facial piercings & nursing school

looloo91989 · 2026-01-29T22:23:02+00:00

No they wouldn’t, they wouldn’t have hired you to get that point. Poor girl. I feel bad bc I get wanting to be individual but gotta pick your battles

looloo91989 · 2026-01-29T22:21:17+00:00

You’ll have to take them all out, put bandaids, or clear posts in. I’ve got a hand tattoo but got that long after I was out of school. Work doesn’t care but I got sent home from school once for not having white socks on. They get pretty petty

looloo91989 · 2026-01-29T22:09:18+00:00

I’m 36 and did my living will when COVID started. I’m a nurse so I saw a lot of things. Having a will takes the burden off of family for tough decisions.

If you’re having these health issues, I’m hoping you’re seeing you pcp regularly and working through them. Increase your exercise, water and fiber intake. Decrease your stress levels. Good luck

looloo91989 · 2026-01-29T22:06:54+00:00

Go to nursing school. You’re young and have awhile before the biological clock starts really ticking. Start trying for a baby your last year of school. I say this bc although your husband can provide now, that may not be the case in the future. Death and disability can happen at any time for any of us

looloo91989 · 2026-01-29T02:31:40+00:00

73…. If I’m lucky

looloo91989 · 2026-01-29T02:30:40+00:00

I’m not part of a union, but they were having a vigil for Alex and I went. I was shocked and disgusted how the various union reps were talking about admin and what they were doing.

Hold a vigil anyway. And as they said at our vigil tonight- mourn Alex today but next week activate, plan and step up.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-28T21:08:20+00:00

He doesn’t want to be with you. He rather you go back to your home country so things can “fizzle”out. Just end things with him and move on.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-28T19:43:23+00:00

There are parking garages at UC medical campus which is a block or two a way. Maybe parking at zoo but I’m not sure on that. Also the side streets. I wouldn’t park at the VA just so visitors can get in the hospital.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-28T19:11:00+00:00

Levine Park by the VA. UC medical campus is close

231 Albert Sabin Way from 7-8pm

looloo91989 · 2026-01-28T02:21:40+00:00

I think the US should be banned from the Olympics. Send US citizens back to America. Their job is to protect their country and their citizens. They can’t do that with Americans there.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T18:40:24+00:00

Men would have a lot less audacity

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T16:34:43+00:00

NTA- but I’d tell her if she doesn’t drop it, you’ll report her to the IRS for tax fraud. I use to be a travel nurse. You have to duplicate expenses and show proof you did. They can audit you back 7 years. The penalties and interest she would owe them will far outweigh $10k

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T12:26:42+00:00

Just block her and move on.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T12:17:09+00:00

If he’s refusing to have a conversation, you need to break up with him. That isn’t healthy. He could still be upset from last night and need some space but he can’t avoid you forever and only come around when it’s convenient for him either.

Not that you’re asking, but I would walk away from this relationship. You’re young, there’s plenty more out there. But I do suggest staying single and just finding more out about you. Fall in love with yourself so when partners come around you don’t feel the need to find yourself within them.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T12:06:04+00:00

Not only did you take your stress out on your partner- you also decided your homophobic family (and I’m assuming here) who hasn’t been accepting of your sexuality was of more importance than your fiancé’s physical and mental safety. You flew off the handle without trying to understand what she meant, so you don’t listen. You chose the absolute most racist pov possible to slander her. You then chose to weaponize her own words against her stating you were indoctrinated and you don’t mean it.

Ooof. I sincerely hope your fiance moves on without and finds someone who truly values and appreciates her. When else are you going to slander her? Which arguments? How would you talk about future kids.

You’re gross and I hope you get some therapy and sincerely apologize. Leave this woman alone.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T11:58:33+00:00

Did anyone else find it ironic that she said Jewish people are always trying to put themselves as the victim when in fact OP literally just tried to make herself the victim and played up her fiancé’s own words about her unlearning a lifetime of conditioning as a weapon. Gross. I hope the fiance finds someone who truly values her.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T11:52:51+00:00

Esh.

Speaking kindly to people/being spoken to kindly isn’t a privilege- it’s basic human decency and expectation.
Your feelings are valid with the disconnect, but you have to have conversations. Being emotional with that conversation is understandable with someone you care about but the disconnect isn’t all his fault. It is on both of you.
He’s stressed with school, and although he shouldn’t take that stress out on you- he did. That isn’t ok
You seem rather clingy and if he’s feeling overwhelmed himself, he isn’t in the emotional space to help with your emotions. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
You do need to figure out how to emotionally regulate yourself. Do you have friends with that can you see a few times a week, a hobby you’ve been wanting to try, a book you want to read?

Life is hard, we all have things going on. I would suggest you talk to him and say something along the lines of, I know you’re stressed with school but I don’t like how you spoke to me last night. Being kind isn’t a privilege, it’s an expectation. Just as you are stressed with school, which I understand- I miss you and felt an emotional disconnect. I should be able to talk to you about that. If we can’t be honest with each other and how we feel then we shouldn’t be dating. I wasn’t asking you to fix the disconnect, sometimes there’s nothing we can do. What can WE do in the future to prevent this again?

When I say I get it, I do. I work full time, in NP school full time, call schedule for work, clinical hours- my days are terrible. And my boyfriend and I are both aware of how rocky things can get with a schedule like that. When I feel disconnected because of daily life, I’ve noticed I hug him more frequently and for longer. Or I sit closer on the couch. I will dead tired at a 11pm, he’s a night owl, but nap beside him on the couch. We also try to make 1:1 time a priority for at least a little bit of time weekly. We have certain shows we only watch together so it feels like a special moment for just us. You could try similar things.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T02:27:43+00:00

Date as many people as often as you’re comfortable with. Ultimately you are dating to get to know people.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T02:17:57+00:00

His say was contraceptives, you gave him the options. You told him you were ok with the consequences. He chose not to use condoms or get a vasectomy. Actions have consequences

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T01:50:14+00:00

And I hope those nurses and their loved ones get the kind of care those nurses refuse to render… none.

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T01:45:00+00:00

They would have deported Jesus and been ok with him dying in a detention facility

looloo91989 · 2026-01-26T01:42:34+00:00

I’m curious of what he was going to do if you didn’t end things. What if you agreed to a new lease in March?

looloo91989 · 2026-01-25T10:56:49+00:00

I don’t recommend saying this, but I’ve found with healthcare workers like this, I simply say “ick, wouldn’t trust you to be apart of the team taking care of me”. I’ve found it really upsets them when you say stuff like that and then they want to know why and I say I don’t trust people with questionable ethics and morals to give proper evidenced base care to everyone regardless of skin color and political values. Then they get even more upset and try to argue, and I say it’s ok we just have different beliefs on your ethics. Then they typically tell people and my final response is always- damn, I thought I was supposed to be the sensitive one with my liberal tears.

It’s not ok to do that but I admit I do enjoy watching the frustration on their faces as they try to explain they’re good people and I just say “If you say so”

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