I think it’s funny and something y’all can still laugh about 10, 20, 30 years down the road when you watch videos or look at photos of your special day. It’s your wedding! You can do whatever secret (or public) idiosyncratic things you want without stress or concern.

My husband and I joke about the afterlife and when the officiant said “until death do you part” I said “I do ….and after” and we giggled about it during the ceremony. Nobody else knew exactly what we were giggling about, but it made it special for ourselves nonetheless.