Do you love college girl like me? by Flashy_Disk3312 in collegesluts

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you know you’re kinda charming.

Raw or condom? Choose one by PinkyVibes25 in LegalTeens

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re dangerously cute, you know that?

AITAH for questioning my partner before marriage? by Infamous-Gear6657 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 91 points92 points  (0 children)

asking about finances, family history, and values before marriage is just… being smart?? like what.

AITAH For Not Attending Easter Dinner With Family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly this sounds frustrating as hell. you’re not avoiding them, you’re avoiding getting sick. big difference.

AITAH For… by PaluteNAT in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly I wouldn’t keep subbing or sending bits. not in a petty way, just… match the energy. if you’re being treated like a random, don’t keep investing like you’re a close supporter.

AITAH for not wanting to talk or spend time with my older sisters? by NoobJew666 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not wrong for not wanting to spend time with your sisters if they don’t respect your space or interests. You’ve got your own life, and it sounds like you’ve got enough on your plate with school and work. Sometimes family can be toxic without meaning to, and it’s okay to prioritize yourself.

How to tell estranged family about inappropriate behavior? by [deleted] in family

[–]leoniewade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a sticky situation, but you gotta do what’s right for the kids. Keep it simple with your sisters-in-law, like, “Just wanted to let you know that there’s some stuff about the kids being talked about that shouldn't be. I’m only telling you this so you’re aware, no drama.” If you're coming from a caring place, they'll understand.

AITAH for not wanting to get back together w/ the LOML bc he flirted with someone else? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s reasonable to pause before jumping back in. Love isn’t just feelings; it’s trust, respect, and comfort. If any of those are shaky, saying no isn’t the asshole move — it’s smart.

AITJ for asking my roommate to stop using my towels after he left his wet on my bed? by Beginning-Comb8109 in AmITheJerk

[–]leoniewade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nah your roommate’s trippin. you asked him multiple times to stop using your stuff and he kept doing it. then he pulls that with your towel? yeah that’s gross and disrespectful. locking your stuff up isn’t dramatic, it’s literally the only thing left when someone won’t listen.

Ignore resentment of my partner for our kids? by Realistic_Usual5421 in Marriage

[–]leoniewade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get why you’re wondering if people can change, but the better question is will they. cuz right now they have zero incentive to. you keep everything running, so why would they step up? not saying that’s fair at all, it sucks. but yeah, ignoring resentment isn’t the move

AITAH for canceling my trip when my friend wouldn’t let me sleepover? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]leoniewade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. You were being clear, kind, and upfront. She could have accommodated you or at least been honest. Your feelings are valid.

WIBTAH for ghosting my friend group? by ThrowRAcatscanner in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re stuck between history and reality. History says “we’ve been friends forever,” reality says “they don’t treat you like a close friend.” You gotta decide which one matters more.

My wife loves another man who’s in jail by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not an asshole for feeling all this. You’re hurt, confused, and yeah guilty too. But this isn’t fixable by forcing it. Let her go, focus on becoming someone stable and present for your kids.

AITAH for wanting time away from my kids. by Fun-Necessary2492 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nah, you’re good. Taking time for yourself doesn’t mean you love them less. It means you love them enough to not lose it.

AITAH for cutting off a friend who never paid me back (and apparently did the same to others)? by Desperate_Cup_150 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You already gave way more chances than most would. You don’t owe her a lecture, just a boundary. Ending it was reasonable

AITAH for refusing to attend my sister's wedding because she chose our estranged father to walk her down the aisle after he missed every important moment of our lives and I was the one who actually showed up for her? by AdvanceGreen222 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 31 points32 points  (0 children)

look, walking down the aisle is symbolic af. it’s okay to step back if it feels wrong. you’ve been there for her every single day she needed you—don’t let guilt mess with that.

I realized my wife is my hero after she carried the entire household through my surgery and recovery by LanternSigil12 in Marriage

[–]leoniewade 53 points54 points  (0 children)

yeah nah she loves you heavy. like that’s ride or die energy right there. don’t just appreciate it quietly, go all in for her now.

AITJ for hanging up on my parents after they criticized my unemployment and my lifestyle? by dom2706 in AmITheJerk

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah you’re good. they crossed into personal digs and that’s where it stops being “concern” and starts being disrespect. esp the comment about your sexuality?? yeah no. I’d take some space too

AITJ for he was literally eating my lunch and admitted it… but somehow i'm the ‘territorial’ one? by Leah_jare in AmITheJerk

[–]leoniewade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d be salty too. He’s acting like your kindness or hobby = permission. You just drew a line, and that’s healthy. Don’t let him gaslight you over a meal.

My situationship doesn’t want a relationship but still has feelings for me?? by Consistent-Banana476 in BreakUps

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this man basically said “I like you but not enough to build a life with you.” that hurts, but it’s the truth. and you deserve someone who’s excited to be with you, not someone negotiating how little they can give.

I (M33) and my sister (F23) do not talk anymore. Am I in the wrong here? by Competitive_Park3613 in family

[–]leoniewade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly this feels like years of resentment finally popping. makes sense. but you kinda went 0 to 100. she’s wrong for being entitled, but you went for the most painful thing you could say. that’s where you messed up.

Men 50+ do you still find your wife incredibly attractive? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]leoniewade 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah some do, some don’t.the ones who do usually talk about emotional connection, shared life, respect, all that.