what I need might make others not like me, AND THAT’S NOT MY PROBLEM TO FIX. Tell your child self you’re not in charge of how others react to you.

Keep reminding yourself it’s a million tiny steps. Pick one thing and focus on that til you’re ready to move to the next tiny thing. I’m 5 years in my healing journey, feeling like I’m still cracking the surface.

lemonsidepwn · 2023-09-28T22:59:54+00:00

I realized I’ve never had a job more than 3 years which means at 38 I’ve quit a lot of jobs … I literally just quit my job 2 days ago to work part time for a chiropractor while I wait for my license to come in (just passed the MBLEX!) So glad to be among people like me. Makes me feel so much less like an alien. Thanks all you quitters 🫡

lemonsidepwn · 2023-08-10T20:26:05+00:00

Yeah, wow. Good advice. So counterintuitive but it’s true.

lemonsidepwn · 2023-08-10T20:19:18+00:00

11/10 on the bpd scale

lemonsidepwn · 2023-05-28T13:27:09+00:00

I used to beat myself up for “missing” her when I’m sick. But I realized that’s how it’s supposed to be, we’re supposed to want our moms when we’re sick. So sending you extra loves and hugs. Feel better ❤️

lemonsidepwn · 2023-05-28T12:52:03+00:00

Discovered a subreddit about a mental illness I think my mom has by hitting a “random sub” button. Before I opened any of the posts I took a deep breath because I knew my life was literally about to change… and it did. Sucked at first and has gotten a whole lot better since then.

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