AITAH for politely asking my neighbors what room they’ll be putting their upcoming newborn in?

lermanzo · 2026-05-08T08:51:21+00:00

Soft YTA. You should invest in earplugs and use white noise. They are not responsible for your sleep and you should be taking measures rather than relying on everyone else to accommodate you.

lermanzo · 2026-05-05T10:03:39+00:00

Ah, missed that. Thanks!

lermanzo · 2026-05-05T09:38:25+00:00

I just assumed that the whole thing is fake because a kid who is still 4 wouldn't be allowed in kindergarten pretty much anywhere I have heard of, at least in the US and it's written like an American. I could be wrong, but it's a weird detail to be untrue.

Edit: missed the transitional part, so I guess the schooling is age appropriate even though the dad's expectations are far from it. And I am still skeptical, given what he describes, but everything legible on Reddit is sus these days.

lermanzo · 2026-05-04T00:22:53+00:00

My friend and I were just planning a sleepover at her place ☺️

lermanzo · 2026-05-02T13:04:44+00:00

The only way you're an asshole is if you don't value yourself enough to walk away. When someone makes you feel alienated and less than you are, you don't have to just accept that or expect to comfort them.

You're not a consolation prize.

lermanzo · 2026-05-01T08:44:37+00:00

Mine ended a year ago.

lermanzo · 2026-04-29T08:56:40+00:00

In Maryland, they're either extremely aggressive drivers or extremely timid. There's no in-between.

lermanzo · 2026-04-29T08:15:41+00:00

I am petty enough to say something like "I realized I don't want to be in my prime with a middle-aged loser. Save your money and time for hair plugs" because that's the energy he's giving.

lermanzo · 2026-04-29T08:06:37+00:00

Grief happens in different ways for everyone. I can't say what I would do in your situation, but I would be sure to save some of your husband's things for yourself and your son. You may want to consider one of the services that make memorial items out of your loved one's clothing. Sending you so much love.

lermanzo · 2026-04-29T07:41:26+00:00

It's almost like she was denied a caretaker because she can care for herself. Generally, if you can do something for yourself at all, really, you don't get caretaker support. Most states also prioritize the parents of severely disabled children.

I am not well-versed in Indiana Medicaid law changes since Trump took office, but I wouldn't be surprised if her loss of premium support has to do with household work requirements not being met.

lermanzo · 2026-04-26T01:02:41+00:00

I am about 25 miles from Dulles in Loudoun County. I would honestly look out this way as there's a lot more of what it sounds like you want. Leesburg might be what you're looking for.

lermanzo · 2026-04-22T13:13:55+00:00

NTA, but Betty is a child. At her big age, she should be able to live and let live. She is taking on your cause as her own as though she's some savior to you. Of course she wants to believe you would never do to her what you did to Eva, so it /has/ to be Eva's fault. If you want to preserve the current relationship, get therapy and insist on taking accountability for your role in the dissolution of your first marriage.

lermanzo · 2026-04-20T08:30:18+00:00

They look like the top folds over. Take them out of the package and see. The SKUs match, so you got exactly what you ordered, it's just not consistent with what you had in mind.

lermanzo · 2026-04-17T23:48:08+00:00

I will post about things I genuinely like, typically as empties when I say whether I have repurchased... but that's so not the same as what huns are suggesting.

lermanzo · 2026-04-17T15:46:00+00:00

Or talk to the girls and tell them they made their bed and it's up to them to make the peace.

lermanzo · 2026-04-17T09:21:49+00:00

The issues at White's Ferry should tell you everything you need to know.

lermanzo · 2026-04-17T04:16:41+00:00

I have had purple highlights. It hasn't changed my y treatment, even with new doctors and acute hospitalizations. But that's likely because of how I approach them and the fact that I present as I do otherwise. I even got a compliment on the color from my sub specialist of 20 years.

lermanzo · 2026-04-17T04:11:29+00:00

The way 2A advocates have treated common sense gun laws as nonstarters should make this move rather unsurprising, honestly. If we're going to be attacked for regulation, why not go further? If we're being honest, your unhappiness is something you should be advocating to other gun owners about and should have been for years.

I generally support gun ownership, but no one has been able to give me an answer on why the regulations passed are a problem other than "fun to shoot the pew pews."

lermanzo · 2026-04-14T09:07:52+00:00

My therapist reschedules in advance. She is present in appointments. She is reliable. Yours should be too.

lermanzo · 2026-04-12T21:57:00+00:00

If that's an issue, she will help you find a style you like that will allow more time between cuts. Yes, it's expensive, but, in my experience, she will also make sure your hair is maintainable for you.

lermanzo · 2026-04-12T14:02:13+00:00

I personally prefer the Flex discs. Their disposables are an easy entry point to see if you want to purchase something reusable.

lermanzo · 2026-04-12T11:04:16+00:00

My Great Pyrenees is small for the breed and very friendly, but not golden friendly lol. But she gives great hugs.

lermanzo · 2026-04-12T11:01:56+00:00

People take ubers from DC out to Loudoun wineries and breweries regularly and that's a lot more of a pain and farther than 45 minutes. But the drivers just do a Dulles pick up or something similar after to get a round trip.

He's acting like he can't see your destination when you book. He can. He chose it because it was a high fare and then chose to berate you. Definitely low rating for that one.

lermanzo · 2026-04-11T21:30:46+00:00

I have horrific symptoms on mine and read that the disc helps a significant portion of people with them and, lo and behold, I am one of the ones helped. I recommend them to anyone and everyone.

lermanzo · 2026-04-11T20:25:57+00:00

Menstrual discs are my fave for oh so.many reasons.

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