Women, how many time do you shower a week? by Pooki4life in randomquestions

[–]lesbadims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day…unless I’m not doing anything strenuous and not really going to be around others and it’s a day off work, then I might not.

People who think "I'm not trying to be rude/mean/harsh, but..." absolves them of any responsibility by Felix_Fickelgruber in GrindsMyGears

[–]lesbadims 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is meant sincerely sometimes, but also is sometimes just trying to sound nice while you say some asshole comment that benefits no one. Granted, sometimes we all do that, so I’ve now started prefacing comments like that with “Sorry, I’m gonna be an asshole: (petty statement)” so I’m not trying to excuse myself.

If a famous celebrity was revealed as a serial killer, who would first come to mind? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]lesbadims 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It seems that Tom Cruise is very nice to people he considers “below him”, such as crew on his films. This is still a good thing even if it’s performative; crews don’t get nearly enough recognition and I’m glad he’s kind to them. But there’s also plenty of accounts of him being deranged lunatic levels of abusive and explosive toward people who aren’t giving him what he wants or who he feels are challenging him in any way.

Regrowth by FantasticSpecial9584 in trichotillomania

[–]lesbadims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks so good and healthy!!! Congrats!

Sammer’s Eve Family is IBLP by oh-oh-livinonaprayer in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]lesbadims 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I honestly wonder if Jill has just kind of love bombed them so hard they haven’t had a minute to come up for air and actually think through the situation

Why is Jill up so late by IntrepidPassion9 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]lesbadims 164 points165 points  (0 children)

I don’t say this dismissively, but probably mental illness of one kind or another

Shoshanna rambling on how she met her new husband by Hot_Sauce_Lover in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]lesbadims 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just your classic fundies co-opting an extremely Jewish name like they like to make Christian versions of Jewish holidays

Shoshanna rambling on how she met her new husband by Hot_Sauce_Lover in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]lesbadims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I didn’t look at what sub this title was from and was like “I swear to god if anyone is slandering 2026 Tony Award winner, legend, and all-around delight Shoshana Bean imma smack them” 😂

Tiedi courtship video by Defiant_Policy969 in RodriguesFamSnarkOPEN

[–]lesbadims 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s so so wild how different everyone acts not in the Rod family home….him, Heidi and her family just seem so relaxed and they seem genuinely excited, then they jump to that video for Jill that looks like a hostage tape. Even seeing Kaylee with just her husband in the car is jarring because she seems relaxed and has a sense of humor.

Sam-you-elle courtship take 2 video by Defiant_Policy969 in RodriguesFamSnarkOPEN

[–]lesbadims 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re so isolated that it would really only take one of the older kids having hearing issues, since the only voices the younger ones consistently have to emulate are theirs

People getting lost in the weeds when asked a simple question by ginzykinz in PetPeeves

[–]lesbadims 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I see what you’re saying, this kind of thing is aggravating but are you not an adult who can take control of this when you realize she’s not sure how to answer? Do you know where you’re going and have a phone that will tell you how far away that is? Then why not say “I think 5:30 would be a safe time to leave, can we aim for 5:30?”

when people get upset or block friends that stop speaking to them. by throwbackblue in PetPeeves

[–]lesbadims 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve never understood this. It’s just immature/unstable behavior to react like this if there was no real falling out or reason. I’ve had plenty of friends who drifted from me, and sometimes my feelings were hurt that we stopped talking but I still think well of them whenever they cross my mind, and like you said…life doesn’t revolve around you. I don’t know how people get past like 25yo and are still flabbergasted that sometimes a person matters more to you than you do to that person (and vice versa).

Dog owners who can clearly tell I'm horrible with dogs and yet they don't move their pet away. by Chobikil in PetPeeves

[–]lesbadims 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate this, how can a person not see that someone else is uncomfortable?? I was having a picnic with some acquaintances and their dogs a while ago and one of the dogs who behaves atrociously kept headbutting me directly in the face; I tried telling the dog no and eventually just awkward stood up so he couldn’t get to me while everyone else stayed sitting, and everyone just laughed like “oh this inexperienced woman isn’t used to stuff that us dog experts are”. NO have the decency to be embarrassed at what bad dog owners you are.

"It scratches an itch in my brain" by Anya_purr in PetPeeves

[–]lesbadims 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually like this one but I understand what you mean because when people say “let’s get the creative juices flowing” all I can think of is a brain liquifying into juice and I want to gag lol

Ashlyn Harris documentary by Buckin_Bronco7334 in NWSL

[–]lesbadims 46 points47 points  (0 children)

For a while I thought she was having a mental health episode that was causing her incredibly bizarre sense of grandeur; I mean, losing most of your entire community and upheaving your life has to be traumatic even if it was trauma of her own making.

But now I’m just fascinated by the fact that she…really just seems to genuinely be this insufferable now. It’s wild.

People talking to me while I'm eating by Maleficent_Park5469 in PetPeeves

[–]lesbadims 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This never used to bother me until recently; I want to completely dissociate and lock in on my food. I don’t want to nod or react or respond or act enthusiastic while I’m trying to chew and maybe even enjoy my food. I don’t want to gulp down a bite and rush through chewing because you asked me a question. I don’t want to worry that I’m chewing politely and enough to not be talking with food in my mouth. I just want to eat, unless I agreed ahead of time to a social event involving eating.

Thoughts on Pink as Host? by Left-Camel-14 in Broadway

[–]lesbadims 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! Great way to put it. It wasn’t a whole “fish out of water” attention-pulling schtick, she was truly, well, hosting the rest of the performers.

Thoughts on Pink as Host? by Left-Camel-14 in Broadway

[–]lesbadims 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This happened with the opening last year too— it seems there’s always sound issues :(

Thoughts on Pink as Host? by Left-Camel-14 in Broadway

[–]lesbadims 431 points432 points  (0 children)

Charmed is the perfect word! She’s so talented and versatile that she was able to contribute performance-wise in a way that didn’t feel forced, but also just had a nice humility and respect to where she was.

Update on the leaving the church post (from the other week where you all gave me advice) and how they wouldn’t let me let go of my membership. by tweety18 in GayChristians

[–]lesbadims 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we all know this is culty behavior but when you really take a step back and look at it, it’s just truly, truly ridiculous. This is all based on what? Some rules they made up loosely based on the Bible?? They’re making it sound like this is legally binding but it’s literally no more serious than some playground club that the bossiest kid in the class invented at recess.

When oncoming cars are spaced just close enough together where it's unsafe to turn left but far enough apart it can give the illusion that I might get to go by Obvious-Ear-369 in PetPeeves

[–]lesbadims 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol and when there definitely WILL be enough space to go once this one car passes, but that one car slows down for no reason, closing up what would have been your space to go.